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Minister's Muusings - Rev. Jane Page |
Sun |
Mar. 30 |
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Late breaking news! There will be an adult Easter egg hunt, planned by the RE young people, after the service announced in the March newsletter. |
Wed |
Apr. 2 |
6:00 PM |
Board meeting in the R. E. wing at the church |
Sun |
Apr. 6 |
10:45 AM |
Religious Education for children Service
– “Social Justice,” Dr. Louis Schmier Meet & Greet Coffee after the service |
Sun |
Apr. 13 |
10:45 AM |
Religious Education for children Service – “Soren Kierkegaard, Authenticity and Christian Existentialism,” Dr. Michael Stoltzfus Meet & Greet Coffee after the service Spring
Cookout at the church after the service (See
further information inside) |
Mon |
Apr. 14 |
11:00 AM |
Break Bread delivery |
T |
Apr. 15 |
6:30 PM |
Marc
Adams- “Restorative Therapy & Faith-based Anti-GLBT Bullying
At Religious Educational Institutions Uncovered” (Watch
location announcements
for this Newsletter
Deadline |
F-Sat |
Apr. 18-19 |
Begins 5PM F and all day Sat. |
Florida
District Annual Assembly in |
Sat. |
Apr. 19 |
7:00 PM |
Games
Night at the |
Sun |
Apr. 20 |
10:45 AM |
Religious Education for children Service
– Justice Sunday 2008: “The Cost of Rev.
Meet & Greet Coffee after the service Passover begins |
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Apr. 22 |
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Earth
Day |
Sun |
Apr. 27 |
10:45 AM |
Religious Education for children Service
– “How the Irish Saved Civilization,”
Rev. George Bennett Meet & Greet Coffee after the service |
April…
Come, socialize, volunteer, pledge your support, tell your friends!!!
Sunday, April 6 – Dr. Louis Schmier, “Social Justice”
Dr.
Louis Schmier Professor of History at VSU, will discuss his experience with
social justice issues in the south. Louis is a long time
Sunday, April 13 - Dr. Michael Stoltzfus, “Soren
Kierkegaard, Authenticity and Christian Existentialism”
Soren
Kierkegaard, a nineteenth century Danish Christian existentialist, offers a
critical analysis of the Christianity of his day that is uniquely fitting
for the Christianity of our own historical and cultural context. We
will mine Kierkegaard’s thought by addressing the following questions:
What constitutes an authentic life? What constitutes an authentic
Christian life? Why is it so difficult to live according to the
principles and values we claim to endorse?
Spring Cookout: Following Meet and Greet and our post-service
discussion time on April 13, we will have a cookout at the church.
Look for more information about what to bring in the Social
Activities column in this newsletter.
Sunday,
April 20 – Rev.
The war in
Please join
us and invite others to this important service and the discussion that will
follow. Working together with others, we can change the world.
Sunday,
April 27 – Rev. George Bennett, “How the Irish Saved Civilization”
Sermon based
on the importance of Saint Patrick. the Irish Saint, and his influence that preserved
the civilizing influence of the Love of God during the Middle Ages. The
information in the sermon is based on Tom Cahill's book entitled "How
the Irish Saved Civilization." This is one of Cahill's books on
the hinges of history.
Rev.
Jane A. Page, Minister, Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of
Statesboro, serves our congregation in |
Religious
Education for Children
The R.E. program continues in the New
Year with the We Believe: Learning and Living Our UU Principles and
stories by Dr. Seuss. WE BELIEVE... focuses on the seven UU
principles. The RE program for
children meets at 10:45 AM concurrent with the Sunday morning service.
Volunteers to help in the classroom are needed. Contacts: Mya Storey;
Susan Bailey.
INVITATION
TO MEMBERSHIP If you are
interested in becoming a member of our fellowship, we encourage you to
talk with our President, |
Restorative
Therapy & Faith-based Anti-GLBT Bullying At Religious Educational
Institutions Uncovered
Marc
Adams, Founder of HeartStrong, Author/Activist
April
15, 2008
- UU Church of Valdosta
We
will host Marc Adams, Lambda Literary Award finalist and Silver Pen Award
recipient for his autobiography, The Preacher’s Son.
Marc will share some of his life’s story as well as introduce
HeartStrong, Inc., the non-profit organization he co-founded more than a
decade ago. HeartStrong, Inc., is a non-profit educational
organization for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender students of
religious schools, colleges, and universities. HeartStrong has provided hope
and help to GLBT students who have endured faith-based anti-GLBT bullying in
religious schools around the world since 1996.
