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| Thank You! Thank You! | Religious Education | |
| Board Notes | Social Action | UU Activities and Announcements | 
| Minister's Muusings - Rev. Jane Page | ||
| Sun | Mar. 30 |  | Late breaking news! There will be an adult Easter egg hunt, planned by the RE young people, after the service announced in the March newsletter. | 
| Wed | Apr. 2 | 6:00 PM | Board meeting in the R. E. wing at the church | 
| Sun | Apr. 6 | 10:45 AM | Religious Education for children Service
              – “Social Justice,”  Dr. Louis Schmier Meet & Greet Coffee after the service | 
| Sun | Apr. 13 | 10:45 AM | Religious Education for children Service – “Soren Kierkegaard, Authenticity and Christian Existentialism,” Dr. Michael Stoltzfus Meet & Greet Coffee after the service Spring
              Cookout at the church after the service (See
              further information inside) | 
| Mon | Apr. 14 | 11:00 AM | Break Bread delivery | 
| T | Apr. 15 | 6:30 PM | Marc
              Adams- “Restorative Therapy & Faith-based Anti-GLBT Bullying
              At Religious Educational Institutions Uncovered” (Watch
              location  announcements
              for this  Newsletter
              Deadline | 
| F-Sat | Apr. 18-19 | Begins 5PM F and all day Sat. | Florida
              District Annual Assembly in  | 
| Sat. | Apr. 19 | 7:00 PM | Games
              Night at the  | 
| Sun | Apr. 20 | 10:45 AM | Religious Education for children Service
              –  Justice Sunday 2008: “The Cost of  Rev.
               Meet & Greet Coffee after the service Passover begins | 
|  | Apr. 22 |  | Earth
              Day | 
| Sun | Apr. 27 | 10:45 AM | Religious Education for children Service
              – “How the Irish Saved Civilization,” 
              Rev. George Bennett Meet & Greet Coffee after the service | 
April…
      Come, socialize, volunteer, pledge your support, tell your friends!!! 
      
       
 
Sunday, April 6 – Dr. Louis Schmier, “Social Justice”
Dr.
    Louis Schmier Professor of History at VSU, will discuss his experience with
    social justice issues in the south.  Louis is a long time 
Sunday, April 13 - Dr. Michael Stoltzfus, “Soren
    Kierkegaard, Authenticity and Christian Existentialism”
Soren
    Kierkegaard, a nineteenth century Danish Christian existentialist, offers a
    critical analysis of the Christianity of his day that is uniquely fitting
    for the Christianity of our own historical and cultural context.  We
    will mine Kierkegaard’s thought by addressing the following questions: 
    What constitutes an authentic life?  What constitutes an authentic
    Christian life?  Why is it so difficult to live according to the
    principles and values we claim to endorse?  
Spring Cookout: Following Meet and Greet and our post-service
    discussion time on April 13, we will have a cookout at the church. 
    Look for more information about what to bring in the Social
    Activities column in this newsletter.   
Sunday,
    April 20 –  Rev. 
The war in 
Please join
    us and invite others to this important service and the discussion that will
    follow.  Working together with others, we can change the world.
Sunday,
    April 27 – Rev. George Bennett, “How the Irish Saved Civilization”
Sermon based
    on the importance of Saint Patrick. the Irish Saint, and his influence that preserved
    the civilizing influence of the Love of God during the Middle Ages. The
    information in the sermon is based on Tom Cahill's book entitled "How
    the Irish Saved Civilization."  This is one of Cahill's books on
    the hinges of history.
| Rev.
          Jane A. Page, Minister, Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of
          Statesboro, serves our congregation in  | 
Religious
    Education for Children
           
