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Minister's Muusings - Rev. Jane Page |
Sat |
May 3 |
2:00 pm |
Tanner
Celebration Party (see inside for details) |
Sun |
May 4 |
10:45 AM |
Religious Education for children Service
– “Beltane,” Layled service Meet & Greet Coffee after the service |
Sun |
May 11 |
10:45 AM |
Religious Education for children Service – “The Existentialism of Jean-Paul Sartre,” Dr. Michael Stoltzfus Meet & Greet Coffee after the service |
Mon |
May 12 |
11:00 AM |
Break Bread delivery |
Wed |
May 14 |
6:00 PM |
Board meeting in the R. E. wing at the church |
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May 15 |
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Newsletter
deadline |
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May 17 |
7:00 PM |
Games
Night at the |
Sun |
May 18 |
10:45 AM |
Religious Education for children Service
– “A Visit from Meet & Greet Coffee after the service Congregational Annual Meeting - immediately following Meet and Greet |
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May 25 |
10:45 AM |
Religious Education for children Service
– “Reflections on Meet & Greet Coffee after the service |
May… We have an opportunity and responsibility this month to affirm and promote our fifth principle: “The right of conscience and the use of the democratic process within our congregations and in society at large.” Our commitment to our principles is tested each day. Plan to participate in our congregation’s annual meeting making decisions about our financial matters and leadership for the coming church year. If you haven’t already pledged, it is time to do so of both your monetary support and your commitment of time. It is important; we need you.
Sunday, May 4 – “Beltane”
April's
showers have given way to rich and fertile earth, and as the land greens,
there are few celebrations as representative of fertility as Beltane.
Join us for this traditional celebration of the growing spring.
The service will be layled.
Sunday, May 11 - Dr. Michael Stoltzfus, “The
Existentialism of Jean-Paul Sartre”
Jean-Paul
Sartre, a twentieth century French existentialist, offers a critical
analysis of human responsibility from the ashes of German occupation and the
many other conflicts that make the twentieth century the most violent in
human history. Sartre develops a sense of human meaning without
recourse to idealism, theism, or blind faith in human progress. We
will investigate his call for “optimistic toughness.” Once we stop
waiting for God or fate to take action, we may be more inclined to act for
ourselves, according to Sartre.
Sunday,
May 18 – Rev.
Today we
welcome Elizabeth Cady Stanton (portrayed by Rev.
Sunday,
April 27 – Rev. George Bennett, “Reflections on
George Bennett reflects on his
Rev. Jane A. Page, Minister,
Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Statesboro, serves our
congregation in |
INVITATION TO MEMBERSHIP If you are interested in becoming a member of our
fellowship, we encourage you to talk with our President, |
Religious
Education for Children
The R.E. program continues in the New Year with the We Believe:
Learning and Living Our UU Principles and
stories by Dr. Seuss. WE BELIEVE... focuses on the seven UU
principles. The RE program for
children meets at 10:45 AM concurrent with the Sunday morning service.
Volunteers to help in the classroom are needed. Contacts: Mya Storey
or Susan Bailey.
Collecting
Recyclables for RE Projects
Please bring in your recyclables to be used
for arts and crafts projects in RE. The kinds of things we need are clean
bleach bottles, dish detergent bottles, 2 liter soda bottles, single size
water and soda bottles, plastic tubs (such as margarine tubs), empty oatmeal
boxes, potato chip canisters (like Pringles), and paper towel tubes. I will
post a more complete list at the church. Then watch for the cool creations
we come up with in RE over the coming months.
Ministerial
Muusings
Rev.
In
a recent article on the UUA website,President Bill Sinkford encouraged
Unitarian Universalists to engage in the long overdue conversation about
race that received stimulation from Senator Obama’s speech on race. While
politics may have brought the conversation to the forefront in
An
Open Letter to Erma, Mattie, Homer, Alvin, Elaine, Charlene, Jeanette,
Runell, Mary Linda, Johnny Sue, Billy, and Catherine. (March 17, 2008)
Dear
Classmates, In the fall of 1965,
I entered
Like
many of you, I was born here in
To
be fair to my parents, they never overtly taught me to be a racist.
