This isn't as kinky as it sounds
Considering our goals, using a device of this type can be a source of additional spice in the relationship we are creating. People being what they are, in a situation where one person gives physical control of his sex organs to someone else, the arousal usually becomes extremely intense. The partner who wears the chastity device has given the partner who has the "key" the ability to decide when sex can take place. Since our goal is rationed ejaculation and these devices effectively prevent masturbation, it means that our program becomes that much more effective while providing an extra mental level of constant titillation. This can be a great deal of fun for both people. When you hear that click as the lock closes, and you both realize that you are holding the key, this will provide a mental rush for both parties.
As with all else in this article, I recommend
discussing and 
exploring
this option with your husband. Should you jointly decide that you are
interested in pursuing this course I would advise you to start with the device
pictured below called a CB-2000. This is an inexpensive, adjustable,
comfortable device with a fair degree of security and can be worn for long
periods undetected under clothing once the wearer becomes accustomed to it.
Even if you don’t feel concerned with the thought of masturbation, such a device is a wonderful addition to your relationship. When he is wearing a chastity device and you are holding the key, you have just magnified the amount of his attention on you! Every day that goes by as the testosterone level increases he will love you for taking control of his orgasms and you will love the new man in your life. Remind him often that you have the key.
*Note that the chastity devices such as this are not indestructible, merely tamper-resistant.
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