Pointers for Luv
 
   Guys/Gals.
 
 
   Here are some tips for understanding the opp sex.
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   I'm referring especially to those gals with pretty looks.
   Look! most guys, I believe, do understand all gals want
   to be felt appreciated. Most gals somehow want to be
   'popular-girl' among guys. But if you like and are serious
   about a guy, you better quit that idea of being pop-girl!
 
   Frankly speaking, most men are petty and cannot stand
   this kinda flirtateous attitude! Don't make yourself
   'expansive' as if teasing around with a bait in front of
   a fish. Look! It won't work!!!! Don't think that you've
   lotsa so-call boy friends. There're some guys who enjoy
   playing flirtateous along with you. Chances are they only
   like your look and body! Once you hint to that guy that
   you like him,you're actually turning on the Red Bull
   dozer!! There's no turn back! If that guy gets really
   pissed off, he'll never ever want to bother you ever
   again even if you show sexy eyes in front of him. Hey!
   That also applies to pretty gals who're around 20's.
   If you fear that you'll never get married and have children
   before 30, better change that sick attitude!
 
   So, watch out!
   --If YOU do not like that guy, don't slam 'NO' into his
      face!!! Don't just slam 'NO' into his face like a pie!!!
      It gives a damn bad after-taste. Chances are you're
      going to lose as many male friends as you can in your
      circle once words start flying around. Don't you give
      excuses thinking that your Prince hasn't come yet.
      Don't dream! Don't believe that myth!
      Even if your prince comes,he'll turn you down be'coz
      of your attitude!
      So, say something in a tactful way like 'Sorry, I'm not
      ready' or 'Lets be friend first'. Don't hide around like
      a chicken from that guy as if he's going  to rape YOU!
 
      Just live your life with it. You should be glad that
      there're guys wooing you afterall ! Go with him a
      movie or dinner date if you feel like it. It doesn't mean
      anything but just friends. Be friendly and nice to him.
      There's no harm knowing a guy, lady!
      Who knows, maybe later you will find true love with
      each other after all!
      Who knows!!!
      This is an open universe! The guy who you eventually
      live together with may be the person you hate to see most!!
 
    --If YOU like that guy but want to remain just friend,
       be careful!!!
 
       Hey gals listen here! do you know that women  (with
       good look or simple look) do have some kinda in-born
       magnetic charm to all men? Look into your histroy book!
       What made a man give up his kingship? What had caused
       a king to war on other states??? Ask deep inside yourself.
       What makes a guy turn on?
 
       Some know about it and don't know to use it. Some live
       until very old and realise it :-0 However, most gals use
       it without realising it and often refuse to admit that they
       use it. Alamak gals! you always complain that men are
       not sensitive enough, how come you also ley...?
 
       Be carefull lar.. you can turn on your charm at men but
       don't abuse it without realising it. Be sensitive in what
       you say and do to men. Do you know, this is men's
       weakness and emotional need !  But once men realise
       that they'll avoid you like a whore overnight :)
       Do you know, I do have some wonderful female friends
       who know how to handle this well. I take my hat off to
       them. In fact, I do enjoy their charm but at a limit!
 
       Now The Guys
       Single guys must be sensitive in certain things:-
 
    --If YOU like that gal, be sincere and patience and back off!
 
       Be sincere and patience. Shower all your care and love
       but not overwhelm her. Give her space to breathe. Do not,
       I mean DO NOT, always ask what she does and where
       she goes. Even if she likes you, doesn't mean that she
       likes you completely!
 
       Hey guys! back off and give her time to digest! Don't find
       opportunities to let her know you, but give her time to find
       opportunities to know you. Don't be petty! Yes! She can go
       on a date with another guy and you damn better to respect
       her choice. Instead, ask her how's the date and whether
       she enjoys it. Yes! Don't be a jealous pig! Most gals will
       get turn off by that!
 
       Remember guys, most gals like guys  with open and warm
       heart. Its the quality that they seek from guys. If you don't
       have, you better wake up and learn!
       Be patience with her and reserve the word 'I love You'
       for the best time! Yes! don't say that! If you can't control
       and say it to her, most possible reply is
       "Sorry, I don't have any feeling for you".
       Then you may have to pick up from there and start all
       over again. Or, if she's that type who can't handles well,
       she will avoid you forever like a serial rapist  :)
       Just say ' I like you'. Once she can digest and accept
       the realty, you stand a chance! Got it!
 
    --If YOU do not like that gal, don't say anything!!!
 
       Guys, this is the area you need to be hyper-sensitive.
       If you do not like that gal, don't, I MEAN IT!, say anything.
       If you happen to come across such situation, don't say 'NO'
       but tell her that you enjoy your friendship with her.
       Do not avoid her like a whore, you'll hurt her feeling!
       Be her friend and best buddy. Find time to understand and
       love her as your own little sister.
 
       How? I won't tell you. Its for you to find out.
       Once she realise that, she'll back off quietly.
       Yes! most gals can get over it easily in such issue not guys.
       And you guys better not mention it to others.
       Just shut your mouth (JSYM) !!!
 
    --If YOU like that gal but want to remain just friend,
       then you better hope that you get attached soon!!!
 
       Why? How many times have you guys see the situation
       whereby many guys woo a gal? How many times that
       situation is reversed? Ask around and get know to the
       fact! Like I say, don't avoid her. Avoiding cannot solve
       the problem. Be her friend. Introduce your friends to her
       including female friends. Never refuse any date initiates
       from her.
 
       Do you know guys, it takes real courage for a lady to do
       that. You should feel honoured! If you happen to like a
       lady whom she doesn't know, hide the fact from her but
       introduce that lady to her, if you've chances to do so.
       You guys have to admit lar... most of the time gals can
       see clearly in such issue When she realise, she'll back
       off quietly. But all that glitters isn't gold. There're
       tons of possibilities, who knows!!!!
       Anyway, we all have to go through much trials before
       we find true love.