GiftedTongue and his beloved kalea will be speaking this evening on when online goes real life. Come and join us at #The_D/s_Parlor for our weekly discussion at 9 pm CST/10pm EST/8pm MST/7pm PST.
<@GiftedTongue> well .... not speaking, but facilitating a discussion
<@GiftedTongue> shelly asked kalea and Me to talk about D/s relationships ... online and real
* @velvety_girl definitely thinks that might be a good thing
* @fufu`ookami snuggles with Play and listens
* kalea winks at velvety_girl
<@GiftedTongue> kalea and I have been living this out for just over a month now
<@GiftedTongue> W/we met online ..... and were an online couple for about a year and a half
 with r/l visits as often as possible
<@GiftedTongue> so W/we are by no means "experts" at this, but trying to figure out how this all works in real
<@GiftedTongue> anyway ...... 
<@GiftedTongue> in the past month or so ... W/we've discovered that it's the little things that need attention in real
<@GiftedTongue> kalea ... you mentioned something about this the other day
* Play`nSimple listens intently
* @GiftedTongue listens to the one-fingered wonder typing away
 yes, it's much easier in r/l to maintain submission in large ways, but easier to fall at the little things.............like a misspoken word
* @fufu`ookami smiles, resting as she listens
* kalea considers sticking her tongue out.......but doesn't
 *giggles* do it sis *s* 
<@GiftedTongue> one of the other things that needs work .... is switching back and forth between D/s and vanilla
<@GiftedTongue> when W/we're with other folk not in the life .... it's hard sometimes to be careful
<@GiftedTongue> fufu ... do you and hubby find that as well?
 and it's easier on visits and online to play and get intense, but with a 24/7, its tougher
<@fufu`ookami> actually our issue is the other way around, we were married 12 yrs before actually moving towards Master/sub
<@GiftedTongue> ahhhhhhhhhhh
<@fufu`ookami> its giving over the control thats our issue
* @GiftedTongue nods
 that's the easy part for me
<@fufu`ookami> finding the balance between hubby/wife... Master/sub
<@GiftedTongue> kalea and I are still trying to figure out all the little things as W.we learn to live together
* @fufu`ookami smiles
<@GiftedTongue> and what complicates it for us is the aforementioned 16 year old
 lol
<@fufu`ookami> OE and i have been married close to 15 yrs now, 14 yr old son
* @GiftedTongue grins
<@fufu`ookami> lifestyle going on four yrs, only collared in jan
 that's the only reason He doesn't require me to be naked
<@GiftedTongue> of course ..... there are also the other obvious kinds of things
<@GiftedTongue> for example ... online, she rises gracefully in a fluid motion
* kalea laughs
<@GiftedTongue> it's a little more difficult to do that when your joints creak
* @fufu`ookami smiles softly
 LOLOLOL GiftedTongue 
 if she hits you i don't see a thing Sir
<@GiftedTongue> and of course .... in real, I can cum 4 times an hour 24/7 .... it's much harder to do that online
* @GiftedTongue grins
<@fufu`ookami> lmao
* kalea falls over.............REALLY hard
* Play`nSimple spews coffee all over hsi screen
* @fufu`ookami looks back at Play thinking it was good she was sitting to the side
* @GiftedTongue smacks shelly .... just coz
<@GiftedTongue> the other side of it ..... 
 but.................online was harder in many ways, too
<@GiftedTongue> emotionally it's much more fulfilling in real than it ever could be online
<@GiftedTongue> it's more playful in real .... 
<@velvety_girl> absolutely Sir
<@GiftedTongue> more immediate .....
<@GiftedTongue> more creative in some ways ......
* Play`nSimple likes the immediate part
 lol
<@GiftedTongue> and even some of the frustrations in real make it better .... 
<@GiftedTongue> because W/we get to work at this ..... try to figure out the best way forward
<@GiftedTongue> for example .... does a slave have any say in how a house is organized?
* @GiftedTongue grins at kalea
* kalea smiles
<@GiftedTongue> and the trick is ... to figure out the balance in this
* Play`nSimple stresses just thinking about it
<@GiftedTongue> the wonderful thing in it all .... at least for ME ..... 
