Q: My boyfriend is uncircumcised, and I've never been with an uncut lover before. Are there different techniques for pleasing him? 

Advice from the Corel: When you get right down to it, a penis is a penis. The differences of an uncut one shouldn't intimidate you. An uncircumcised penis just has an extra layer of skin that covers the penile head. As the penis becomes erect, the foreskin automatically retracts from over the head and settles back into the shaft right beneath it — making intercourse feel no different than with a circumcised man. But it has been long debated whether an uncircumcised penis is more sensitive — and thus should be handled with a gentler approach — than a circumcised one. 

Ultimately though, it depends on the guy. Your boyfriend has undoubtedly encountered other women, who, like you, have not had an uncircumcised lover. I'm sure he'll be happy to educate you on how to handle his penis. 

While you probably won't notice any difference during intercourse, you may find hand jobs and oral sex easier than with a circumcised man. Since the foreskin moves with your hand or mouth, it does some of the work for you, lessening the amount of pressure and lubrication needed. 

If you're ready to get it on, and he's still soft, here's how to have some foreskin fun. Gently roll the skin over the head of his penis, massaging the extra skin with your fingertips. Make sure your hand is slightly moist and be gentle. Then very gradually use your hands to work the skin down from over the tip, releasing the penile head millimeter by millimeter, and, finally, pull the foreskin back as far as it will go down his shaft. Then you can lick the tip a little before rolling the skin back over the head. After a few of these penis peekaboos, he'll be erect, and the skin will be fully retracted. 

Keep in mind that every guy likes a customized performance when it comes to handling his precious part — so be receptive to instruction and let him guide you. Soon touching his penis will become so natural, you won't even remember what a circumcised one looks like

 

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