The Preacher’s Son chronicles Marc’s life growing up gay as
the son of a fundamentalist Baptist minister in rural
Ministerial
Muusings
Rev.
The
“G Spot” of Unitarian Universalism
Our Unitarian
Universalist moderator, Gini Courter, is one of the most interesting and
talented folks I’ve met in this Association.
Gini is an elected lay leader who works her magic at General Assembly
to somehow guide an extremely diverse collection of delegates to come to
some agreements regarding our goals and actions together.
I’ve marveled at her ability to do this very difficult job.
If you have a chance to go to General Assembly, it will be worth it
to see her in action. In that
setting, however, she’s a facilitator, coordinator, conductor, and problem
solver. She’s not generally
the one sharing her own ideas. I
have been fortunate enough, however, to hear her speak in other
“non-moderator” settings. One
of these settings was at the annual Thomas Jefferson District meeting in
2007, where she gave the keynote address.
Gini shared her pearls of wisdom with us.
I’m sharing these with you now because they seem to be particularly
appropriate for the future of this congregation.
Here are five of those pearls (paraphrased by me).
o
There are three topics that can always start a conversation in
our congregations: Generosity,
Growth, and God. One might say
that these are the three “G-Spots” of Unitarian Universalism.
(Gini’s main emphasis in her speech related to the second
“g-spot.”)
o
We’ve had three times in our history as Unitarians and/or
Universalists in which we’ve had significant growth:
first, in Colonial New England; second, following the Civil War
(especially in the Western Unitarian Conference); and third, in the 50’s
prior to our merger. And now, we
are beginning a new phase of growth and are on the cusp of another
significant period, if we are open to the value of spreading the good news
of liberal religion.
o
We are in a unique role to reach people in transforming the
world because of our openness to change.
Unitarian Charles Darwin said that it’s not the strongest that
survive, but those most responsive to change.
o
Our research indicates that most of our congregations will
have at least the number of visitors each year as there are members.
Therefore a congregation of 50 people will probably have at least 50
visitors each year. Yet most of
our congregations retain only ten percent of these folks.
Since our congregations also lose approximately ten percent a year
for various reasons, there is no growth.
All visitors come for a reason. We
need to find out what brings them to us and determine the best way to meet
their needs or assist them in finding a church that can do better.
Research indicates that 75% of our new members say that they decided
the church was right for them the first time they visited.
They may take a while before they join, but their first visit is
extremely important. Additionally
almost half of that 75% say that they “knew in the first five minutes.”
o
Congregations that grow have changed the language of growth.
The emphasis and goals are not on numbers but on what their mission
is and how best to fulfill it. Many
of our breakthrough congregations have grown because they’ve struggled
with and determined who they are in the community and have worked to make a
difference in the lives of others.
I came to Unitarian Universalism as a visitor and so did
most of you. We came here and
found that we were at home. The
Reverend Peter Morales reminds us that “our visitors are us.”
And it’s up to all of us to welcome them home to Unitarian
Universalism.
For layleading services:
For organizing and leading
special services: Lars
Leader and Doug Tanner
For the children’s RE Sunday
service participation: Susan
Bailey and the children who participated.
For helping with Sunday Service
music: Dee Tait,
For flowers for Sunday
services: Betty
Derrick, Susan Bailey
For greeting visitors: Ann
Marie Smith and others who made
our newcomers welcome
For serving as Meet and Greet
Hosts: Betty
Derrick, Julie Halter, Dee Tait,
For updating the UU Valdosta
listserve:
Lars Leader
For organizing the Easter Egg
Hunts for children and adults: Susan
Bailey and the RE children
For assisting with Children’s
RE:
For
delivering Break Bread meals:
Frank Asbury
For arrangements for VSU SAFE
students staying in our facility recently: Mya
Storey for coordinating, Sue Bailey for cleaning in preparation for their
stay.
For cleaning the church: Frank
Asbury, Susan Bailey, Lars Leader
For keeping our grounds:
For participating in Games
Night: Susan
Bailey and Emilee, Betty Derrick, Julie and Jason Halter, Dwayne Cox, Dee
Tait, Michael Greene
For participating in the Book
Discussion: Betty
Derrick for organizing and all who participated.
