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What’s going on... October 2004
| Sun | Oct. 3 |  9:30 
              AM  | Young 
              Children and Adult R. E.  | 
| Sun | Oct. 10 | 9:30 
              AM | Young 
              Children and Adult R. E.  | 
| Mon. | Oct. 11 | 11:00 AM | Break Bread delivery | 
| Wed. | Oct. 13 | 5:30 - 8:30 PM | Special 
              Evening for Members and Friends: Potluck and discussion with 
              Rev. Barbara Child (details in 
              the flyer at the end of the newsletter) | 
| Th | Oct. 14 | 6:00 PM | Board of Trustees Meeting in the R.E. wing at the church | 
| Sun | Oct. 17 | 9:30 
              AM  | Young 
              Children and Adult R. E.  | 
| Sun | Oct. 24 | 9:30 
              AM  | Young 
              Children and Adult R. E.  | 
| Sun | Oct. 31 | 9:30 
              AM  | Young 
              Children and Adult R. E.  | 
 October… 
      As I look out 
      across the Pamlico River in eastern North Carolina on this glorious, early 
      fall morning it is difficult to imagine envying anyone. Indeed it is you 
      who should envy me!  However as I 
      have been putting this October newsletter together, with information from 
      various people about your first days with out new minister, Rev. Barbara 
      Child, I am indeed envious that I was not there to also enjoy, what sounds 
      like, wonderful beginnings for our congregation.  
      This month promises to continue what has begun, with plans for a 
      leadership retreat, an evening potluck, and a Sunday religious education 
      session with Rev. Child along with three intriguing Sunday sermons.  
      Two Sundays in October speakers, we have enjoyed in the past, will 
      bring us, once again, interesting and thought provoking presentations.  Plans are afoot too for, what sounds like, several 
      interesting adult religious education experiences with Stephanie Kiyak, linking art, creativity, meditation, and spirituality.  
      Join in when you can and invite your friends to experience what our 
      small congregation has to offer south Georgia.  
      I am coming back soon to join in myself, even though part of me wishes 
      to stay in this idyllic place where my soul resides.  
      MED
Rev. Child Visits Three Sundays in October
On 
      October 10 the title of her sermon is “The Rules We Are Sure to 
      Forget.”  Some rules are really 
      orders or directions.  Others are 
      down-home truths.  They just are.  And it may not matter whether we remember them 
      or not.  Then again, it may.  
October 
      17 Rev. Child will speak on “Differences 
      That Make a Difference: Life in a Company of Strangers.”  It is common these days to talk about “our 
      church family.”  Let’s explore some 
      of the effects of regarding a congregation as a family, and then let’s consider 
      a perhaps surprising alternative, proposed by the Quaker teacher Parker 
      Palmer – a congregation as a “company of strangers.”
“A Day of  Stepping 
      Over Thresholds”  will be her topic on October 31.  The Halloween costumes most in keeping with 
      the holiday are skeletons and ghosts, since Halloween, like All Saints Day 
      and All Souls Day on different people’s religious calendars, celebrates 
      a day devoted to the dead.  On the 
      Day of the Dead, Mexicans pay tribute to their lost loved ones while at 
      the same time they put death in its place.  
      Today’s service will bring to Valdosta the spirit of the Mexican 
      celebration.  Please bring a picture of your dead loved one 
      or some other memento to share during the service.
Other Sunday Services
Fred Howard, 
      one of our members who has spoken often in the last several years, will 
      speak on October 3.  His presentation 
      is entitled “Emerson Lives! Transcendentalism for the Twenty-first Century.”   Fred says if you have ever wondered how transcendentalism 
      fits into Unitarian Universalism and what Emerson might say to us today, 
      if he were still around, then this program may interest you.           Dr. Howard will portray  Emerson, weaving together some Emerson quotes 
      with some of his own ideas about how Emerson might speak to these questions. 
