Traditional Asian American Gender Roles and Values

    The following is an outline depicting tradition Asian gender roles.  It is divided into four parts:  the traditional roles of a father/husband, a son, a mother/wife and a daughter.  More often than not, these were the values that our parents were raised with, and their parents were raised with.  These traits can also often be seen in traditional cultural images of men and women such as the samurai of Japanese culture, or Maria Clara of Philippine culture.  As a result of immigration and advancements in technology and economic practices, these traits and values are slowly changing, and those who practice them are finding themselves being torn between tradition and innovation.  This culture clash may lead to conflicts between immigrants and their children, as well as affect the psychological well being of immigrants who are trying to assimilate into a new society.

The Male

The Female

   
As a father As a mother
Very protective (especially of their daughters) Nurturing
Strict Listens to concerns/desires children may have
Authoritative Closer to the children
Irreproachable Monitors their emotions
Distant  
   
  As a husband As a wife
A leader Dependent
Provides the economic well-being, supporter
  • The husband plays the role of breadwinner for the family
Passive
 The spokesperson
  • makes decisions for the family that are then to be obeyed by its members
Responsible for household
  • Takes care of the "emotional" well being of the family.
  Dominant Less educated
  Role is to serve and "obey" husbands
   
As a son As a daughter
Valued more than daughters
  • Will carry on the family name: "A daughter cannot pass on the family name - and could not be highly regarded by a traditionally agricultural society."
Valued less than sons
  •   Raised to marry and then help/serve another family
Have more leeway
  • Have more privileges, and can get away with more
Role is to “look pretty”, must be "pleasing to the eye"
Eldest son is the most valued Under stricter rules
  • Parents tend to be more protective
  • Can get away with less
  Obedient