For arranging for the Marc
Adams event in April:
For arranging for our Accepting
Difference Project donation to the Pavo Hindu Ashram and making a VSU
contact for a future project: Lars
Leader and Susan Bailey
For all you do that we may not have thanked you for in person.
Let your editor know your contributions so that others can
know! It takes all of us and
we appreciate you.
Newsletter Editor:
Betty Derrick Website:
Carol
Stiles Local
Publicity: Dee
Tait April
15: Deadline
for the May newsletter. |
Adult Easter Egg Hunt
Sunday, March 30 after
the Sunday Service
The R.E. children after their opportunity on Easter Sunday for an egg hunt plan to challenge the adults on the final Sunday of March with an adult egg hunt! Plan to join in the fun.
Spring
Cookout at the Church
Sunday,
April 13.
After our post-service discussion time, Doug Tanner will have his grill set up at the church. Bring what you would like to grill and a salad, side dish, or dessert to share. Tea and soft drinks will be provided. You are also welcome to bring your own libations of preference. There will be some outdoor toys for the kids to keep them occupied. Invite the family and a friend or two!
Games Night
Saturday,
April 19 7:00 PM
At the
church
Bring some finger foods and munchies to
share, libations if you’d like, the kids, a friend, a favorite game and
let the games begin. As Dee Tait recently observed, this is more than just
games, it’s a support system---a good way to get to know some of your
fellow UUers. See Sue Bailey for further details. Come enjoy the
fun!
Book Discussion:
Watch
for announcements about the next book, which will be chosen at the late
March discussion. The next
potluck and discussion will be scheduled most likely for an evening in May.
We are selecting books which deal with different cultures, religions,
and life styles. Let Betty
Derrick know your suggestions.
ABOUT OUR MEMBERS AND
FRIENDS
Keep in your thoughts …
v
Our members and
friends experiencing difficult health issues.
Congratulations
to
v
Sean Leader who was
recently honored as the STAR Student for
Founder of HeartStrong
Author/Activist Marc
Adams
Comes to
Unitarian
Universalist Fellowship of Gainesville, 4225 N.W. 34th Street; 4pm -
Interfaith Social Justice Forum; 6:30 pm – Interweave potluck; 7:30 pm –
From Fundamentalism to Freedom (you may attend any one or all events….)
***************
Sponsored
by
Contact:
Break
Bread Together:
Our date for meal deliveries with the Break Bread Together program is
the 2nd Monday of each month.
If you can deliver meals on this day beginning about 11:00 AM, please
contact Frank Asbury.
Accepting
Difference Project: The Accepting Difference Committee, after
conversation with Sadhvi Ji Chaitanya(Vrndaji) of the AVM Hindu ashram in
Pavo and with the
Is your
congregation a Peacemaking Congregation?
Over 120 UU congregations nationwide are.
They are sponsoring workshops, lectures and book clubs exploring
peaceful alternatives to violence on the personal, societal and
international levels, as part of the national Congregational Study/Action
Issue (CSAI) on Peacemaking (2006-2010).
We invite your Congregation to Participate! How do you benefit? Receive
Monthly Peacemaking Newsletter describing other congregations' peacemaking
program ideas. Use newly developed resources for peace workshops and RE
curricula. Give your congregation a voice in writing/approving the UUA
Peacemaking Statement of Conscience. What can you do for us? Provide an
email point of contact (POC) for your congregation willing to: Periodically
post a peace flyer on your bulletin board; Forward infrequent messages from
the CSAI core team to your congregational email list or newsletter; Share
your congregation's peacemaking activity ideas in our newsletter; How do you
become a Participating Congregation? Identify
an individual to be your point of contact and hold at least one peacemaking
activity. Have them reply to
this email ( john@schaibly.com ) with the word "Participate" in
the Subject Line.
UU
UUValdosta
listserv Do you receive the UUValdosta emails?
The UUValdosta listserv, our email distribution list, has not been
updated with new members and friends for awhile.
If you receive messages with [UUValdosta] beginning the subject line,
you are in the loop for our church's email communication.