They didn’t have to. Everything
in my society, from the Dairy Queen windows on, taught me that white folks
and black folks should function in separate social environments.
And my society not only taught me that “separate” was right, it
also taught me that I was in the superior group.
All I had to do was look at the water fountains.
The “whites only” fountains were clean with cool, refrigerated
water. Not so for the
“colored” fountains. And
of course, my church reinforced these standards.
In the 60’s we also were witnesses to television news programs
showing activities of the Civil Rights movement.
But these were presented in ways that made me fearful.
I’m sure it must have been covered, but I don’t remember seeing
much of the peaceful demonstrations that I can now view in documentaries of
that time. The emphasis on our
news seemed to be on riots and angry black people wanting to “destroy our
way of life.” The propaganda
worked. I was afraid and fearful
of the possibilities of integration. And
I did not understand why in the world you would want to leave “your”
school and come to “our” school.
The
Brown Decision, virtually outlawing segregated schools, was handed down by
the courts in 1954. Yet the
schools in Statesboro had managed to remain completely separate for the next
10 years. The latest effort to
satisfy the courts had been the school system’s “Freedom of Choice”
plan. This plan was one in which
parents could “choose” their children’s schools.
Everyone knew what choice was supposed to be made, though, and the
schools remained separate till you and others made the bold decision to be
pioneers in the effort to integrate our schools.
So there you were, walking through our halls with your heads held
high and a determined look in your eyes.
And there I was, afraid of you, mad with you, yet curious about folks
like you.
For
the next three years, we did our high school activities and really had very
little interaction with each other.
I found out later that there were lots of folks who were
interacting, though very negatively with you – trying to run you down with
their cars and hurling insults and rocks.
I didn’t know about these occurrences because I never attempted to
really get to know you. I
did make a connection with one girl that was life changing.
I used to be one of the folks at school that was a “cut-up” and
class clown – someone who would make jokes about things and try to lighten
up everyone’s attitudes. When
we were in the hallways, one of you would “cut up” with me in similar
ways. And we became friendly
with each other. I would like to
say we were friends. But I never
invited you to my house and you never invited me to yours.
We were about as friendly as a white girl and black girl could be in
those days I suppose. And I
remember thinking that I was more LIKE you than I was my white friends.
We were both from middle class families with parents who owned small
businesses in town and who emphasized a strong work ethic, and we were both
so fun-loving. We were “kin”
in many ways. But I kept that
thought to myself – not daring say it aloud.
That thought of our kinship, however, cracked through the armor of
racism that I had built around me. And
I began to open my mind to the possibilities of a wider world of humanity.
I never thanked you for that.
This
year I have been involved with others in planning the 40th class
reunion for the Class of 1968. We
haven’t had one in 30 years and I’m very excited about seeing folks
again. Focusing on my high
school classmates and high school years has been a time of joy and sorrow
for me. One of the sorrows that
I have is that I missed out on a real opportunity to get to know some
fantastic people. And I missed
out on an opportunity to provide a welcoming hand of fellowship.
This was my loss and I can’t retrieve it.
But I can apologize.
I’m
sorry that I did not make an effort to understand why you were coming to SHS.
I’m
sorry that I did not meet you outside of the school and say hello.
I’m
sorry that I was afraid of you and avoided being in places where several of
you were gathered together.
I’m
sorry that I avoided sitting by you in class.
I’m
sorry that I was involved with negative conversations about you and did not
speak up when you were put down.
I’m
sorry that I didn’t encourage you to join the clubs that I was in or join
the flaggette team.
I’m
sorry that I didn’t invite you to my 16th birthday party.
It would have been a lot more fun with you there.
I’m
sorry that I didn’t find ways to get to know you – really know you and
understand you individually, rather than seeing you as “one of those black
students.”
I’m
sorry that I didn’t recognize the remarkable opportunity that I had in
that place and time in history to be a part of something special with you.
And
I’m sorry – oh SO sorry, that it’s taken me 40 years to say, “I’m
sorry.”