    The R.E. program continues in the New
    Year with the We Believe: Learning and Living Our UU Principles and
    stories by Dr. Seuss. WE BELIEVE... focuses on the seven  UU
    principles.  The RE program for
    children meets at 10:45 AM concurrent with the Sunday morning service. 
    Volunteers to help in the classroom are needed. Contacts: Mya Storey;
    Susan Bailey.
| INVITATION
          TO MEMBERSHIP If you are
          interested in becoming a member of our fellowship, we encourage you to
          talk with our President,  | 
Restorative
    Therapy & Faith-based Anti-GLBT Bullying At Religious Educational
    Institutions Uncovered
Marc
    Adams, Founder of HeartStrong, Author/Activist
April
    15, 2008
    - UU Church of Valdosta
We
    will host Marc Adams, Lambda Literary Award finalist and Silver Pen Award
    recipient for his autobiography, The Preacher’s Son. 
    Marc will share some of his life’s story as well as introduce
    HeartStrong, Inc., the non-profit organization he co-founded more than a
    decade ago. HeartStrong, Inc., is a non-profit educational
    organization for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender students of
    religious schools, colleges, and universities. HeartStrong has provided hope
    and help to GLBT students who have endured faith-based anti-GLBT bullying in
    religious schools around the world since 1996. 
               
    The Preacher’s Son chronicles Marc’s life growing up gay as
    the son of a fundamentalist Baptist minister in rural 
    
     Ministerial
    Muusings 
    Rev.
    Ministerial
    Muusings 
    Rev. 
The
    “G Spot” of Unitarian Universalism
Our Unitarian
    Universalist moderator, Gini Courter, is one of the most interesting and
    talented folks I’ve met in this Association. 
    Gini is an elected lay leader who works her magic at General Assembly
    to somehow guide an extremely diverse collection of delegates to come to
    some agreements regarding our goals and actions together. 
    I’ve marveled at her ability to do this very difficult job. 
    If you have a chance to go to General Assembly, it will be worth it
    to see her in action.  In that
    setting, however, she’s a facilitator, coordinator, conductor, and problem
    solver.  She’s not generally
    the one sharing her own ideas.  I
    have been fortunate enough, however, to hear her speak in other
    “non-moderator” settings.  One
    of these settings was at the annual Thomas Jefferson District meeting in
    2007, where she gave the keynote address. 
    Gini shared her pearls of wisdom with us. 
    I’m sharing these with you now because they seem to be particularly
    appropriate for the future of this congregation. 
    Here are five of those pearls (paraphrased by me). 
    
o       
    There are three topics that can always start a conversation in
    our congregations:  Generosity,
    Growth, and God.  One might say
    that these are the three “G-Spots” of Unitarian Universalism. 
    (Gini’s main emphasis in her speech related to the second
    “g-spot.”)
o       
    We’ve had three times in our history as Unitarians and/or
    Universalists in which we’ve had significant growth: 
    first, in Colonial New England; second, following the Civil War
    (especially in the Western Unitarian Conference); and third, in the 50’s
    prior to our merger.  And now, we
    are beginning a new phase of growth and are on the cusp of another
    significant period, if we are open to the value of spreading the good news
    of liberal religion.
o       
    We are in a unique role to reach people in transforming the
    world because of our openness to change. 
    Unitarian Charles Darwin said that it’s not the strongest that
    survive, but those most responsive to change.
o       
    Our research indicates that most of our congregations will
    have at least the number of visitors each year as there are members. 
    Therefore a congregation of 50 people will probably have at least 50
    visitors each year.  Yet most of
    our congregations retain only ten percent of these folks. 
    Since our congregations also lose approximately ten percent a year
    for various reasons, there is no growth. 
    All visitors come for a reason.  We
    need to find out what brings them to us and determine the best way to meet
    their needs or assist them in finding a church that can do better. 
    Research indicates that 75% of our new members say that they decided
    the church was right for them the first time they visited. 
    They may take a while before they join, but their first visit is
    extremely important.  Additionally
    almost half of that 75% say that they “knew in the first five minutes.” 
    
o       
    Congregations that grow have changed the language of growth. 
    The emphasis and goals are not on numbers but on what their mission
    is and how best to fulfill it.  Many
    of our breakthrough congregations have grown because they’ve struggled
    with and determined who they are in the community and have worked to make a
    difference in the lives of others.  
I came to Unitarian Universalism as a visitor and so did
    most of you.  We came here and
    found that we were at home.  The
    Reverend Peter Morales reminds us that “our visitors are us.”  
    And it’s up to all of us to welcome them home to Unitarian
    Universalism.  
 
