The following is an outline depicting tradition Asian gender roles. It is divided into four parts: the traditional roles of a father/husband, a son, a mother/wife and a daughter. More often than not, these were the values that our parents were raised with, and their parents were raised with. These traits can also often be seen in traditional cultural images of men and women such as the samurai of Japanese culture, or Maria Clara of Philippine culture. As a result of immigration and advancements in technology and economic practices, these traits and values are slowly changing, and those who practice them are finding themselves being torn between tradition and innovation. This culture clash may lead to conflicts between immigrants and their children, as well as affect the psychological well being of immigrants who are trying to assimilate into a new society.
The Male |
The Female |
As a father | As a mother |
Very protective (especially of their daughters) | Nurturing |
Strict | Listens to concerns/desires children may have |
Authoritative | Closer to
the children |
Irreproachable | Monitors their emotions |
Distant | |
As a husband | As a wife |
A leader | Dependent |
Provides
the economic well-being, supporter
|
Passive |
The
spokesperson
|
Responsible for household
|
Dominant | Less educated |
Role is to serve and "obey" husbands | |
As a son | As a daughter |
Valued
more than daughters
|
Valued
less than sons
|
Have more
leeway
|
Role is to “look pretty”, must be "pleasing to the eye" |
Eldest son is the most valued | Under
stricter rules
|
Obedient | |