Rediscovering sensuality
So as discussed above, you can now view any intimate activity as an end in itself, not necessarily to be coupled with sexual intercourse as its logical endpoint. As you explore this concept you will no doubt discover your husband’s eagerness to participate in any number of intimate or personal activities. Let’s remember too that intimate times are not solely restricted by activities that involve the removal of one’s clothing.
Here are a few suggestions that you might want to explore with your husband.
“Ever
just want to talk, take him shopping with you, take quiet walks together, share
special moments, or just hold hands?” a wife asks. “Now you will have the tools
to make it happen. How about a good, old-fashioned necking session on the couch
like when you were teenagers? Kissing games? The list is limited only by your imagination.”
A
great number of wives report being able to interest their husbands in assisting
with their beautification and grooming regimens. Their husbands gladly, even
eagerly assist in giving the wife a bath, toweling her off, shaving her legs,
combing her hair, giving her a pedicure or similar grooming activities. They
enjoy these activities in part because they know they are pleasing their wives,
but they also perceive in part that they are preparing their wives, making them
more attractive and desirable for themselves. Have you ever had your husband
trim or shave your pubic hair? What about his? In preparation for social
activity, think about having your husband assist you with your lingerie,
helping you put your nylons on or helping with other articles of clothing. By
accenting the sensuality of these activities it is possible to create a certain
level of stimulation while also benefiting from your husband’s attention.
The concept we are developing is not that these are favors your husband does for which you pay with sex. Rather these activities are an end in themselves and it is you who are doing your husband the favor by allowing him proximity to your highly desirable self. A byproduct might certainly be that these attentions might tend to put you in the mood for intimate activity, but that must be a case by case decision with no automatic link to be construed.