    
For layleading services: 
      
For organizing and leading
      special services: Lars
      Leader and Doug Tanner
For the children’s RE Sunday
      service participation:  Susan
      Bailey and the children who participated.
For helping with Sunday Service
      music: Dee Tait, 
For flowers for Sunday
      services: Betty
      Derrick, Susan Bailey
For greeting visitors: Ann
      Marie Smith and others who made
      our newcomers welcome
For serving as Meet and Greet
      Hosts:  Betty
      Derrick, Julie Halter, Dee Tait, 
For updating the UU Valdosta
      listserve: 
      Lars Leader
For organizing the Easter Egg
      Hunts for children and adults: Susan
      Bailey and the RE children
For assisting with Children’s
      RE: 
For
      delivering Break Bread meals:
      Frank Asbury
For arrangements for VSU SAFE
      students staying in our facility recently: Mya
      Storey for coordinating, Sue Bailey for cleaning in preparation for their
      stay.
For cleaning the church: Frank
      Asbury, Susan Bailey, Lars Leader 
For keeping our grounds: 
For participating in Games
      Night:  Susan
      Bailey and Emilee, Betty Derrick, Julie and Jason Halter, Dwayne Cox, Dee
      Tait, Michael Greene 
For participating in the Book
      Discussion: Betty
      Derrick for organizing and all who participated.
For arranging for the Marc
      Adams event in April: 
For arranging for our Accepting
      Difference Project donation to the Pavo Hindu Ashram and making a VSU
      contact for a future project: Lars
      Leader and Susan Bailey
For all you do that we may not have thanked you for in person. 
      Let your editor know your contributions so that others can
      know!  It takes all of us and
      we appreciate you.
| Newsletter Editor: 
          Betty Derrick  Website: 
          Carol
          Stiles Local
          Publicity: Dee
          Tait April
          15: Deadline
          for the May newsletter.  | 
Adult Easter Egg Hunt
    
Sunday, March 30 after
    the Sunday Service
The R.E. children after their opportunity on Easter Sunday for an egg hunt plan to challenge the adults on the final Sunday of March with an adult egg hunt! Plan to join in the fun.
Spring
    Cookout at the Church
Sunday,
    April 13.
After our post-service discussion time, Doug Tanner will have his grill set up at the church. Bring what you would like to grill and a salad, side dish, or dessert to share. Tea and soft drinks will be provided. You are also welcome to bring your own libations of preference. There will be some outdoor toys for the kids to keep them occupied. Invite the family and a friend or two!
Games Night
Saturday,
    April 19   7:00 PM
At the
    church
Bring some finger foods and munchies to
    share, libations if you’d like, the kids, a friend, a favorite game and
    let the games begin. As Dee Tait recently observed, this is more than just
    games, it’s a support system---a good way to get to know some of your
    fellow UUers.  See Sue Bailey for further details.  Come enjoy the
    fun!
Book Discussion:
Watch
    for announcements about the next book, which will be chosen at the late
    March discussion.   The next
    potluck and discussion will be scheduled most likely for an evening in May. 
    We are selecting books which deal with different cultures, religions,
    and life styles.  Let Betty
    Derrick know your suggestions.   
ABOUT OUR MEMBERS AND
    FRIENDS
Keep in your thoughts …
v  
    Our members and
    friends experiencing difficult health issues.
Congratulations
    to
v  
    Sean Leader who was
    recently honored as the STAR Student for 
Founder of HeartStrong
Author/Activist Marc
    Adams
Comes to 
Unitarian
    Universalist Fellowship of Gainesville, 4225 N.W. 34th Street; 4pm -
    Interfaith Social Justice Forum; 6:30 pm – Interweave potluck; 7:30 pm –
    From Fundamentalism to Freedom (you may attend any one or all events….)
***************
Sponsored
    by 
Contact: 
    