<@GiftedTongue> has been the immediacy of deepening kalea's submission .... sometimes it takes just a word or even a look
[21:19] * @fufu`ookami pinches Play Sir, no stressing
[21:19]  i must say though.......it's a whole lot better getting punishments right away, instead of having them add up til the next visit
[21:19] * @GiftedTongue mutters something about it being easier on HIS arm too
[21:19] * Play`nSimple stresses disappear
[21:20]  lol
[21:20] * @fufu`ookami giggles
[21:20] <@GiftedTongue> it's been a good month for U/us .... and I'm looking forward to whatever the future brings as W/we work on this
[21:20] <@velvety_girl> it's much more fun actually being face to face and doing it, than sitting alone and typing it
[21:21] <@GiftedTongue> absolutely velvety_girl ... 
[21:21]  how far apart did you live?
[21:21]  very true, velvety_girl...........though as He said, less elegant much of the time
[21:21] * kalea grins
[21:21] <@GiftedTongue> she was in Minneapolis ..... W/we are now north of Idaho
[21:21] <@velvety_girl> that's true, but try hugging and kissing your computer good night
[21:22] <@GiftedTongue> I've trained My computer .... its so damn sexy now
[21:22]  i knoooooooooooow velvety_girl............ive been there
[21:22] * @velvety_girl giggles at GiftedTongue
[21:22] <@GiftedTongue> kalea is jealous, I think
[21:22] * @velvety_girl looks down at her sleeping beauties... and kids make all the difference
[21:22]  yessssssssss, im going to have to short circuit it
[21:22] <@GiftedTongue> lol
[21:23] * Play`nSimple looks at his computer and considers copulating with it.....then the mood passes
[21:23]  lol
[21:23] * @velvety_girl blinks at Play`nSimple
[21:23] * @fufu`ookami snickers
[21:23] * @fufu`ookami pinches him again just cuz
[21:23] * @GiftedTongue sends Play`nSimple the training manual for computers
[21:23]  she a bit of a square in fact
[21:24]  for U/us, it got to the point where visits were almost painful...........knowing the goodbye was coming
[21:24] <@GiftedTongue> lol ... My first computer was a TRS-80 ... from Radio Shack
[21:24] * @velvety_girl wonders if GiftedTongue has a manual for finding a hot, sexy Dom
[21:24] <@GiftedTongue> I called her Teresa
[21:24] <@GiftedTongue> now why the hell would I want to find a hot, sexy Dom?
[21:24]  I had one of those
[21:24] * @GiftedTongue grins
[21:24] <@GiftedTongue> now you're dating yourself Painfull
[21:24] <@GiftedTongue> just like I did
[21:25]  to give to me Sir 
[21:25] * Painfull grabs his walking cane
[21:25] * @velvety_girl grins... i didn't want it for You Sir, i was hoping You'd send it to me
[21:25]  *giggles* and hugs velvety_girl will you share !
[21:25] * @GiftedTongue mails the manual to velvety_girl
[21:25] * @velvety_girl giggles and hugs southern^shell...the manual yes
[21:25] * Play`nSimple changes his nick to Hot Sexy Dom
[21:25]  brb
[21:25] * @velvety_girl eyes Play`nSimple
[21:26] * @GiftedTongue ........ and provides 2 copies for her nieces
[21:26]  I think i need private lessons from kalea 
 [21:26]  she landed a hot sexy Dom 
[21:26] * @velvety_girl looks at GiftedTongue...they're a bit young Sir
 [21:26] <@velvety_girl> exactly southern^shell
[21:26] <@GiftedTongue> never too young to start looking .......
[21:26] * @GiftedTongue grins
[21:26]  actually......there ARE ways to find local Doms......i'd been with several, though Master is my One
[21:26] <@velvety_girl> you have no idea the Doms here locally
[21:26] <@GiftedTongue> kalea and I met online ..... and for the longest time, W/we were good friends
[21:27] <@GiftedTongue> she loved Me long before I loved her ..... what can I say ... I'm a Man
[21:27]  lol
[21:27] <@GiftedTongue> then W/we agreed to meet .... it was about a 12 hour drive for Me
[21:27] <@GiftedTongue> W/we were together that first time for 5 days or so .... 
