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What’s going on.…July 2003
| Wed | July 2 | 7:30 PM | Adult R. E. discussion at the church | 
| Fri | July 4 |   | Independence Day | 
| Sun | July 6 | 10:45 AM | Service – 
              "A Tale of Two Proms,” 
              Mary Ann Hand | 
| Wed | July 9 | 7:30 PM | Adult R. E. discussion at the church | 
| Sun | July 13 | 9:30 AM 10:45 AM 12:15 PM | Youth and Adult R.E.: Service – “The Universe is Stranger Than You Believe,” Mike Carmichael Second Sunday Potluck | 
| Mon | July 14 | 11:00 AM 6:30 PM | Break Bread delivery Board Meeting at the church | 
| Wed | July15 | 7:30 PM | Adult R. E. discussion at the church | 
| Sun | July 20 | 10:45 AM | Service
              – “Check-out Counter
              Stories,“ Carol
              Stiles | 
| Wed | July 23 | 7:30 PM | Adult R. E. discussion at the church | 
| Sat | July 26 | 6:30 PM | Last Saturday Dinner at Charles Judah’s Home | 
| Sun | July 27 | 9:30 AM 10:45 AM | Youth and Adult R.E. Service – "When I Say I Believe in God, What Do I Mean?" Eleanor Bowman | 
| Wed | July 30 | 7:30 PM | Adult R. E. discussion at the church | 
 