      Fred says this presentation was inspired by reading “Emerson  - The Mind on Fire” by Robert Richardson.  Dr. Fred Howard is currently a student at the 
      Emory School of Theology.  He is a 
      physician. 
On October 24 Dr. Richard Saeger,  Valdosta State University Political Science 
      professor will deliver "Dick Saeger's Quadrennial Election Sermon." 
      Dick says that the Puritan “divines” used to deliver an annual election 
      sermon, so the idea is hardly original. What Dick says he will try to do 
      is to handicap the relevant federal, state, and local elections with rational-albeit 
      highly speculative-analysis of each.  Needless to say many of us have enjoyed Dr. 
      Saeger’s insightful observations through the years.
INVITATION 
      TO MEMBERSHIP
If you are interested in becoming a 
      member of our fellowship, we encourage you to talk with Betsy Thompson, 
      Membership Ministry Committee Chair, or any of our church officers. We welcome 
      your questions, and we extend an open invitation to all who want to join 
      our liberal community of faith.
Rev. Barbara Child
  When 
      I drove into the church parking lot my first day here in September, I noticed 
      right away the sign that says:  “Welcome” and then indicates the direction of 
      “traffic flow.”  At first I chuckled 
      at the thought that you would want to avoid directing people to go “one 
      way.”  But the more I think about it, the more I think 
      that sign is after all a reflection of an important truth about Unitarian 
      Universalism as well as about this church.
                After all, the Universalist part 
      of who we are recognizes that there isn’t just one way, one truth, one right 
      belief – and that new truths may come our way any day and even from some 
      surprising direction.  That is one 
      of the reasons Unitarian Universalism is truly a liberal religion.  It saddens me that these days “liberal” is a 
      common term of derision.  One of my 
      favorite books about our faith is Being Liberal in an Illiberal Age 
      by Jack Mendelsohn.  It’s in its second 
      edition now, but it may give us some perspective to notice that he first 
      wrote it in 1964.  In other words, 
      this “illiberal age” is not new.  
                Still, with Jack Mendelsohn, I 
      celebrate and practice “the importance of persons: their inherent freedom 
      to think, speak, associate, hear, read, see, and learn…”  The liberal spirit calls us to be open and generous, 
      to be curious about others, even those very different from ourselves, and 
      to keep the latch open on our own minds and hearts, so that we might discover 
      change in ourselves as well.  
                I must tell you that something 
      in me cringes when I hear people say they come to a Unitarian Universalist 
      church to be with people “of like mind.”  
      Yes, I do understand how it feels to feel yourself in a minority, 
      even a dismissed or persecuted minority, and to be grateful for safe harbor.  And I am glad if our church can serve as harbor 
      when harbor is needed.  But it is 
      also true that boats aren’t made to stay in harbors. And it is also true, 
      thank goodness, that not all Unitarian Universalists are alike.  As the November election approaches, that may 
      be an important reminder – just as it is important to keep in mind that 
      liberal religion does not necessarily imply liberal politics.  Yes, there does seem to be a traffic flow, but 
      a truly liberal church knows better than to direct its people to behave 
      – or vote – any one way. 
Partisan activities relate specifically to supporting 
      or opposing candidates for public office.  
      There is no prohibition of our speaking and acting consistent with 
      our values on issues rather than candidates.  
      This is a tough but important distinction always to keep in mind.  If you would like to read more detailed coverage 
      of our rights and duties at election time, I have posted on the bulletin 
      board in the Religious Education Building a detailed Action Alert from the 
      UUA Washington Office for Advocacy.  You 
      can also read there about how you can receive these Alerts yourself online.  
      