[21:27] <@GiftedTongue> a week?
[21:28]  uh huh
[21:28] <@GiftedTongue> and became a couple after that ... 
[21:28] <@GiftedTongue> I collared her in real .... 
[21:28] <@GiftedTongue> but W/we decided not to go the online collar route
[21:28] * @fufu`ookami siles listening
[21:28] <@fufu`ookami> smiles too
[21:29] <@GiftedTongue> our closest friends knew W/we were together .... but it was fun to watch some of the HNG's who came in from time to time
[21:29] <@GiftedTongue> fufu .... how did you two move from hubby/wife to Master/sub
[21:29] * Painfull pants
[21:29] <@fufu`ookami> we're still trying to work that one out. honestly it normally stays in the bedroom
[21:30] <@fufu`ookami> kinda hard in a trailer with a14 yr old wandering around at all hours lol
[21:30] <@GiftedTongue> did you both get interest4ed in the lifestyle at the same time?
[21:30] <@GiftedTongue> yeah ... sure is
[21:30] <@fufu`ookami> sort of lol.... i found out about it cuz he had an online slave
[21:31] <@fufu`ookami> soooo, eventually he let me collar outside him for "experience", probly not the best move on our part as it set us back alot, but i learned alot as well
[21:31]  how did you feel about that?
[21:31] <@fufu`ookami> lol i was nosey honestly
[21:31]  lol
[21:31] <@fufu`ookami> im not normally jealous over something thats not rl
[21:31] * @fufu`ookami notes the "normally"
[21:31] <@fufu`ookami> :D
[21:31] * @GiftedTongue smiles, listening
[21:31] <@GiftedTongue> lol
[21:31] * Painfull slips out
[21:32] * Painfull (Ironwood@bondage-hidden-CBB5AFDC.hsd1.wa.comcast.net) has left #the_d/s_parlor
[21:32] * @GiftedTongue hears a soft "pop" as he slips out
[21:32] <@fufu`ookami> ended up collared to my ex, had a good almost three yrs with him online only, found alot of things i enjoy that id never be able to do rl
[21:32]  do Y/you ever get together with O/others in the life?
[21:32] <@fufu`ookami> does bear count?
[21:32] <@fufu`ookami> lol
[21:32]  yes!
[21:32] * @fufu`ookami grins
[21:32] <@fufu`ookami> now to just get him back here then lol
[21:32] <@velvety_girl> GiftedTongue and kalea..are we allowed to ask questions?
[21:33] <@fufu`ookami> but no, we dont do munches or anything
[21:33]  of course
[21:33] <@GiftedTongue> please do velvety_girl
[21:33] <@velvety_girl> Would You recommend long distant relationships to others Sir?
[21:33] <@GiftedTongue> there's a small group here .... about 5 or 6 of us .... get together from time to time
[21:33] <@GiftedTongue> it depends on the people involved velvety_girl ..... 
[21:33] <@GiftedTongue> it was incredibly difficult not to be with kalea the longer it went on
[21:34] <@velvety_girl> at least the person i'm talking with is in the same country
[21:34] * @GiftedTongue nods
[21:34] <@GiftedTongue> I think it's possible to make it work long-distance ... but it requires maturity and patience
[21:34] <@velvety_girl> He seems to be what i am looking for, and we seem to share a lot of the same interests
[21:34] <@GiftedTongue> have you met him yet r/l
[21:34]  it can be difficult, velvety_girl........but if you are willing to maintain the patience required, it can hold wonderful rewards when finally fulfilled
[21:35] <@velvety_girl> no Sir, frankly i'm nervous about that part, although He's pushing me to come there
[21:35] <@GiftedTongue> usually it's the Dom who travels for the first meeting hon
[21:35] <@velvety_girl> exactly Sir
[21:35] <@GiftedTongue> lets the girl be safe ... on her turf
[21:35] <@velvety_girl> but in this case its hard with His work schedule
[21:35] * @GiftedTongue ndos
[21:35]  take it slow, velvety_girl...........safety issues MUST be addressed
[21:35] * @GiftedTongue nods ... too
[21:36] <@velvety_girl> absolutely kalea
[21:36] <@GiftedTongue> he's gonna have to take some time off then .... if he wants to make it work
[21:36] <@GiftedTongue> how far apart are you two?