July… Many of the people, whose courage we
      celebrate on July 4, who had the foresight, audacity, and strength of will
      to foment rebellion, which created this nation in which we live---a
      wonderful experiment that has lasted for centuries now, were Unitarians
      and Universalists.  One of the
      outcomes of their courage is a country where we are free to speak our
      minds and exercise our beliefs, even if they are not those of the
      majority.  Many of us feel the
      core rights of our citizens are threatened by our government in these
      trying times.  Certainly in
      our own church we have felt the force of those who would try to prevent us
      from exercising our freedom of religious expression. 
      On a more personal level we have dealt, hard on the heels of the
      vandalism of our building, with a difficult personnel decision. 
      These are trying times for each of us. 
      I think we demonstrated to ourselves though in our recent
      congregational meeting that democracy works when strong people determined
      to find compassionate solutions tolerant of the views of others keep
      talking until they resolve differences and find those solutions. 
      We are dealing with tragedy of persons and things and finding, as
      we should, that the things are easier to replace and deal with. 
      People, that’s harder, but we can do that too. 
      There is truth in what many have told us, we will be the stronger
      for the struggles we now face.  
      We have something special to offer both for ourselves and our
      community.  We are strong
      people.  We will survive!
Dee
    Tait
“The right of conscience and use of the democratic
    process within our congregations and in society at large” 
We,
    the member congregations of the Unitarian Universalist Association, covenant
    to affirm and promote it – the fifth of our seven principles.
Our services this summer will be lay lead services. Charles Judah has lined up some interesting speakers from our members and the community. Let him know if you are interested in speaking one Sunday. July 6th Mary Ann Hand on "A Tale of Two Proms." Four years ago, as a newly hired
special education teacher at Valdosta High School, she was given the task to coordinate the yearly prom. At that time, the school-sponsored prom was attended almost exclusively by African-American students. White students went to an invitation-only alternative party. By her own determined effort over the next three years, Mary Ann transformed the prom into a school-wide event attended by nearly as many white as African-American students. Mary Ann has been a teacher since 1981 and was Valdosta High’s Teacher of the Year in 2002. On July 13th Mike Carmichael, one of our UU members, will speak on “The Universe is Stranger Than You Believe.” Mike is a 42 Year veteran of South Georgia, twice published, once by “Free Thought Today” once by “Atlanta Free Thought Society.” He is currently living in south Brooks County as a hermit with two dogs and 1.5 cats. Carol Stiles will be our speaker on July 20th. Her topic will be "Check-out Counter Stories," which she describes as a light-hearted look at daily interactions, with some reflections on the importance of diversity and acceptance. She says come prepared to share your humorous check-out counter interactions! Carol became a member of our congregation when she joined the biology faculty at VSU a few years back. She has since moved to Gainesville, FL where she is a member of the University of Florida faculty. Carol though is still a regular at our services and performs invaluable service for us as our webperson. Carol has been especially diligent recently forwarding and replying to the numerous e-mail notes sent after the church was vandalized. We owe her a debt of gratitude for her hard work. July 27th Eleanor Bowman, one of our newer UU members, will lead a guided discussion, rather than a speech on "When I say I believe in God, what do I mean?" In the course of this discussion, Eleanor invites us all to explore the function of religion in the shaping of society, including the social implications of characteristics traditionally ascribed to the Judeo-Christian God such as spirit, maleness, oneness, transcendence, omnipotence, omniscience, etc. She says that in the time allotted, we will only scratch the surface, but, if the topic generates enough interest, it could be picked up and continued at some later date. Eleanor Bowman moved to Brooks County in June of 2002 and is enjoying the pleasures of a rural life with her 3 dogs and 4 cats – and assorted gopher tortoises, frogs, and lizards. She spends her time completing the restoration of her 1855 farmhouse (it is now habitable), entertaining gator fans and other courageous souls who are willing to brave the wilds of South Georgia, learning about the care of loblolly, slash, and longleaf pine, reading and writing. She began attending our church in February, 2003 and is delighted to have found such a congenial group of like-minded seekers in the area. She has been a member of the Society of Friends for many years, but now describes herself as a post-Christian. She has been thinking about religion all her life and has found it to be the greatest mystery story of all time.
Due to continuing safety issues in the nursery as a consequence of the vandalism to the church in late May, childcare during services remains unavailable. Children are welcome though in our services.
"Unified
    Service Against Hate," sponsored by the Unitarian Universalist Church
    of Valdosta, was held Sunday afternoon, June 8, at 3 PM at the church. This
    public event offered an opportunity for the community to become involved in
    proclaiming that Valdostans speak out against hate. The UU church was
    thoroughly ransacked and vandalized in late May.  As the Valdosta Daily Times editor wrote,
    "Valdosta's leaders must do what's necessary to protect and uphold the
    values of tolerance and respect for others." The Valdosta Ministerial
    Association, Valdosta governmental officials, and others took part in this
    community-wide program. On the afternoon of the service , the church was
    filled to overflowing.  Members
    and friends had made the structure presentable with cleaning and new art,
    but the boarded up windows, which usually so beautifully bring nature into
    our building were a stark reminder of what had occurred. 
    