This 
      is an important time in our national life to be a religious liberal, whether 
      or not you are a political liberal.  Noting 
      how the traffic flows is indeed quite a bit different from ordering people 
      to go one way!  
 about our members
From 
      Halim and Diane: “We would like you to know that we had a wonderful time 
      "exchanging vows" after the service on August 8, 2004.  The service was more wonderful than we could 
      have ever imagined.  We would like 
      to thank you all for supporting us and supporting a place where we can do 
      this.  We especially want to thank 
      Charles Judah, Betty Derrick, Virginia and John Branan, Betsy Thompson, 
      and Joan Cline. We know we are leaving someone out, but we appreciate you 
      all for letting us share this time with you.”   
      For those who could not be there Halim and Diane led the service 
      after which they exchanged vows and we all celebrated together with a reception 
      after the service.
Dee Tait
 
    Well, pat yourself 
    on the back! We certainly had a productive 12 days of September. from the 
    8th through the 19th. We met one-on-one and in groups with Rev. Barbara Child, 
    our new minister. We got to know her better as we talked with her and listened 
    to her sermons, and she learned more about us.
It occurred to me 
    that these 12 days were a little bit like the anticipation of the 12 days 
    of Christmas, when many people look forward to the next day and what it brings. 
    We are welcoming some new faces and the faces of some of the people we have 
    been missing for a while. We are talking about ideas for the coming year.
There is something 
    special in the air. Working together and listening to each other is such a 
    good thing. Thank you for being part of the process.
Adult 
    and Young Children Religious Education will meet each Sunday at 9:30 AM in 
    the R.E. wing.  Contact: Anne Zipperer.
Leadership 
    Retreat
Sunday, October 10:  A 
    Leadership Retreat with Reverend Child for board members (past and present), 
    committee chairs, website manager and newsletter editor will be Sunday, October 
    10 directly following the service.  Pack 
    your own lunch, bring it with you and be ready to begin.  
    
 
    
    
     
 
    
    
Our date for meal deliveries with the Break Bread Together program is the 2nd Monday of each month. If you can deliver meals on this day beginning about 11:00 AM, please contact Dee Tait.
FLORIDA DISTRICT HURRICANE RELIEF FUNDS
 From Rev. Barbara Child:  I 
    mentioned during the Sunday service on September 12 my gratitude to the congregation 
    for your contributions to the Florida District for the benefit of the victims 
    of the recent hurricanes.  You might like to know more about how the 
    funds are being distributed.  Rev. Mary Higgins, the District Executive, 
    and a needs-assessment team have gathered as much information as possible 
    about both churches and individual Unitarian Universalists who are in need 
    of financial assistance.  The collected donations are being distributed 
    in view of the needs assessment.  Therefore, you can know that your donations 
    are being distributed wisely and thoughtfully by going through the District 
    rather than directly to individuals or groups in need.
                The District 
    is managing a separate fund for aid to the Florida farm workers who have not 
    only suffered their own personal losses from the hurricanes but have 
    also lost their work because of the damage to the citrus crops.  Anyone 
    who would like to contribute to that relief is encouraged to send a check 
    to the District office with the notation on the memo line that it is for hurricane 
    relief for farm workers.  
                Checks 
    for both the UU fund and the farm workers fund may be sent to UUA Florida 
    District, 1901 E. Robinson St, Suite 18, Orlando, FL 32803.  Those devastated 
    by the hurricanes will doubtless appreciate every penny you can send. 
Social Action Committee
The Social Action Committee met on September 29th at CiCi's Pizza 
    to discuss and plan social action activities for the upcoming months.  
    As this meeting was after the newsletter went to press, please watch your 
    email box and the orders of service for social action announcements and the 
    date of the next meeting.  All who are interested in social action are 
    invited to be a part of this committee.  Contact Anna Mitchell Hall.
For working so hard to clear the overgrowth around the church: Jim Ingram
For building cleanliness and maintenance: John Tait,  Rosie 
      and Frank Asbury, and Jim Ingram
For lay leading services in September: Randy Thompson, 
      Lars Leader and Virginia Branan
For providing music support for church 
      services: Anna Mitchell Hall and Betsy Thompson
For printing and mailing the September 
      newsletter:  Virginia Branan
For delivering Break Bread meals: Christopher Tait and Dee Tait
For setting up Reverend Child’s full September 
      schedule of meetings with members and friends: Virginia Branan
For organizing a reception to welcome Reverend 
      Child:  Betsy Thompson and Dee Tait
For providing and for and organizing Meet 
      and Greet following Sunday service: 
      Joan Cline
Special THANK YOUS from Barbara Child
      
      o        
      
      
      For welcoming me that morning 
      I arrived and staying around for hours to help me get settled into my office: 
       Dee Tait
      
      o        
      
      
      For assembling the wonderful 
      new office furniture in my office: John Tait
      
      o        
      
      
      For making sure my compensation 
      arrangements were taken care of right away and taking care of office expenditures 
      so that I could easily get to work.  Also for serving as Service Leader 
      at my first service and taking special care to have things go smoothly: 
      Randy Thompson
      
      o        
      
      
      For making me beautiful business 
      cards and letterhead, and for getting a  copier set up in the church 
      office: Betsy Thompson
      
