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Q: I've been dating a great guy for a couple of months. He's 29 and I'm 20. We recently started having sex, and I find that I'm intimidated by how sexually sophisticated he is. I have only had one previous lover, who was also young and inexperienced, but my new boyfriend has had many lovers. What can I do to make sure I'm showing him a good time?
Advice from the Baroness: Let me assure you that there is absolutely no reason for you to be insecure about your inexperience. There's nothing a man loves more than the chance to initiate a young woman into the secrets of sex! So, to show your older guy a great time, work that innocence by asking him to be your love instructor. Tell him to guide your hands and lips around his body, and let you know what feels good. Say that you want to discover which positions make you the hottest and ask him to try a series of different ones with you each night. Trust me, taking on the role of teacher will not be a chore for him. Pick up a book on sexual positions, such as Anne Hooper's Kama Sutra: Classic Lovemaking Techniques Reinterpreted For Today's Lovers, or check out the sizzling new positions in "Cosmo's Kama Sutra 3," in the September 2000 issue of Cosmopolitan, and turn the pages together to get erotic ideas.
The only way your innocence could hurt you is if you're so intimidated by your boyfriend's experience that you freeze up in bed. But if you're sexually enthusiastic and eager to try new things, you can't go wrong.
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