John Burrill from the Tallahassee UU church wrote, in part: 
    “I drove up to Valdosta, Georgia last Sunday to attend a special
    service at the UU Church there. About a week before, their physical presence
    had been mightily vandalized.  All windows smashed-out, things smashed and strewn-about,
    vicious stuff spray-painted on the walls. 
    Speaking were priests, rabbis, UUs, fundamentalists - and a
    philosophy professor from Valdosta State, who gave one of the most eloquent
    little  histories of hate crimes
    I've ever heard - actually uplifting - he pointed-out that there have  been a lot of victims of such crimes - but they're still
    around (one Mississippi church, he singled-out, had been burned down 5 times
    - and it's still going strong)….”
The church has received numerous e-mails in the weeks
    following the vandalism.  Carol
    Stiles and Virginia Branan have been responding to them and Carol has
    forwarded many uplifting messages to the congregation. 
    They come from all over the US as well as friends in other countries. 
    As one of these messages puts it, “We UUs must stick together in a
    world that often scorns tolerance.  Our
    principles are stronger than hate, more precious than buildings, and more
    important than ever!”  A
    message from the Unitarian Universalist Church of Jackson says, “Just
    when we begin to believe that these types of terrible things no longer
    happen, we are violently reminded that there are those who are so afraid of
    questioning that they must strike out at those who do.”
Dave Gibson
    has updated the webpage with photos from the "Unified Service Against
    Hate" Many thanks to Dave for taking the pictures and 
    posting them. They can be found via a link on our UU Valdosta main
    page: http://www.oocities.org/uuvaldosta/ 
    The page is available directly at http://chiron.valdosta.edu/dgibson/Home/uu/4-s/index.htm. 
    Jim Ingram prepared two poster collages of photographs at the time of
    the vandalism one of the destruction (Hate) 
    and the other (Love) of the many members and friends from the
    community on Friday when the clean-up began. 
    Some of these pictures will be used in an article to be published
    about the Valdosta incident in a forthcoming issue of the UU World.
During the service the following letter dated June 5, 2003 from Rev. William Sinkford, President of the Unitarian Universalist Association was read.
“To our Dear Friends at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Valdosta, Georgia,
“We here at the UUA are deeply shocked by the senseless attack upon your church. Your congregation has suffered a violation that goes far beyond the physical destruction of property, and strikes at the heart of our faith community. Please know that there are many Unitarian Universalists here and across the continent who are holding you in their thoughts and prayers as you begin to heal and reclaim your sacred space during the long days ahead.
“The persistence of hate crimes such as this one serves as a painful reminder that there is an urgent need for liberal religious communities like ours. May you find love and support from your congregation and from the wider community. May your commitment to rebuilding serve as a beacon, shining the light upon the value of religious freedom, the importance of faith, and the promise of a better, safer, and more just world. May your spiritual convictions grow as you meet this challenge with strength and courage. May you always know that we stand united with you as you move forward.
“Thank you for your hopeful presence and enduring commitment, and for your service to Unitarian Universalism. It is felt and appreciated in Valdosta, here in Boston, and across the country.
In faith,  Rev.
    William G. Sinkford “ 
For photographs after the vandalism being used for insurance documentation, the display at the community service, and a UU World article: Dave Gibson, Jerry Jones, Jim Ingram, Virginia Branan
For helping with the set up for the community service on June 8: Rosie Asbury, John, Charlie, and Sarah Tait, Joan Cline
For providing cakes for the June 8 community service: The Taoist Tai Chi Society
For donating soft drinks for the community service: Lisa Hamilton
For providing flowers for the community service: Virginia Branan and Josette Ingram
For planning the June 8 community service: Rev. Al Boyce
For participating in the June 8 community service: Members of the Valdosta Area Ministerial Association, the Taoist Tai Chi Society, New Hope Christian Fellowship, the South Georgia Peace Coalition, Michael Stoltzfus, and others from the community
For stepping in when needed on short notice to lead the services on June 8: Dee Tait and Virginia Branan
For publishing an extra edition of “The Flaming Chalice” in June to notify everyone about the vandalism and its aftermath: Betty Derrick
For keeping our building clean:
      Joan Cline and Frank Asbury
For keeping our grounds neat: Jim
      Ingram
For handling insurance and repairs related to the vandalism of our
      building: Jim Ingram
