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Q: My man is a real sex god, and controls everything we do in the bedroom. His birthday is coming up and I want to be the one to wow him that night. Do you have any suggestions?
A: Since most men love a challenge, try setting up a treasure hunt where the final booty is — of course, you. Leave him a note or email message announcing your erotic intentions. It could start off, "This note will lead you to the best birthday surprise you've ever received." Then direct him to a series of places he must visit before he gets to your side. For example, send him to the liquor store to pick up a bottle of champagne you've already paid for, or to a lingerie boutique to pick up a sexy outfit you've purchased that's guaranteed to make him salivate when you put it on. Your final destination is, obviously, your place (or for an extra-festive air, a fancy hotel room). The effort he expends finding his way to your love lair will build some major anticipation for the event, and turn him on long before he hits the sheets.
Once you two have stripped down to your birthday suits, you can take the evening in one of two directions. Since your guy seems to enjoy calling the shots in bed, one really indulgent treat might be giving him total free reign over you. Say, "Tonight, I'm your sex slave. Your wish is my command." This carte blanche will allow him to indulge his every sexual whim and fantasy, which is a gift any guy would appreciate.
On the other hand, you might want to turn the tables on him and be the boss for the night. The perfect props to achieve this effect are light restraints, which you can use to tie him to the bed, putting him totally at your mercy. To drive him totally wild, be sure to tease him to no end: Kiss and lick him everywhere but the obvious area, or ride him so slowly he's begging for release. The longer you make him wait for the grand finale, the better it will be once he gets there — and the bigger the smirk on his face will be when he thinks back to that incredible night.
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