A tip on how to find Mr/Ms Right

When deciding who the person is that you want to spend
the rest of your life with it's important to know how each
of you thinks, feels and acts.

Face reading can be very helpful in knowing how to respond
to your mate and how you respond.

Personology, otherwise known as Scientific Face Reading
can give you insights into your partner's behavior and your own.
It was first researched in the 1950's by Robert Whiteside
and then validated with over 1,200 people. More than 68 traits
of behavior can be determined by your physical body structure.

Structure / Function is the basis upon which this system is
built. Your physical structure: body size, facial width,
shape, width and angle of eyes, nose, lips, etc. dictates
function: how you will respond in given situations.

In love, a few major traits are important to be aware of when
looking for a long-term relationship:


PHYSICAL STRUCTURE

1. Emotional Sensitivity -
People with thin, soft, looser or porcelain-like skin tend to be
more impressionable both emotionally and physically.
They tend to be more empathetic, feeling, indecisive and
low energy. They can't stand extremes in climate: too hot or
too cold and are better off working indoors. Move slowly into
a relationship with them since they need a lot of time to "feel
you out".

People with more resilient skin: thicker, firmer or
tighter in texture are decisive and high energy. They are tough
and able to allow other's moods to bounce off them.
Very suitable for outdoors activities or jobs. You can expect
a quicker commitment or a "one night stand" from these
people. Finding someone of similar sensitivity will prevent
misunderstandings, hurt feelings and boredom.



2. Physical Insulation -
The thickness of the hair. Those with thin, fine hair you
are refined emotionally. There is a tendency to be slower
to act. Gentleness is their attribute. Quality is more
important to them than quantity. Their feelings are quite
sensitive to outside influences. Romance them and again
move slowly. Remember, what you do for them is more
important than how much.

If someone has thicker, coarser hair he/she is action oriented.
Ruggedness is their strength. Quantity is more important
than quality. They are less prone to take things personally.
Sex is more of a physical act than a romantic one.
Expect little, if any foreplay. How much you do with them
or for them is what counts. A person closer to your insulation
will make for a more natural flow emotionally and a great sex life.


3. Tolerance -
The distance between the eyes indicates tolerance. The wider
the spacing, the greater the tolerance. They are more flexible,
forgiving and tend to overlook problems. You'll find them
open-minded and willing to experiment. Give them variety
in the relationship.

The closer the spacing, the less tolerant a person will be.
They are not as flexible or forgiving and more willing to point
out the difficulties. Expect them to be set in their
beliefs and less open-minded. Find out what their beliefs are and
don't violate them. Tolerance also indicates patience or impatience.
It is very important for at least one of you to be tolerant.
Intolerance and impatience won't give the stamina to stay
in the relationship for the long term. Too much tolerance can
lead to procrastination or letting negative things or people get
out of hand before you do something about it.



4. Generosity -
The lips indicate how generous a person may be. Thick, full lips
indicate spontaneous generosity to friends and strangers
and talkativeness (generous with words).

Thin lips indicate selective generosity(only to those close)
and conciseness (select with words). The thick lipped person might
talk endlessly while the thinner lipped person wants to be brief.



5. Argumentativeness -
The chin shape is one indicator of temperament. Angular,
wedge-shaped chins indicate an argumentative or stubborn
nature. They will fight for their way and want you to give in first.
Trial lawyers and military commanders commonly have this
feature. Don't argue your point, appear to agree with
them instead. Use phrases such as "I Understand",
"I Respect", "I Appreciate". Let them think they're right and
have won, then present your ideas.

More rounded shaped chins indicate a more cooperative
attitude. They are permissive and willing to give in. It's best
to match up same chin shapes and not mix-match.



6. Money-Making Ability -
The nose indicates financial shrewdness. An angular,
downturned "Roman nose" is called the nose for value.
People with this nose tend to know the value of a dollar
and are good price shoppers. Let them make the financial
decisions and investments since they are experts at it.

An upturned nose person will usually be moreindiscriminate
with money and a poor money manager. They are better
off having someone else control the money.