If not, to be added to the list and receive UUValdosta messages, just
let
Treasurer's
Report
Rosie
Asbury
February
2008
Receipts
February
July -present
Plate
$ 84.00
$ 809.83
Pledge
775.00
7040.00
Rent
240.00
1920.00
Memorial
donation 0.00
10000.00
Total
Receipts $
1099.00
$19769.83
Disbursements
Mortgage
$ 500.00
$ 4000.00
Speakers’
Fees
750.00
5260.00
Repairs
& Maint. 1190.84
1260.84
Newsletter
131.28
297.68
Termite
Control
0.00
278.00
Postage
5.74
162.17
Supplies
7.21
54.48
Utilities
199.53
1901.16
UU
Dues
0.00
1500.00
Others
19.00
262.65
Total
Disbursements
$ 2803.60
$14976.98
Net
Receipt $
-1704.60
$ 4792.85
Pledges:
It’s time as in Rev.
UU
Activities and Announcements
Further
information is posted on the bulletin board in the R.E. wing at the church.
Also check your Sunday Order of Service for announcements.
April
5 Church Growth Workshop – Part II,
April
18-20 Florida District ANNUAL
ASSEMBLY, Gainesville, FL [Note date change from that previously announced.]
We are now accepting
nominations for District
Awards to be presented during the upcoming Annual Assembly.
Conference
theme: “How Strong Is Our Faith — Spiritual Growth in a Multi-Cultural
World” with Paula Cole Jones,
of consultant for JUUST Change.
April
20 Global Warming Forum,
April 24
Humanities Series -
June 24-25
UUUniversity,
Dr. Nick Carter,
President of Andover Newton Theological School, will be the keynote program
as congregational leaders work on what Dr. Carter calls “interfaith border
crossing skills — the ability to communicate with, work with, and care for
people who think differently and pray differently.”
June
25–29 47th UUA GENERAL
ASSEMBLY,
GA Program & Registrations available on-line March 1st at www.uua.org
At the Church-in-the-Woods
New Hope Christian Fellowship
- Sunday
evenings: Choir practice at 5:00 PM. Service at 6:00 PM.
Taoist
Tai Chi – Monday
and Thursday: Beginner’s Class, 5:30-6:30 PM; Continuing Class,
6:30-8:00 PM. Contact
UUA TRUSTEE
TIDBITS
Joan Lund
I hope many
of you will be attending the District Annual Meeting later this month in
As some of you know concern about security regulations at the
It is important for Florida District UUs to bring our leadership,
wisdom, and love for our faith to GA for other reasons too. Last year in
To encourage congregational presidents’ attendance at GA the
Association is offering registration reimbursement of up to $72.50,
twenty-five percent of the cost of full-time early registration to the
congregation’s highest lay leader. In addition is hoped congregations will
financially support their president’s attendance.
I could write much more about the events, speakers, and programming
planned for GA this year but space does not permit. Please go on to the UUA
website (www.uua.org) for more information about GA, including a scheduled
important public witness event and UU University, the day and a half
preceding GA. Stay in touch: jlund@uua.org.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Angels
work for God and watch over kids when God has to go do something else.
~~~Mitchell, 7
Greetings Florida District Friends and Leaders
Rev. Kenn Hurto-District
Executive for the
The seasons
of congregational life move along somewhat predictably. Many of the
District's congregations are in "season," meaning they are
experiencing an attendance swell as our beloved snowbirds and tourists join
the yearrounders. This is a wonderful time of celebration and reminder of
how broad our connections really are. Many
are also in the season of stewardship campaigns. I do hope you are
"lighting the fire" for our growth as a faith and are proud to ask
for generous gifts to your shared ministries. I am confident I do not go too
far asserting that most of the FLD congregations are under-funded. This is
due in part because we do not ask well or fail to make the link between a
generosity of spirit and a vital faith. In too many places, the pledge drive
is "something we gotta do" and reduced to the selling of budgets.
The stewardship exercise should be a matter of spiritual discipline and
deepening of relationship. Putting a box with pledge cards on a table just
doesn't cut it. We need to have a heart-to-heart talk, member to member
about our work. It is a spiritual discipline. All our leaders have an
obligation to teach the link between our gifts and our faith values. So, be
generous in your own giving of time, talent, and treasure. Then, invite your
fellow members to do likewise. I feel some urgency to convey to you the
excitement in many of our congregations. Generally, our morale is high. The
A
reminder comes from CLF, the congregation without walls serving
primarily Unitarian Universalists who live in an area without a local
congregation, that their Religious Education materials may be of use
to congregations, notably CLiF Notes: A Curriculum for Families and
Small Groups. Our congregations with smaller religious education
programs may find these resources especially of value. See: www.clf.uua.org
for details. A copy of their flyer "RE Express Plus" can be
found on the FLD website under "Church Tools." |
The
We should
worship together! I have this radical idea. I think we should be worshiping
with our children. If worship is a time when we celebrate the things that we
find most worthy (upholding our values) then it is the time for us to teach
our values to our children. The question to ask ourselves is, “Why do we
want a Children’s Religious Education Program?” What is your answer? I
have heard, “We need young families to survive.” and “Children are our
future.” While these statements are partially true they are not a good
enough reason to want children to be part of the congregation. Children need
to be part of the now. They are not our salvation. Adults need children.
