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Q: Sometimes my boyfriend asks me to go down on him after he's already been inside of me. But the thought of tasting myself is a huge turn-off. What can I do?
Advice from the Baroness: Have you even tried it? It may not be as bad as you think. See if you can be a bit open-minded and indulge him in his desire. I'm willing to bet he goes down on you without hesitation. Your natural juices probably have little, if any flavor, especially in the small quantities remaining on his penis. If your personal lube does smell or taste terrible, you should have your gyno check you for infections. But I have a feeling this problem is more a psychological hurdle than one of funky fluid.
Either way, here are two techniques to try if you just can't get passed it. When he wants you to go down on him, simply switch to a fresh condom. Voila! A clean penis. (If you haven't both been tested for STDs — and received a clean bill of health — you should be using condoms during intercourse and oral sex.) If you're not using condoms (assuming you've both tested negative for all STDs), before you have sex, have a moist cloth ready, placed in a basket on the floor near or under the bed. When your man requests his intermezzo of oral sex, reach down and secure your secret cloth. Clean his penis with sensual strokes and try to make it appear as if it's part of the action, not some scrub-a-dub-dub that you'd do on some unwanted spill. The same cloth can be used for postsex cleanup as well, instead of scrambling for tissues or towels.
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