You have to be with people. This extends into the need to gain popularity, achieve social recognition and influence those people around you. The "bottom-line" is a strong people orientation. You have a strong feeling of optimism, considered favorably by most people around you. Your perception is that the bottle is half-full rather than half-empty. You have a strong sense of humor. You usually know when to lighten a difficult situation, amuse and entertain people. You have a natural, outgoing style that some have labeled as the "natural salesperson." You are generally likable, talkative and socially assertive. Your primary intent is convincing or persuading people. You are a natural communicator. You love to talk, offer jokes and make sure that everyone is having a good time. This trait is especially evident at functions and outings. One of your great strengths is your ability to communicate and talk readily. Since all strengths may be overused at times, you may sometimes talk too much. You can generate enthusiasm in yourself and in other people. Your enthusiasm, often contagious, involves many people in a social activity who might not ordinarily become involved. You show sympathy to the feelings and needs of others. Your natural empathy style may draw others to you. Offer opinions and ideas that are stimulating. Keep the conversation at the discussion level, rather than confrontation. Take time during explanations. Provide solid, tangible, practical ideas and evidence. Be prepared to listen to many stories. Allow time to ask questions. Take time to be certain that you reach an agreement. Talk about expectations. Ask for opinions and ideas. Be stimulating, fun-loving, and fast-moving. You are usually enthusiastic about activities and planning. You are excellent at listening to your partner. You like to gather facts and think things over before offering a strong opinion. You are very respectful of the needs and wants of other people. You are socially poised and people-oriented. You are generally good at cooling down tense situations in a relationship. You tend to enjoy life and share that enjoyment with others. You are optimistic and tend to make others feel good about themselves. You are skilled at finding "win-win" solutions when conflicts arise. You tend to bring feelings of security and stability to a relationship. You may want: Protection or insulation from aggression or confrontation. Time and opportunity to weigh pros and cons of decisions. An environment free from conflict or hostility. Popularity. Partners who practice listening and participation. Acceptance in a variety of groups. An audience to perform to and entertain. Social recognition of your accomplishments. Sound relationships which form naturally, and are not contriving or scheming. Activities involving contact with many people. Equal relations with others. |