[21:36] <@velvety_girl> i'm in indiana and He's in Virginia
[21:36] * @GiftedTongue nods
[21:37] <@GiftedTongue> I guess what I'd do is insist he come to see you the first time
[21:37] <@velvety_girl> yes Sir
[21:37] <@GiftedTongue> tell him ... it's for safety reasons
[21:37] <@GiftedTongue> how long have you known him?
[21:37] <@velvety_girl> i've been on irc 2 months
[21:37] <@GiftedTongue> kalea and I knew each other as friends about a year and a half before W.we met
[21:38]  i have met a lot of Doms and subs that i've met online........all good experiences, but not A/all are right when in real
[21:38] <@GiftedTongue> 2 months strikes Me as a VERY short time
[21:39] <@fufu`ookami> bear and i were "together" for about four months before he came out
[21:39] <@velvety_girl> i'm not ready to meet Him at this point, in the last 48 hours my life has drastically changed
[21:39] * @GiftedTongue nods
[21:39] <@fufu`ookami> BUT, OE went with me the first three times
[21:39] <@GiftedTongue> of course it has velvety_girl
[21:40] * @GiftedTongue smiles at fufu`ookami
[21:40]  GiftedTongue, "where" on line did you first meet and did you remain at that "on Line" location the entire time, till you met?
[21:40] <@GiftedTongue> as far as I'm concerned velvety_girl ... safety is the most important consideration for a first meeting
[21:40] <@GiftedTongue> and patience is a real virtue in planning for that first time
[21:40] <@velvety_girl> absolutely Sir
[21:40] <@GiftedTongue> W/we met on acn ... adult chat network .... 
[21:41] <@GiftedTongue> and that's the only other server I go to .... 
[21:41]  if you are not ready, velvety_girl, then the Dom needs to show the patience of a Dom, and encourage you to wait til you are more comfortable
[21:41] <@velvety_girl> i have told Him if, and that is a big if i am to come to meet Him, i will be bringing a body guard
[21:41] <@GiftedTongue> and yes Play`nSimple ... that's where kalea and I stayed until W.we met real life
[21:42] <@GiftedTongue> and W/we still have our own room there
[21:42] <@GiftedTongue> altho ... W/we've been here more often than there recently
[21:43]  and obviously, there is less time for online, as W/we care for each others needs
[21:44] * @fufu`ookami smiles
[21:45] * @velvety_girl slips out to put wayward lil one back to bed
[21:45] * @GiftedTongue chuckles
[21:45]  but........it's so wonderful to be able to serve, even in nonsexual ways......its a fulfillment of MY needs as much as His
[21:45] * @GiftedTongue nodsnodsnodsnodsnods
[21:45] * @fufu`ookami smiles at them both
[21:45] * @GiftedTongue no longer ..... cooks ..... laundries ..... dishes .......
[21:45] * @GiftedTongue grins
[21:45]  lol
[21:46] <@fufu`ookami> lol
[21:46] <@GiftedTongue> it's been a good beginning for U/us both
[21:46] <@fufu`ookami> but youre a good cook GT :D
[21:46] * @velvety_girl slips back in
[21:46] <@GiftedTongue> I am?