Break
    Bread Together: 
    Our date for meal deliveries with the Break Bread Together program is
    the 2nd Monday of each month. 
    If you can deliver meals on this day beginning about 11:00 AM, please
    contact Frank Asbury.
Accepting
    Difference Project: The Accepting Difference Committee, after
    conversation with Sadhvi Ji Chaitanya(Vrndaji) of the AVM Hindu ashram in
    Pavo and with the 
Is your
    congregation a Peacemaking Congregation? 
    Over 120 UU congregations nationwide are. 
    They are sponsoring workshops, lectures and book clubs exploring
    peaceful alternatives to violence on the personal, societal and
    international levels, as part of the national Congregational Study/Action
    Issue (CSAI) on Peacemaking (2006-2010). 
    We invite your Congregation to Participate! How do you benefit?  Receive
    Monthly Peacemaking Newsletter describing other congregations' peacemaking
    program ideas. Use newly developed resources for peace workshops and RE
    curricula. Give your congregation a voice in writing/approving the UUA
    Peacemaking Statement of Conscience. What can you do for us? Provide an
    email point of contact (POC) for your congregation willing to: Periodically
    post a peace flyer on your bulletin board; Forward infrequent messages from
    the CSAI core team to your congregational email list or newsletter; Share
    your congregation's peacemaking activity ideas in our newsletter; How do you
    become a Participating Congregation?  Identify
    an individual to be your point of contact and hold at least one peacemaking
    activity.  Have them reply to
    this email ( john@schaibly.com ) with the word "Participate" in
    the Subject Line.
UU 
UUValdosta
    listserv Do you receive the UUValdosta emails? 
    The UUValdosta listserv, our email distribution list, has not been
    updated with new members and friends for awhile. 
    If you receive messages with [UUValdosta] beginning the subject line,
    you are in the loop for our church's email communication. 
    If not, to be added to the list and receive UUValdosta messages, just
    let 
Treasurer's
    Report
Rosie
    Asbury
February
    2008
Receipts               
    February                              
    July -present
 Plate                     
    $    84.00                
    $   809.83
 Pledge                       
    775.00                                  
    7040.00
 Rent                           
    240.00                                  
    1920.00
 Memorial
    donation      0.00                               
    10000.00
Total
    Receipts      $
    1099.00                               
    $19769.83
Disbursements  
    
 Mortgage            
    $  500.00                               
    $ 4000.00               
    
 Speakers’
    Fees       
     750.00                                  
    5260.00
 Repairs
    & Maint.   1190.84                                  
    1260.84
 Newsletter                
    131.28                                   
      297.68
 Termite
    Control           
    0.00                                    
     278.00
 Postage                         
    5.74                                    
    162.17
 Supplies                        
    7.21                                      
    54.48
 Utilities                     
    199.53                                  
    1901.16
  UU
    Dues                      
    0.00                                  
    1500.00
 
    Others                       
     19.00                                    
    262.65
Total 
    Disbursements        
    
                               
    $  2803.60                              
    $14976.98
Net
    Receipt           $
    -1704.60                              
    $  4792.85
    
     Pledges:
    It’s time as in Rev.
     Pledges:
    It’s time as in Rev. 
UU
    Activities and Announcements
Further
    information is posted on the bulletin board in the R.E. wing at the church. 
    Also check your Sunday Order of Service for announcements.
April
    5 Church Growth Workshop – Part II, 
April
    18-20 Florida District ANNUAL
    ASSEMBLY, Gainesville, FL [Note date change from that previously announced.]
We are now accepting
    nominations for District
    Awards to be presented during the upcoming Annual Assembly. 
Conference
    theme: “How Strong Is Our Faith — Spiritual Growth in a Multi-Cultural
    World” with Paula Cole Jones,
    of consultant for JUUST Change.
April
    20 Global Warming Forum, 
April 24
    Humanities Series -
June 24-25
    UUUniversity, 
Dr. Nick Carter,
    President of Andover Newton Theological School, will be the keynote program
    as congregational leaders work on what Dr. Carter calls “interfaith border
    crossing skills — the ability to communicate with, work with, and care for
    people who think differently and pray differently.” 
June
    25–29 47th UUA GENERAL
    ASSEMBLY, 
GA Program & Registrations available on-line March 1st at www.uua.org
At the Church-in-the-Woods
New Hope Christian Fellowship
    - Sunday
    evenings: Choir practice at 5:00 PM. Service at 6:00 PM.
    