For reporting the vandalism and being supportive during this crisis:
      Dennis Bogyo and Luana Goodwin and members of the Tai Chi group
For all those who helped with the building clean-up and participated and
      provided food for the June 8 community service:  There are so
      many of you we simply say Thank You . 
      We know and you know who you are!
For providing leadership beyond the call of duty during recent crises:
      Lars Leader
For getting out Thank you’s for support to us since the vandalism: Rev.
      Al Boyce, Betsy and Randy Thompson, Carol Stiles, Virginia Branan, and
      Betty Derrick
For diligently maintaining our website communication link during the
      vandalism crisis: Carol
      Stiles
For photography and a web page of the vandalism
      and the community service: Dave
      Gibson
For delivering Break Bread Together meals: Sean and Kevin Leader and Virginia Branan
For planning socials and taking care of coffee at the church: Joan Cline
For attending the called meeting of the congregation on June 22: Florida District Director, Rev. Mary Higgins
For all his hard work for our church and in our community this year: Rev. Al Boyce
 GHP
    Students
Georgia
    Governor’s Honors Program students who are at VSU June 22- July 20 are
    attending our summer services again this year. UU students from elsewhere in
    the State come themselves and often invite their new friends to visit our
    congregation.  They have been a
    wonderful addition to our summer services. 
    Many of these students have learned for the first time what a liberal
    religious community and UU congregations in particular have to offer. 
    John Branan has agreed to coordinate transportation for the students. 
    In past summers several of us have picked students up from the
    dormitories on the VSU campus before our service and returned then after the
    service.  Contact John if you
    can help out with transportation.
Keep in
    Your Thoughts****
Our
    date for meal deliveries with the Break Bread Together program is the 2nd
    Monday of each month.  If you
    can deliver meals on this day beginning about 11:00 AM, please contact
    Virginia Branan. 
Youth R.E Youth religious education meets on the second and fourth Sundays at 9:30 AM. June was spent in clean-up and organization after the church vandalism. July will feature a cooking class and upkeep of the Meditation trail. As church related projects, Kevin and Sean Leader are helping with meal deliveries and Sarah and Charles Tait are serving as Sunday morning greeters. Also, the youth will plan a bowling party and possibly a pool party or field trip during the summer. Contacts: Lars Leader, Virginia Branan
Adult
    R.E.   źAdult
    religious education meets on the second and fourth Sunday at 9:30 AM. 
    The curriculum, “Vision and Values in a Post-9/11 World,”
    prepared by the UUA’s Washington Office for Advocacy to
    provide an opportunity to reflect historically and ethically about civil
    liberties in the U.S., patriotism, and the U.S. role abroad will continue
    into July.  For further
    information, contact Lars Leader. 
źWednesday night discussions at the church. Hue Jacobs is leading an adult R.E. group in discussing the book Theory of Everything by Ken Wilber. Every Wednesday at 7:30 pm, the group will discuss a chapter from this book. Please bring a copy of the book with you to the discussion. For further information, contact Hue.
Healing With Art
In place of our “water
    communion service” in the fall, a suggestion has been made that as you are
    on vacation, you may see some pottery or ceramic or piece of art that you
    would like to bring back and present to the church in a special service next
    fall.  At this service in the
    fall at the beginning of the new church year we have traditionally rejoined
    in a commitment to our special community after many have been away during
    the summer.  What a wonderful
    way to replace the beautiful pottery, ceramics, and paintings which were  recently destroyed. 
In Memory of Martha
      Horowitz who died Sunday, June 22, 2003: Martha was 79.  Martha and Norm moved to Valdosta in retirement in 1981 and
      were for many years extremely active members of our congregation, serving
      in almost every office.  Although
      they had lived for many years in the Washington, DC area, where they were
      UU members, and Norm was from New York City, they moved to south Georgia
      because Martha had grown up in this part of the world and they chose
      Valdosta because there was a UU church here. Norm died about a year ago
      shortly after he moved to his son Stephen’s home in Connecticut, after a
      short battle with cancer.  Some
      of you will recall the memorial service at our church several months after
      his death.  Martha suffered
      from Alzheimer’s disease and no longer recognized those of us who knew
      her.  She will be cremated. 
      Michael, another son, still lives in south Georgia. 
      Condolences may be sent to Stephen Horowitz. 
      