[21:46] * @GiftedTongue feels her slipping back in
[21:46]  wb velvety_girl
[21:46] * Play`nSimple dosent do any of those things either GiftedTongue but i stink and im skinny as a rail.... LOL
[21:46] <@fufu`ookami> wb velvety :)
[21:46]  lol Sir
[21:46] <@GiftedTongue> lol Play`nSimple
[21:47] <@fufu`ookami> lmao Play Sir
[21:47] <@velvety_girl> thanks fufu
[21:47] * @velvety_girl keeps running after lil ones and she'll be skinny as a rail
[21:47] * @fufu`ookami makes sure she keeps her clothespins close by now
[21:47] * kalea perks at clothespins
[21:48] <@GiftedTongue> one of the things I really like about being together is the playfulness
[21:48] * @fufu`ookami tosses kalea a few :D
[21:48] <@GiftedTongue> online .... it's always intense ... a "scene"
[21:48] <@GiftedTongue> in real .... it's often a few slaps here ... some teasing there ... with lots of laughter
[21:48] * @fufu`ookami smiles softly
[21:48] * kalea grins, and catches them, looking up at Master
[21:48] * Play`nSimple intercepts the toss and puts them in his pocket
[21:48]  heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
[21:48] * @GiftedTongue wonders who has them now/
[21:48] * kalea pouts
[21:49] <@fufu`ookami> heyyyyy, *clips his fingers and tries again*
[21:49] * @GiftedTongue plays pbpbpbpbpbpbpbpbbpbpbpbp on her pouting lip
[21:49] * kalea pulls her lip in, and sighs
[21:49] * @fufu`ookami slips kalea a few extras that Play didnt see
[21:50] * @fufu`ookami hands Play Sir needles instead to distract him
[21:50] * Play`nSimple being a nice guy slips a few over to GiftedTongue when no one is looking
[21:50] * kalea winks at her as she slips them under her top
[21:50] * @velvety_girl swoons at clothes pins
[21:51] * @GiftedTongue surreptitiously takes them from Play ... and then takes the extras from kalea too
[21:51] * southern^shell thinks zipper
[21:51]  awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
[21:51] <@GiftedTongue> zipper ..... 100 toothed meat eater
[21:51]  lol
[21:51] * @velvety_girl pulls out her own bag of 200 clothes pins
[21:51] <@fufu`ookami> lol
[21:51] * Play`nSimple frantically notes velvety_girl reactions in his notebook
[21:51] <@GiftedTongue> ya know what makes clothes pins better?
[21:51] <@fufu`ookami> what GT
[21:51] <@velvety_girl> what's that Sir?
[21:51] <@GiftedTongue> dip the business end in some of that latex tool handle stuff
[21:52] <@velvety_girl> being on the body
[21:52] <@GiftedTongue> lol velvety_girl
[21:52] <@GiftedTongue> along with a gifted tongue? ...... hmmmmmmmmmmm?
[21:52] <@velvety_girl> mmmmmmmmmm
[21:52]  mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
[21:52] * @velvety_girl swoons at the thought
[21:52]  back
[21:52] * Play`nSimple re visits his thoughts on his helpless computer
[21:52]  wb mindy`kitten
[21:52] <@GiftedTongue> I saw some of those clothes pins ..... they wanted a buck apiece
[21:52] <@GiftedTongue> so I said screw that .. I'll buy the pins and the paint and do it Myself
[21:53] <@GiftedTongue> but now I've got a slave to do it .......
[21:53] * @GiftedTongue grins
[21:53]  lol
[21:53]  i GOT the pins
[21:53]  a whole bag
[21:53] <@fufu`ookami> giggles
[21:53] * kalea grins
[21:53] <@GiftedTongue> ok ... so W/we got 2 bags now
[21:53]  lol
[21:54]  daym you sound like a mighty useful household appliance kalea.....got any sisters?
[21:54]  woooohoooooooooooo...................looooooooooooooong zipper
[21:54]  lol Sir.............but i'm the only slave in my family
[21:54] * @GiftedTongue just keeps His mouth shut
[21:55] * Play`nSimple curses and kicks his butt ugly computer
[21:55]  don't to that
[21:55] * @velvety_girl is the only one in her family
[21:55] * kalea has 7 brothers and 4 sisters
[21:55] * Play`nSimple nukes Virginia and sets out for Indianna
[21:55] * @velvety_girl has 3 sisters and 0 brothers
[21:56] * @GiftedTongue has ...... who gives a shit?