      o        
      
      
      For providing delicious refreshments 
      for the reception for me after my first service: 
      Betsy Thompson and Dee Tait
      
      o        
      
      
      For their participation in 
      a productive meeting to get the Religious Education program well underway 
      for the year:  Anne Zipperer, Sarah Tait, Emily Segrest, 
      Dee Tait, Jennifer Glapion, and Betsy Thompson
      
      o        
      
      
      For taking on the larger agenda 
      my presence brings and working through it with good will and good humor: 
      The Board
      
      o        
      
      
      For arranging my calendar 
      for my time here in September to include lots of conversation meetings for 
      me to get to know as many people as possible as quickly as possible: 
      Virginia Branan
      
      o        
      
      
      For taking special care to 
      choose music for Sunday services that fits with the theme of the day: Anna 
      Mitchell Hall
For all that you do that goes unnoticed: Mention it to a 
      board member or our newsletter editor.
 Restoration 
    Funds
Board 
    and Special Congregational Meetings Announcement
Your Board of Trustees has called 
    for a special Board meeting on November 4, 2004 to hear from all concerned 
    members about the spending of the Restoration Fund.  All members are invited to come to the meeting 
    and be heard.  The meeting will therefore 
    be formatted as a hearing.   The Board 
    of Trustees will be in a listen only mode.
 Any member who has submitted a written proposal 
    by the deadline of November 1, 2004 is invited to come before the Board and 
    make a verbal presentation.
| November 1 – written proposal deadline November 4 – Board meeting presentations 
          and discussion November 7 – Congregational meeting 
          to vote on Board proposal | 
Please 
    Note: Reverend Child 
    has just completed during September a full 12 days of dedicated work for us 
    here at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Valdosta.  At the request 
    of our minister, it is essential that we remember that she works 
    for us part-time and is "off the clock" when she returns to Gainesville, 
    FL each month.  She will be available to us again when she returns on 
    October 10.  She will be here through October 17.  Thank you for 
    meeting and talking with Reverend Child on business and personal levels, for 
    your support of her during her first segment of work here, and for your continuous 
    support of the UU Church of Valdosta.  
UU 
    NOTABLE NEWS: Unitarian Universalist 
    ministry via Harvard Square Library now provides new offerings being seen 
    by viewers in 65 nations on six continents via www.harvardsquarelibrary.org 1. 
    More than 100 color illustrated Notable American Unitarians, 1740-1900 are 
    celebrated for their contributions to civilization. They include John and 
    Abigail Adams (government), Susan B. Anthony (women’s suffrage), Ralph Waldo 
    Emerson (literature), Charles W. Eliot (education), and William Ellery Channing 
    (religion).  2. Nineteen other People 
    of Power now honored online include: Marian Anderson, Robert Frost, Rachel 
    Carson, Duke Ellington, Marilyn Monroe, Eleanor Roosevelt, Howard Thurman, 
    and Abraham Lincoln.  3. We have just 
    released an online color illustrated edition of the first biography of Charles 
    Hartshorne (the Unitarian Universalist philosopher) by Donald Viney. Also 
    new is our presentation of A New World View by Hartshorne, plus a 481 item 
    bibliography of his writings.  4. Three 
    additional new projects now available with color illustrations are (1) Tagore: 
    Poet of  Power; (2) Bright Heraclitus, celebrating the 
    pre-Socratic philosopher whose liberating wisdom shaped Western civilization; 
    (3) a glimpse of Cambridge on the Charles by Alan  Seaburg.
5:30-8:30 
    p.m.
    
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    You would like to make a deeper connection 
    with others in the church.
    
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    You have been attending services or other events 
    or activities here for awhile and wish you knew more about Unitarian Universalism.
    
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    You are not sure whether becoming a member 
    of any church is for you, but you are wondering about joining this one.
    
    ·        
    
    
    You attended the recent Sunday morning series 
    here on “Articulating Your Faith,” and you would like a chance to practice 
    what you learned.
    
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    You have been a Unitarian Universalist, or 
    a member of this congregation, for about a thousand years, but you still aren’t 
    sure what it means to be a Unitarian Universalist.  
    