Taoist
    Tai Chi – Monday
    and Thursday: Beginner’s Class, 5:30-6:30 PM; Continuing Class,
    6:30-8:00 PM.  Contact 
UUA TRUSTEE
    TIDBITS                   
    Joan Lund
I hope many
    of you will be attending the District Annual Meeting later this month in 
               
    As some of you know concern about security regulations at the 
               
    It is important for Florida District UUs to bring our leadership,
    wisdom, and love for our faith to GA for other reasons too. Last year in 
               
    To encourage congregational presidents’ attendance at GA the
    Association is offering registration reimbursement of up to $72.50,
    twenty-five percent of the cost of full-time early registration to the
    congregation’s highest lay leader. In addition is hoped congregations will
    financially support their president’s attendance. 
               
    I could write much more about the events, speakers, and programming
    planned for GA this year but space does not permit. Please go on to the UUA
    website (www.uua.org) for more information about GA, including a scheduled
    important public witness event and UU University, the day and a half
    preceding GA. Stay in touch: jlund@uua.org.
    I look forward to hearing from you. 
Angels
    work for God and watch over kids when God has to go do something else.
    ~~~Mitchell, 7
Greetings Florida District Friends and Leaders
Rev. Kenn Hurto-District
    Executive for the 
The seasons
    of congregational life move along somewhat predictably. Many of the
    District's congregations are in "season," meaning they are
    experiencing an attendance swell as our beloved snowbirds and tourists join
    the yearrounders. This is a wonderful time of celebration and reminder of
    how broad our connections really are.  Many
    are also in the season of stewardship campaigns. I do hope you are
    "lighting the fire" for our growth as a faith and are proud to ask
    for generous gifts to your shared ministries. I am confident I do not go too
    far asserting that most of the FLD congregations are under-funded. This is
    due in part because we do not ask well or fail to make the link between a
    generosity of spirit and a vital faith. In too many places, the pledge drive
    is "something we gotta do" and reduced to the selling of budgets.
    The stewardship exercise should be a matter of spiritual discipline and
    deepening of relationship. Putting a box with pledge cards on a table just
    doesn't cut it. We need to have a heart-to-heart talk, member to member
    about our work. It is a spiritual discipline. All our leaders have an
    obligation to teach the link between our gifts and our faith values. So, be
    generous in your own giving of time, talent, and treasure. Then, invite your
    fellow members to do likewise. I feel some urgency to convey to you the
    excitement in many of our congregations. Generally, our morale is high. The 
| 
          A
          reminder comes from CLF, the congregation without walls serving
          primarily Unitarian Universalists who live in an area without a local
          congregation, that their Religious Education materials may be of use
          to congregations, notably CLiF Notes: A Curriculum for Families and
          Small Groups. Our congregations with smaller religious education
          programs may find these resources especially of value. See: www.clf.uua.org
          for details. A copy of their flyer "RE Express Plus" can be
          found on the FLD website under "Church Tools." | 
The 
We should
    worship together! I have this radical idea. I think we should be worshiping
    with our children. If worship is a time when we celebrate the things that we
    find most worthy (upholding our values) then it is the time for us to teach
    our values to our children. The question to ask ourselves is, “Why do we
    want a Children’s Religious Education Program?” What is your answer? I
    have heard, “We need young families to survive.” and “Children are our
    future.” While these statements are partially true they are not a good
    enough reason to want children to be part of the congregation. Children need
    to be part of the now. They are not our salvation. Adults need children.
    Children need adults. Together we will make a difference. Together we will
    build the beloved community. Children in the community make the community
    whole. While children will carry the vision forward,
    it will be changed into their vision, as it should be. Adults lay a
    foundation for children to build upon. If we have lived up to our
    responsibilities to our Unitarian Universalist children they will change us
    and we will all become more. In order to have this happen we must to be in
    deep genuine relationship.  We
    have been handed a model for Children’s Religious Education. It is a model
    of concentric programming, the center hub being Unitarian Universalism.
    Children’s Faith Development time happens at the same time as worship. In
    small congregations, under 100 adults, this presents a particularly
    difficult problem. There simply are not enough people to do two quality
    programs. But for all of us, small and large, it is the model we know so we
    continue to use it. However, I want to suggest that this model has not
    served us well. Studies tell us that we keep less than 5% of the children
    who literally pass through our programs. What does this tell us about our
    future?  I have also heard,
    “Children can’t sit still through the sermon.” and “Children will be
    restless and noisy during worship.” Nobody sits still or constantly pays
    attention to the sermon. If we are saying that our service is too boring for
    children I might ask, “How many others is the sermon too boring for?” As
    for restless and noisy, so are adults and we must teach everyone worship
    manners. It is not the children we don’t want in the service, it is
    disruptive behavior – from anybody. If we covenant to be together in
    respectful relationship and we call ourselves and one another back into
    covenant every time we make a mistake, our healthy relationships shouldn’t
    be hard to build or maintain.  There
    are many ways to involve children in worship. In the next couple of article
    I will talk more about how to we could accomplish real family worship. 
 Keep it Legal & Ethical:  Rules
    for Showing Movies in Your Congregation   Many
    of our congregations host a "movie night" or use commercial movies
    for educational work. Just so we know, there are some rules you should
    follow. From the UUA's attorney, Edward P. Leibensperger, these guidelines: 
    “A copyrighted film is entitled to protection. That means that
    a rented video or DVD cannot be performed outside home use, subject to the
    following exemption.  It is not infringement
    if the performance of the work is "by instructors or pupils in the
    course of face-to-face teaching activities of a nonprofit educational
    institution, in a classroom or similar place devoted to instruction."   It seems safe to
    conclude that a church with regular educational classes would qualify as a
    nonprofit educational institution. The showing of the film must be in the
    context of the teaching activity.   A
    social, "night at the movies" showing of a copyrighted film is an
    infringement. 
Investors Against Genocide: Draw
    the line at investing in genocide. 
    Join the Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA), the Unitarian
    Universalist Service Committee (UUSC), and Investors Against Genocide (IAG)
    in the fight to end the 
               