[21:56]  lol Play`nSimple Sir
[21:56] <@velvety_girl> lol Play`nSimple
[21:57] * @velvety_girl sets out the welcome mat and starts the tea
[21:57] * kalea sends velvety_girl a big sign with a neon flashing arrow to put on her house
[21:57] <@GiftedTongue> the other thing about the guy you met velvety_girl .... ask others online about Him
[21:57] * @velvety_girl hangs the "enter at Your own risk" sign
[21:58] <@velvety_girl> yes Sir, that i have done
[21:58] * @GiftedTongue nods ..... good
[21:58]  find out of others have met Him in real
[21:58] <@velvety_girl> no one so far
[21:58] * Play`nSimple perks hearing the word tea
[21:59] <@velvety_girl> although i did have one Dom offer me His collar and when i asked around about Him, everyone told me get rid of Him
[21:59] * @GiftedTongue nods .... lots of jerks around
[21:59] <@GiftedTongue> night fufu
[21:59] * @GiftedTongue <------- likes being a jerk
[21:59] <@velvety_girl> so i got rid of Him, and found out He offered 5 girls His collar same night
[21:59] <@GiftedTongue> lmao
[21:59] * @fufu`ookami giggles and ni ni's everyone here too :) then slips out :)
[21:59] * @velvety_girl hugs fufu
[22:00] * @fufu`ookami huggsssss :)
[22:00] * kalea hugs fufu`ookami again
[22:00] * fufu`ookami is now known as fantasy`sleeping-afc
[22:00] * @fantasy`sleeping-afc purrssss n runs off :D
[22:00] <@GiftedTongue> that's one of the things I absolutely hate about online ....... velcro collars
[22:01] <@velvety_girl> the company that makes velcro must make a mint from irc
[22:01] <@GiftedTongue> lol
[22:01]  well..........they abound in r/l too...........the only difference is they last months instead of days
[22:02]  lol 
[22:03] * velvety_girl is now known as velvety_girl-obs
[22:03]  ummmmmmmmmmm 
[22:03] <@GiftedTongue> obs?
[22:03]  what is obs 
[22:03]  besides a tampon
[22:03]  lol
[22:03]  lol
[22:03] <@GiftedTongue> redwings?
[22:04]  lolol
[22:04]  ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
[22:04] <@velvety_girl-obs> its observing.. so hopefully no more PMs
[22:04] <@GiftedTongue> ahhhhhhhhhhhh
[22:04]  ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
[22:04]  lol.............ASSUMING THEY CAN READ
[22:04] <@velvety_girl-obs> exactly
[22:04]  oops
[22:04]  hng's can read 
[22:04] * @GiftedTongue plugs His ears for the yelling
[22:04]  hmmmm 
[22:04] <@velvety_girl-obs> hngs don't read
[22:04]  sowwy
[22:04] * southern^shell looks at GiftedTongue
[22:05] * @GiftedTongue feels her eyes on Him .... and flicks them off
[22:05] * Play`nSimple wonders what everyone is saying .... LOL
[22:05]  lol we have no clue 
[22:05]  lol
[22:05] <@GiftedTongue> read My lips ..... a thousand gentle candles
 [22:06] * @GiftedTongue blinks, and wonders what the hell that means
[22:06] * Play`nSimple announces his inability to read thus qualifying him for official hng status
[22:06] * kalea would rather read Him in braille
[22:06] * GiftedTongue is now known as GiftedTongue-HNG
[22:07] * @GiftedTongue-HNG pm's velvety_girl-obs
[22:07]  nice one kalea
[22:07] * @velvety_girl-obs grins at GiftedTongue-HNG wondering if His tongue is PMing...LOL
[22:07] <@GiftedTongue-HNG> .../msg velvety_girl-obs .... hey baby
[22:07]  lolol
[22:07]  LOL GiftedTongue-HNG
[22:07] * @velvety_girl-obs giggles
[22:08] * GiftedTongue-HNG is now known as GiftedTongue
[22:08]  and has anyone ever met real life and have it gone gawd awful bad 
[22:08]  lolol
[22:08]  bad in what way, southern^shell?
[22:08] * Play`nSimple has had one rl from irc and it didnt go "real bad" just didnt work
[22:08]  I had one that was awful
[22:09] <@Orator> Hello there velvety_girl...
