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Q. I don't think I have a g-spot. I reached into my vagina with my finger, about two inches in, where I was told it was located, but nothing happened. When a guy touches me there, it doesn't turn me on, either. The only way I can orgasm is by clitoral stimulation. Is it possible that I don't have a G-spot, and if so, am I missing out on great orgasms?
A. Ahh. That mysterious hot button. Experts aren't even sure the G-spot exists or if everyone has one. But for argument's sake, let's say you do have one. The reason your search missions probably failed is because you weren't sufficiently aroused. (Watching a steamy movie or reading a sexy novel can help.) Next time you masturbate, wait until you're feeling really turned on, then try finding the spot. When the G-spot is stimulated correctly, its coin-sized area of spongy tissue swells up above the vaginal wall's surface, making it much easier to feel. You'll find it on the front vaginal wall, approximately halfway up between the vaginal opening and the cervix. Once you find it, it might take practice to appreciate its unique sensation.
Now for the fun part. Try out a few positions that are great for hitting the G-spot. Here's one of my favorites: Sit on your boyfriend's lap facing away from him. When he penetrates you, his penis will be angled to rub up against your frontal vaginal wall. As you move up and down on top of him, bend slightly forward so his penis hits your wall at an angle. Another good G-spot position is doggy style: Get on all fours as your boyfriend enters you from behind. Have him lean completely forward, resting his torso on your back. His penis will be angled to strike the G-spot.
Should your expeditions not yield G-gold, keep in mind that vaginal orgasms are not necessarily better or stronger than clitoral ones. They are just a different sensation. If you have strong clitoral orgasms, there's no reason to feel you're missing out. And besides, even if you never unearth your G-spot, at least you'll get a gleeful kick out of the intense search mission.
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