    If you are a mutual fund investor in Fidelity funds, or those from 50
    other companies, you have a vote in the way your money is managed. Investors
    Against Genocide has submitted shareholder proposals on genocide-free
    investing to more than 50 mutual funds. Shareholders now have the
    unprecedented opportunity to vote their proxies to tell mutual funds that
    they don't want their money invested in companies that abet genocide.   Proxy
    materials and proxy ballots that include this shareholder proposal are now
    being distributed by Fidelity for its Contrafund and eleven other Fidelity
    funds holding shareholder meetings on March 19.  There
    are also votes scheduled for April 16 and May 14 for Fidelity Funds. Votes
    at more Fidelity Funds plus other major fund companies, including Vanguard,
    Franklin Templeton and Barclays, will follow in coming months. To see the
    latest list of mutual funds with votes pending on genocide-free investing,
    visit Investors Against Genocide. 
Labor
    Rights and Economic Justice JustJourney to Mexico Join UUSC and UUJEC
    for a JustJourney experience, May 24-June 1, 2008, to explore the important
    ways corporate-led globalization and free trade agreements like the North
    American Free Trade Agreement (NAFTA) have affected the lives of Mexicans,
    particularly the landless poor, women, indigenous people, and migrant
    workers. 
    One of the promises of NAFTA was that it would create more jobs
    in 
I
    only know the names of two angels, Hark and Harold. ~~~Gregory, 5
    Everybody's
    got it all wrong. Angels don't wear halos anymore. I forget 
    why, but scientists are working on it.~~~Olive,  9
    
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