[22:09]  a Dom who was a puppy so bad he follow me to take a pizz
[22:09] <@GiftedTongue> I met a couple subs r/l .... wasn't awful ... but didn't really work out
[22:09] * @Orator purrrrrrRRRRRRRGGGGGGROWWWWWWWlssssssss
[22:09]  lol
[22:09]  i was like excuse me i think i can handle this on my own
[22:09] <@GiftedTongue> one of the girls ... expected Me to come to her ordering her about immediately
[22:09] <@GiftedTongue> and I told her I needed to get to know her first .... she didn't much care for that
[22:09] * @velvety_girl-obs wonders if GiftedTongue has any gifted rope...lil one out of bed
[22:09] <@velvety_girl-obs> brb
[22:09]  lol velvety_girl-obs
[22:10] * @GiftedTongue takes out His giftedbungeecord
[22:10]  oh i know this chick that met with a Sadist
[22:10]  mind you a Sadist is not a Dom
[22:10]  and she was a pleasure slave
[22:10]  i tried telling her she was headed for trouple 
[22:10]  ooooooh...............mismatches R us?
[22:10]  mine was a closet Domme but didnt even know it herself till i pointed it out... LOL
[22:10]  he grabed her beat the shit out of her and she was mad
[22:10]  oh my, Play`nSimple Sir
[22:11]  amen kalea ...hehee
[22:11]  she have a safe call, southern^shell?
[22:11]  yes it was me 
[22:11]  i told her to get out and not go 
[22:11] * @velvety_girl-obs slips back in
[22:12]  and what happened?
[22:12]  wb velvety_girl-obs
[22:12] <@velvety_girl-obs> thanks kalea
[22:13]  wb velvety_girl-obs
[22:13] <@velvety_girl-obs> thank You Play`nSimple
[22:13] <@GiftedTongue> the other girl I met ... tried to top from the bottom
[22:13] <@GiftedTongue> not a Domme .... but not really a subbie either
[22:13] * Play`nSimple much better description of my experiance too GiftedTongue
[22:14] <@GiftedTongue> how did yours react when you told her Play`nSimple
[22:14]  she denied it
[22:15] * @GiftedTongue nods
[22:15]  said i was being too sensitive
[22:15] <@GiftedTongue> Mine got pissed off
[22:15]  that too.. LOL
[22:15]  compatibility is really hard to gauge online...........it takes a r/l encounter to know for sure
[22:16] * kalea knows a subbie who found out through meeting a Dom from irc that she really doesnt like pain, like she thought she would
[22:16]  mine was in fact a very lovely woman, just not the girl for me
[22:18]  that is where rl experiance comes in handy kalea...yes?
[22:18]  absolutely, Sir
[22:19]  the woman i was speaking of had oodles of rl experinace so at least that was not an issue
[22:19]  lol......i once met a Dom Who was a wonderful scener online...........had never done r/l, and was scared to death
[22:20]  indeed
[22:20]  but He's a lovely Man, and W/we would occasionally get together for dinner
[22:20] * kalea smiles
[22:20]  but if i may, there are serious Dom precautions here too....one can land up in the crowbar hotel too
[22:21]  true
[22:21] <@GiftedTongue> true enough Play`nSimple
[22:21] <@GiftedTongue> that's why ... the first time I met kalea .... I wore a suit of armour
[22:21]  prudent GiftedTongue
[22:21] <@GiftedTongue> but she beat Me .... she had a can opener
[22:21]  lol
[22:21]  lol........but You took no time removing it
[22:22]  ahhhh the truth will out.... :)))
[22:22] * @GiftedTongue grins :)))))))))))
[22:22]  GiftedTongue is a mean bastard but kalea is meaner... LOL
[22:22] <@GiftedTongue> uh huh
[22:23] <@GiftedTongue> 1000% true
[22:24] * kalea growls in a real deep voice, but it ends up as just a mew
[22:24] <@GiftedTongue> lol
[22:24]  ok so are either of you now or in the past big time sceners? 
[22:24]  lol
[22:24] <@GiftedTongue> online?
[22:24]  yes
[22:24] <@GiftedTongue> I used to be an online slut
[22:24]  ok
[22:24]  kalea?