7. Self-Confidence -
This is indicated by the width of the face. Broad faced
people are more naturally self confident and willing to go
after what they want with an, "I can do this" attitude.
They usually take action with limited information and
learn by the mistakes they make as they go along. They are
natural leaders and make great salespeople or public
speakers. In relationships they will go for who and
what they want with confidence that they'll get it.

Thin faced people lack natural confidence and must learn to
be confident. They will take action only after they have all of
the information in advance and have all of their questions
answered. They have difficulty pursuing their ambitions
because of the fear, "what if it fails?". Never push or force
them into anything, they'll panic and run. They should be
dealt with slowly and given all the information they need
to make their decision.


8. Foot-Dexterity -
This is indicated by the length of the legs compared
to the length of the torso. People with long legs and a
shorter torso have a poor center of gravity and are
better "off their feet". They do well sitting down and
will develop back problems if they are in jobs they
have them on their feet constantly.

Conversely, people who have shorter legs and a longer
torso have an excellent center of gravity and do very
well on their feet. They need to be on the move and
are best in jobs that keep them physically active.
On vacations, long-legged people might want to take
a cruise, go on a bus tour or lie out in the sun.

Short-legged people might want to hike up a mountain
or go on a walking tour. Finding someone closer to your
leg-length will make for more compatible activity and
work interests.



9. Idealizing -
This is indicated by the setting of the ears.
People with ears set below the tip of the nose tend
to be idealists. They are looking for that Prince
or Princess Charming and imagine how wonderful
that person will be. They fall in love with the potential
of a person and have difficulty seeing their partner
realistically.

People with ears set above the tip of the nose
tend to be more realistic in their approach to life and
relationships and will see people and situations as they are.


10. Communication Styles -
The eyebrows determine your style of communication.
Flat eyebrows set closer to the eyes tend to be more
direct in their speech and want the bottom line quicker.

Arched eyebrows tend to be more descriptive and elaborate
with details. This can drive the flat eyebrow person nuts
because they don't want to hear every detail.




11.Possessiveness -
The depth of the ears. People with ears that appear to sit
further away from the sides of the head (Ross Perot), are
very possessive and have an extreme need to collect
people, money, things. People with ears that appear
to be sit closer into the head are less possessive or collector
minded.


In relationships, if you are with a possessive type realize
that they think they "own you".

Non-possessive types are more willing to let-live.



12. Emotional Expression -

The size of the eye's iris. People with naturally larger
iris's are more apt to express their emotions and are
sentimental. They are very romantic and fall in love
quickly. They think more with their emotions and
moods. Wine and dine them. Tell them you love them
and they're yours.


Smaller iris people are reserved emotionally and
can be self-centered. They are slower to develop
feelings for another and not apt to express them so
easily. They think more logically and rationally.
Telling them "I love you" too quickly can cause
them to mistrust your intentions.




BODY TYPES

Ectomorphs -
Thin body. Ectos are primarily motivated by security financially,
emotionally or intellectually.They want a safe, protected life and
although quite slow to commit are quite loyal once they feel
secure. They have a tendency to be loners and can be
"alone in a crowd". Let them know that they are the most
special person in the world to them. "I only have eyes
for you" was probably written for them.


Mesomorphs -
Medium, athletic body type. Mesos are motivated by
recognition, power or people. Their body and
physical appearance is very important to them.
Compliments go a long way with these people.
Especially when they are complimented on their
accomplishments. Let them know how great they
are and how proud you are of what they've done.

Endomorphs -
Large, heavy body type. Endos are motivated by
acceptance, people and family.
They will love people who accept them and become
their friend. Accept them as they are and be their
best friend then you've got them.

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In any of these features or traits you may fit the
extreme or be somewhere in the middle.

It's important to combine the traits to complete the
picture of the whole person. Some traits might
conflict with others which accounts for people having
conflicts in behavior.

It can also be great to use with your friends, family and co-workers.
Face reading has been used successfully in sales, customer
relations, employee hiring, vocation direction and courtroom
jury selection. Plastic surgery or any other type of structural
alteration can hide a trait. It doesn't mean the isn't there.

A major philosophical change in attitude can change a
trait so that it's expressed differently. Use this information for
understanding yourself and others, not manipulation!


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I'd rather hear the truth,
And have to say goodbye.
I'd rather take a blow,
At least then I would know.
But baby you shouldn't break my heart so.