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Q: I think I come too soon. It's certainly way before my boyfriend does. He doesn't mind in the least, but I want to wait for him. How can I stop myself from having an orgasm so quickly?
Advice from the Baroness: How lucky you are to reach the big O so effortlessly! Most women would jump at the chance to trade places with you. But if you'd like to hold off and shoot for a simultaneous orgasm with your man, here's what you can do: Switch to sexual positions that aren't as stimulating for you. This allows you to cool your jets for a few minutes while he catches up with you. Or, if every position sends you over the edge, stop shagging completely and go down on him for a while until you're ready to jump back in the saddle.
On the other hand, instead of delaying your climax, you could always shoot for more than one. While a man's equipment shuts down temporarily after one orgasm, women don't need to refuel after the grand finale. That means once you reach Venus, you can proceed right on to other planets. So the next time you climax during sex, keep going — your body may be hypersensitive at first, but within minutes that feeling should give way to yet another Big O. No doubt your guy will go along with your multiple agenda, since his ego erupts with each round of dynamite he sets off in you.
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