 
    
    ·        
     
    
    You would like to get to know the new minister, 
    Rev. Barbara Child, better and get her “take” on this radical faith.
If any of these statements 
    applies to you, then this special evening is for you!
Here’s the plan –
          5:30   Pot luck supper
          6:00   “Getting to Know 
    UU” facilitated by Barbara Child
          8:30   Leave for home 
    in time to watch the Presidential Debate at 9:00
To plan for the evening, Barbara 
    needs to know if you’re coming – and so does Betsy Thompson, who is organizing 
    the potluck supper.  So please sign 
    up on the sheet on the bulletin board in the Religious Education Building.  
    And please do come for this special evening in the life of this church!
Editor: Betty Derrick
Production/Mailing: Virginia Branan
Website: Carol Stiles
October 15: deadline for the November newsletter

UU Activities and Announcements
Further information is posted on the bulletin board at the church.
September 26-October 2  
    Florida District Leadership School,  
    Oviedo, FL  
October 16 Managing Differences led by Mary Higgins, 
    Community UU Church, Daytona, FL
Oct. 22-24 “Creating Harmony, A Musical Rendezvous with 
    Spirit,” 
Nov. 13 Fall Leadership Conference facilitated by Wayne Clark, UUA Congregational Fundraising consultant
At the Church-in-the-Woods
 
    Tai Chi 
    – Monday and Thursday Evenings.  Beginner’s 
    Class 5:30-6:30 PM; Intermediate Class 6:30-8:00 PM.  Contact Dennis Bogyo.
New Hope Christian Fellowship - Sunday evenings: Choir practice at 5:00 PM. Service at 6:00 PM.
UUA TRUSTEE TIDBITS-Joan Lund
October 
    is the time I make two trips to Boston, the first for the UUA Trustee meeting 
    during the middle of the month, and then because I am the Board’s liaison 
    to the Annual Program Fund, the last weekend of the month I will be there 
    for an executive committee meeting of that group. The old saying, “it is better 
    to ask forgiveness than permission”, may apply in the timeliness of getting 
    a BOT report to you. October also sees me traveling to visit relatives and 
    having company at the beginning of the month so you may not read about the 
    BOT meeting until December. 
This month I am writing about the Commission on Appraisal, 
    referencing the UUA Annual Report, 2004. The COA was created in 1934 by a 
    resolution of the American Unitarian Association at its annual meeting. The 
    first question the seven members of the COA decided was whether the organized 
    movement known as Unitarianism had any real function to perform in the modern 
    world, and if not, would it be better to liquidate the organization and resources? 
    In 1936 the Commission presented a comprehensive evaluation of the state of 
    the denomination and a series of specific recommendations for the reorganization 
    of the AUA. Their report put forth a bold vision and program for the future 
    and became a blueprint for the resurgence of American Unitarianism for many 
    years. 
With the 1961 consolidation of the AUA and the Universalist 
    Church of America, new by-laws instituted an ongoing internal review process 
    by establishing a standing COA, with its broad charge to “review any function 
    or activity of the Association which in its judgment will benefit from an 
    independent review and report its conclusions to a regular General Assembly”. 
    As a Standing Committee, the COA’s nine members are elected by the delegates 
    to the GA and funded from the UUA budget. The President of the UUA serves 
    in an ex officio role. Since 1961 the COA has delivered a major report 
    approximately every four years; the most recent report, Belonging: the 
    Meaning of Membership in 2001. 
The current COA study question is “Where is the Unity 
    in Our Theological Diversity?”, and although it can be seen as a continuation 
    of the previous two reports, it is more explicitly religious in its focus 
    as it seeks to address a fundamental and ongoing issue of religious liberalism. 
    In other words, what holds us together as a religious movement considering 
    the extent of our theological diversity? Or, if we are a religious movement, 
    should we be able to articulate what we hold in common in religious 
    terms? Without going into detail, the COA has initiated discussions at G.A. 
    and in regional hearings, plus last winter a survey was sent to every congregation 
    and returned by well over one third of our societies. A draft report will 
    be published from the distillation of gathered information and presented at 
    our next General Assembly in Fort Worth. 
I look forward to hearing from you at my email address, 
    jlund@uua.org, if you would like to talk 
    with me. Thanks for your continued support and communications.
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