  
End
    of the Month Bring-A-Dish Visitor’s Dinner
Home of Charles
    Judah 
Give
    Charles a call to let him know if you will be coming and to get directions
    if you need them.
At
    the Church-in-the-Woods 
Tai Chi – Monday and Thursday Evenings. Beginner’s class 5:30- 6:30 PM. Continuing class 6:30-7:30 PM. Contact Dennis Bogyo if you are interested or need further information.
New Hope Christian Fellowship - Sunday evenings: Choir practice at 5:00 PM. Service at 6:00 PM.
South Georgia Coalition for Peace The Board has given this grassroots community group permission to use our building for its meetings as needed.
Ř     
    The
    July Board meeting will be Monday, July 14 at
    6:30 p.m. at the church office.  Our new President Dee Tait feels that
    it is essential, given the many issues currently under consideration by the
    Board, to have all Board members present.  
 Ř     
    June 11 Board meeting:
    Charles Green called the meeting to order. Present: current members
    of the Board, Charles Green, Lars Leader, Charles Judah,
    Randy Thompson, Frank Asbury, Sharon Rowe, Rev. Al Boyce; newly
    elected officers: Dee Tait,
    John Tait, Rosie Asbury; and
    visitors, Jim Ingram, Betsy Thompson.
    Minutes from the previous Board meeting were approved. 
    Rev. Al Boyce gave his minister's report. Charles Judah reported that
    programs were set for July and indicated his appreciation for all the
    contributions to programs last year. Membership Committee work was reported
    by Betsy Thompson who said there had been few visitors lately. The committee
    is sending out visitor letters still. Randy Thompson gave the Treasurer's
    Report.  A separate Restoration
    Fund has been established for donations to the church as a result of the
    vandalism. Building/Grounds: Jim Ingram has been talking to the insurance
    adjustor and contractor.  He
    reported that this is in process but slow. Carpet has to be replaced because
    of the  uncertainty about
    whether all of the glass can be removed. This is especially a concern in the
    nursery.  Windows are going to
    be most difficult repair task. He reported that repairs may be completed by
    the end of June. Frank Asbury reported information on several alarm system
    companies. He reported that several matters of old business had been handled
    including lights in breezeway, the sign light, and the roof leak.  Still to be done are visitor parking and signs. 
    At this point in the meeting the Board went into executive session,
    after which Charles Green adjourned the meeting. 
    Respectfully submitted by Sharon Rowe
Ř     
    June 22, 2003 Call meeting of the Congregation:
In accordance with Article XI of the bylaws of the Unitarian Fellowship of Valdosta, Inc., the Board of Trustees notified congregational members of a special meeting to consider the minister’s letter of resignation. After discussion at the meeting on June 22, the congregation voted to accept the resignation and offer a celebration in appreciation of the minister’s service to the congregation during the past year.
Editor: 
    Betty Derrick 
Production/Mailing:  Virginia
    Branan
Website:  Carol
    Stiles
July
    13:
    deadline for the August newsletter (Please note the early deadline
    this month.)
Treasurer’s Report
May Report
               
