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These are my personal ads, I have used them in my search for awhile. They capture much oh the type relationship that I am looking for. I am getting ready to write some new ones, I have been procrastinating, as this exercise points out what my life is missing!
I dream of a candlelit dinner just you and I. Dinner would take hours, and I am fascinated by the way the flicker of the candles are reflected in your eyes and the soft light illuminating your face ....could get lost looking into your eyes...I realize that this woman's real beauty is the spirit inside her. My attraction is to the reflections of this smart, determined, loving and caring person. Her confidence is apparent within her posture, her eloquence in every word, her passion in every breath...
I awaken early today, and my dreams were all of last night. I had spent the most incredible evening in the company of a lady, the type I have waited my entire life to find. I quickly jump out of bed, and find the shirt that I wore, and smell the perfume on it, smile, close my eyes and take a deep breath. I can remember feeling almost awkward last night, to be with someone so polished, and full of style and grace. I will never forget thinking, that I am so blessed, as I open her car door, and put out my hand to help her up. The gentleman I am, will help her out of the car, the man I am just wants to pull her close and kiss her passionately. I find myself sneaking looks while we look over the menu. I find the conversation is easy and fluid. I can still remember that out dancing in the crowded club, there is only us......
Its amazing, that when you hold my hand, my feet can no longer touch the ground, and with just a slight squeeze of my hand, Goosebumps can run from the tips of my fingers, all the way through every muscle in my body. When you hold my hand, its like connecting the jumper cables, I am re-energized! The electricity between us is amazing. But when I look into your eyes, I can see what I feel for you, is what you feel for me... Afraid to keep ending your sentences, but just cant help myself, just want you to know just how in sync we really are....
While you are sleeping, I find this is my favorite time. I find this has become my time to truly look at you. I can study your beauty, the color of your hair against you skin, the shape of your lips, watching the gentle rise and fall of your chest with each breath... I have tried to look upon you at this  level, when you are awake, and each time I find myself so drawn into you, that I can't just sit back and truly appreciate your beauty....
My ideal relationship, will be filled with open communication, caring and has to be filled with romance. I dream of candlelit nights, but find that those are the far and few moments to sustain a relationship on. The moments I find to me are the most important moments, are when you are in the day to day, and finding a way that mundane pace does not to bleed into the relationship. I focus on making things different in some small way. Sometimes its flowers at work for no reason, other times it maybe a thoughtful cards, telling her my feelings for her in a very open and honest way. I apologize sometimes the ink will be smeared, but true feelings sometimes can inspire a tear of joy for punctuation. The one thing that I crave most is our time sleeping. Its amazing the feeling of having my arm around her, her head on my shoulder...the scent of her perfume, and shampoo fueling my dreams.......
I would like to meet a strong, assertive, smart woman (huge crowd of ladies gathers). She would know what she wants out of her life (crowd is cut in half) and out of our life (crowd is cut in half). She would be proud of who she is inside (crowd is cut in half)and the accomplishments she has made in her life (crowd again is cut in half). She is attractive both on the inside and outside (crowd cuts in half). She as am I are both ready for a deep relationship (crowd is cut in half). Now that it is just the two of us, click email and lets talk about what all that meant..
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