[22:25] * kalea loves serving Doms..........and always has
[22:25] <@GiftedTongue> but as I noted above .... while I can cum 4 times an hour 24/7 in real .... I just don't have the energy for online anymore
[22:25] * @GiftedTongue grins
[22:25]  lol
[22:25] * southern^shell is now known as shelly^phone
[22:25]  liar/bastard
[22:25]  LOL
[22:25] * @GiftedTongue howls in laughter
[22:26]  W/we both have often enjoyed public scening, Play`nSimple Sir, with each other and with others
[22:27]  on line you mean
[22:27]  that is what i was asking about
[22:27] * @GiftedTongue nods
[22:28]  yes Sir......though real dungeons are fun to scene in too
[22:28] * kalea grins
[22:28] <@GiftedTongue> yes ... W/we scened a lot
[22:28] <@GiftedTongue> with each other ..... and with othrs
[22:28]  interesting :)
[22:28] <@GiftedTongue> why do you say that?
[22:29]  well it is so far removed from rl that im curious how you have managed to bridge that chasm in rl
[22:30] * @velvety_girl-obs sighs softly...r/l is demanding me
[22:30]  no worries velvety_girl-obs
[22:30] <@velvety_girl-obs> i will try to get back quickly..as soon as they are back to sleep
[22:30] * velvety_girl-obs is now known as velvety
[22:30] * @velvety can't type
[22:30] * velvety is now known as velvety_girl
[22:31]  well Sir, it's not that hard if one knows to not expect the perfection that occurs in online scenes
[22:32] * shelly^phone hugs GiftedTongue and kalea
[22:32]  yes i think that is understandable but.......what about the online experiance itself "afterwards"
[22:32]  though W/we try not to do anything online W/we cant do in real
[22:32]  ahhhhhhhh that would explain it
[22:32]  I agree 100 % there
[22:33] <@GiftedTongue> O/our online scening is much like r/l ... altho it IS enhanced somewhat
[22:34]  well Sir..........though online pales in comparison, our online scening was better, knowing how the other responds
[22:34]  most of my on line scening is virtually impossible rl but that is mostly what makes it interesting/intense 
[22:35] * @GiftedTongue nods
[22:35]  it merely borders on the possible to keep it "near" believable
[22:35]  that can be fun too
[22:36]  tyring to find that sub tho is like trying to find the emelia earheart
[22:36]  to be honest though, while W/we scened with each other online in between visits, W/we have not since getting married
[22:36] <@GiftedTongue> I used to have one of those .... but the plane crashed
[22:37]  lol
[22:37]  lol
[22:37]  so.....do you miss it kalea/ GiftedTongue?
[22:37] <@GiftedTongue> yes and no
[22:37]  scening online?
[22:37]  yes
[22:38]  sometimes i do Sir, but what ive got is so much better
[22:40]  Master has done some scening lately, but i have not
[22:40]  What a great couple you are!!!!!.....Thank you for sharing your experinaces tonight, there really is hope :))))))))) 
[22:40] * @GiftedTongue blushes .... awwwwwww thank you
[22:41] * @GiftedTongue ....... people tell Me I'm cute when I blush
[22:41] * @Orator looks at GiftedTongue
[22:41]  No........Thank you, both!!!!
[22:41] * @GiftedTongue winks at Orator
[22:41] <@Orator> lol
[22:41] <@GiftedTongue> yw PnS
[22:42] * kalea smiles.....
[22:43]  Play`nSimple Sir..........are You in contact with Your local scene?
[22:44]  sporatically yes
[22:44] <@GiftedTongue> you're in Vic ... right Play`nSimple?
[22:44]  yes 
[22:44] <@GiftedTongue> other side of the province from U/us
[22:45] <+Vicctor> ?
[22:45] * +Vicctor noticed the Vic
[22:47]  lol
[22:55]  GiftedTongue and kalea .........take a bow! 
[22:55] * @GiftedTongue bows ... and offers His excuses for the night
[22:56] <@GiftedTongue> good night A.all .... got a few things to do before heading to bed
[22:56] <@Orator> Bravo...
[22:56] * @Orator claps enthusiastically
[22:56] * @GiftedTongue hugggggggs shelly
[22:56] <@GiftedTongue> night A/all
[22:56] * Play`nSimple applauds the happy couple

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