Children need adults. Together we will make a difference. Together we will
build the beloved community. Children in the community make the community
whole. While children will carry the vision forward,
it will be changed into their vision, as it should be. Adults lay a
foundation for children to build upon. If we have lived up to our
responsibilities to our Unitarian Universalist children they will change us
and we will all become more. In order to have this happen we must to be in
deep genuine relationship. We
have been handed a model for Children’s Religious Education. It is a model
of concentric programming, the center hub being Unitarian Universalism.
Children’s Faith Development time happens at the same time as worship. In
small congregations, under 100 adults, this presents a particularly
difficult problem. There simply are not enough people to do two quality
programs. But for all of us, small and large, it is the model we know so we
continue to use it. However, I want to suggest that this model has not
served us well. Studies tell us that we keep less than 5% of the children
who literally pass through our programs. What does this tell us about our
future? I have also heard,
“Children can’t sit still through the sermon.” and “Children will be
restless and noisy during worship.” Nobody sits still or constantly pays
attention to the sermon. If we are saying that our service is too boring for
children I might ask, “How many others is the sermon too boring for?” As
for restless and noisy, so are adults and we must teach everyone worship
manners. It is not the children we don’t want in the service, it is
disruptive behavior – from anybody. If we covenant to be together in
respectful relationship and we call ourselves and one another back into
covenant every time we make a mistake, our healthy relationships shouldn’t
be hard to build or maintain. There
are many ways to involve children in worship. In the next couple of article
I will talk more about how to we could accomplish real family worship.
Keep it Legal & Ethical: Rules
for Showing Movies in Your Congregation Many
of our congregations host a "movie night" or use commercial movies
for educational work. Just so we know, there are some rules you should
follow. From the UUA's attorney, Edward P. Leibensperger, these guidelines:
“A copyrighted film is entitled to protection. That means that
a rented video or DVD cannot be performed outside home use, subject to the
following exemption. It is not infringement
if the performance of the work is "by instructors or pupils in the
course of face-to-face teaching activities of a nonprofit educational
institution, in a classroom or similar place devoted to instruction." It seems safe to
conclude that a church with regular educational classes would qualify as a
nonprofit educational institution. The showing of the film must be in the
context of the teaching activity. A
social, "night at the movies" showing of a copyrighted film is an
infringement.
Investors Against Genocide: Draw
the line at investing in genocide.
Join the Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA), the Unitarian
Universalist Service Committee (UUSC), and Investors Against Genocide (IAG)
in the fight to end the
If you are a mutual fund investor in Fidelity funds, or those from 50
other companies, you have a vote in the way your money is managed. Investors
Against Genocide has submitted shareholder proposals on genocide-free
investing to more than 50 mutual funds. Shareholders now have the
unprecedented opportunity to vote their proxies to tell mutual funds that
they don't want their money invested in companies that abet genocide. Proxy
materials and proxy ballots that include this shareholder proposal are now
being distributed by Fidelity for its Contrafund and eleven other Fidelity
funds holding shareholder meetings on March 19. There
are also votes scheduled for April 16 and May 14 for Fidelity Funds. Votes
at more Fidelity Funds plus other major fund companies, including Vanguard,
Franklin Templeton and Barclays, will follow in coming months. To see the
latest list of mutual funds with votes pending on genocide-free investing,
visit Investors Against Genocide.
Labor
Rights and Economic Justice JustJourney to Mexico Join UUSC and UUJEC
for a JustJourney experience, May 24-June 1, 2008, to explore the important
ways corporate-led globalization and free trade agreements like the North
American Free Trade Agreement (NAFTA) have affected the lives of Mexicans,
particularly the landless poor, women, indigenous people, and migrant
workers.
One of the promises of NAFTA was that it would create more jobs
in
I
only know the names of two angels, Hark and Harold. ~~~Gregory, 5
Everybody's
got it all wrong. Angels don't wear halos anymore. I forget
why, but scientists are working on it.~~~Olive, 9
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