Q: I've heard there are certain spots you can touch that make a guy's orgasm stronger. Where are they exactly, and when and how should I touch them? Is it the same for every guy?

A: One highly pleasurable hot spot on a man is called the perineum, a quarter-sized area of skin between the scrotum and the anus. Beneath this spot lies the prostate gland, which, when stimulated, can send his orgasm off the charts. Since the gland's internal, you have to press down pretty hard — as if you were ringing a stiff doorbell — to spark the fireworks. Deciphering just the right amount of poking pressure is the tricky part, so whisper, "Do you want me to press harder? Tell me when it feels just right." With some verbal cues on his part, you can perfect your touch. As he gets closer to orgasm, press there a bit harder — and more often — to send his orgasm into orbit.
Two other common moan zones are his nipples and his buttocks. Pinch his nipples hard or squeeze his rump as he nears orgasm, and it will drive him wild. And while these areas are the most tried-and-true erogenous zones, logically any area packed with nerve endings could create pleasant sensations if stroked with finesse. Get to know your guy's particular trigger points by exploring every area of his body and listening attentively to his ooohs and aaahs (and ouches). You may be surprised where you find them — and he will be too!

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