    Outstanding
    Debts:                                                                 
    
               
     Mortgage      
    $32,840    
    
                                      
    $32,840     
                                                                                               
    
               
    Receipts and
    Disbursements for May 2003:                          
    
                                                                                               
    
               
    Receipts:                                                                                 
    
                  Pledge                 
    $1,240     
    
                  Plate                           
    90            
    
                  Rent                          
    280          
    
                  Ministerial               
    3,000       
    
                 
    TOTAL RECEIPT  $4,610     
    
                                                                                               
    
               
    Disbursements:                                                                       
    
                  LAMP
    contribution    $100        
    
                  Mortgage            
           500          
    
                  Utilities                       
    355          
    
                  Minister                   
    2,500       
    
                  Pianist                        
    105          
    
                  Supplies                       
    24            
    
                  Postage                        
    32            
    
                 
    TOTAL DISBURSEMENTS  $3,616       
    
                                                                                               
    
               
    NET RECEIPT
    (DISBURSEMENT)  $994 
    
RESTORATION
    FUND (as of June 19, 2003)                 
    $7465.65                                     
    
                                                                                       
    $7465.65          
As detailed in the
    above report, contributions to the church exceeded expenditures by $994.00
    in May.
An
    important new fund was established by the Board of Trustees in June. At
    their meeting on June 4,
    2003 the Board established a
    Restoration Fund.  Contributions to the fund are to be used for repair
    and restoration of our church and other purposes as decided by the Board of
    Trustees.  Through June 12, 2003 we have received $4,710 designated for
    this fund.  I expect contributions will continue to come in for the
    fund for several more months, and beginning with the June Treasurer's
    report, receipts and disbursements from this fund will be separately
    disclosed.  Contributions to the Fund can be sent to my attention at
    the Church's address.
During
    the special service held Sunday, June 8th, donations were also collected for
    the Valdosta Area Ministerial Association. This money was in addition
    to the Restoration Fund contributions mentioned above. Total donations
    received were $433.05 and these funds will be sent to VAMA.
I
    look forward to beginning my full-year term on July 1 and I'm excited about
    the prospects for our church in the coming year.   Respectfully
    Submitted,  Randy
    Thompson Interim
    Treasurer
Special
    Thanks to all of our Restoration
    Fund Contributors:
Carol
    Stiles (contribution and replacement of book that was damaged), Albert E.
    & Amy D. Slone, William R. & Ellen W. Dempsey, Pauline M. Masterton,
    DeLos F. & Frances L. DeTar, Elinor A. Elfner, Carolyn R. Pardue, Joseph
    P & Jean C. Chulak, Neil B. & Margaret C. Mooney, Dr. Sita Patricia
    Marks, Dr. Dennis W. Marks, William Adkins III, Lee & Barbara H.
    Bradley, Douglas K. Sawyer, Martha A. Leake, Norman F. Conant Jr., Barbara
    B. Conant, Peggy Cleveland, A. L. McKenzie, John Burrrill, Mary Lou
    Erickson, Francis A. Flaherty, Kathleen S. Lowney, Kenneth C. & Susan C.
    Klanicki, New Hope Christian Fellowship, Robert I. & Elise N. Gray, C.
    June Bryant, High Street UU Church (Macon GA),Perry & Helene A. Johnson,
    Fred L Adair & Joan G. Sprigle Adair, Janice L Hervieux, Jacqueline
    & Richard Portman, Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of the Emerald
    Coast (Valparaiso, FL), Deborah Baker, Alexandra Bolton, Dan & LYS
    Burden, Hal C. Reed, Rev. Susanne S. Nazian(UU Church of St. Petersburg,
    FL), Sharon J. S. Stepler (and music CD "Here In This Place" that
    Sharon Stepler wrote), W. T. Stepler, Christohper R. Myers, Lamar Inc.
    (Lamar Golivesky), RE/MAX Realty of Valdosta, Gerlyn Lech, Alfred S. Lech,
    Unitarian Universalist Fellowship(Mobile, AL), Christine A. Rice, St. Paul's
    Episcopal Church(Fayetteville, AR), Jane Romeyn, Unitarian Universalist
    Fellowship(Vero Beach, FL), Melissa Mefford, Unitarian Universalist
    Fellowship(Clarksville, TN), James W. & Cynthia Fitch, William W. Irby,
    Charles A. Reynolds, John Deming III, Northwest Unitarian Universalist
    Congregation(Atlanta, GA ), Louise L Hornor, Our Home Universalist
    Church(Laurel, MS), Paul W. Gann, Elizabeth B. Carter,Robert B. and Marion
    E. Wyckoff, Gerald W. and Carol Jacob, Odean C and Catherine M. Erickson,
    Virginia Maxine Barritt, Reverend Polly Leland-Mayer and the UU Church of
    Venice(Venice, FL), Erene Rallis,  Rev. Angie Theisen and the UU
    Congregation of Gwinett (Atlanta, GA)
UU
    Activities and Announcements
 Further
    information is posted on the bulletin board at the church.
July 3-6 Old Fashioned Family Fourth at The Mountain
July 13-18 Family Mountain Camp, The Mountain
July 20-26 SUUSI 2003 “Simple Gifts” Blacksburg, VA 
    on the campus of Virginia Tech. 
    This is an intentional community of UU's and others. 
    It's a great family experience with workshops, nature trips, music
    and spirit and other activities that build relationships with new and old
    friends.  www.suusi.org
August 17-23 UU Week at The Mountain
 
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