I
hope you can forgive me. Who
knows? Maybe it’s not too late
for some of us.
Sincerely,
Jane Altman Page
For layleading services:
Doug Tanner,
Dee Tait, Lars Leader
For the children’s RE Sunday
service participation: Susan
Bailey and the children who participated.
For helping with Sunday Service
music: Kimberly
Tanner, Jane Page, Dee Tait
For serving as Meet and Greet
Hosts: Keri
and Pat Wells, Betty Derrick
For holding the Adult Easter
Egg Hunt, the Estre Hare and the Children’s Easter Egg Hunt: RE
children and Susan Bailey
For providing Easter candy and
eggs: Julie Halter and
Susan Bailey
For providing special Easter
cupcakes for RE: Eric,
Cameron and Kari Wells
For assisting with Children’s
RE:
For donating lots of wonderful
supplies like markers, paper, books, a Casio electric keyboard and much
more for RE classes: Julie
Halter
For providing their grill for
the spring Cookout: Doug
and Kimberly Tanner
For spending an afternoon in
community with great friends and good food: Everyone
who attended the Spring Cookout
For
delivering Break Bread meals:
Frank Asbury
For cleaning the church: Frank
Asbury, Susan Bailey, Lars Leader
For keeping our grounds:
For participating in Games
Night: Susan
Bailey
For arranging for the Marc
Adams event in April: Carol
Stiles, Doug and Kimberly Tanner, Dee Tait, Michael Stoltzfus, Lars Leader
For arranging for our Accepting
Difference Project donation to a VSU social justice film project : Lars
Leader, Susan Bailey, Betty Derrick, and the Church Board
For making arrangements for a
UU Table at the
For serving on the Nominating
Committee: Dee
Tait, Chair, Susan Bailey,
For representing our
congregation at the Florida District meeting in April: Carol
Stiles
For all you do that we may not have thanked you for in person.
Let your editor know your contributions so that others can
know! It takes all of us and
we appreciate you.
ABOUT
OUR MEMBERS AND FRIENDS
Congratulations
to
v
Kimberly Tanner who has successfully defended her dissertation
and on May 3 will receive her Ed.D from VSU.
Congratulations Dr. Tanner!
v Ann and John Tait who were married several months ago. It was great to see them again at the church in recent weeks.
May
3 – from 2:00 PM
Congratulations, to Dr. Kimberly Tanner.
She successfully defended her dissertation in March and will be
hooded at VSU’s graduation ceremony on May 3, 2008.
Kimberly and
Doug would like to invite all of their friends from the UU Church to
celebrate with them and their families at their home beginning at 2:00 on
May 3, 2008. There will be
plenty of food and lots of fun throughout the afternoon and early evening so
stop by any time you can. If you
need directions please contact Kimberly or Doug.
Games Night
Saturday,
May 17 7:00 PM
At
the church
Bring some
finger foods and munchies to share, libations if you’d like, the kids, a
friend, a favorite game and let the games begin.
See Sue Bailey for further details.
Come enjoy the fun!
Book Discussion
Mark
your calendar: the next book discussion and potluck will be June 20.
The book we have selected is "The
Preacher's Son" by Marc Adams, who spoke at our church in April.
In this book he shares part of his life story growing up gay, the son
of a fundamentalist Baptist minister, and later attending Jerry Falwell's
Florida
District Meeting
Carol Stiles represented
Marc Adams event:
Our UU church and
the Accepting Difference Project and the VSU Philosphy and Religion
Department cosponsored Marc Adams, founder of HeartStrong, Inc. and
Author/Activist, April 15 at the church.
About 40 people attended the event, many students from VSU.
Thanks go to Carol Stiles for the original suggestion for the event
and to Doug and Kimberly Tanner and Dee Tait for arrangements and
advertising as well as the reception after the talk.
Mike Stoltzfus helped with the advertising at VSU and introduced Marc
Adams at the event. Advertising
was placed in the Valdosta Daily Times, The Spectator(VSU), and the Moody
Air Force Base newspaper.
"The Politics of Gender"
May 4 at 5:00 pm.
Unitarian Universalist
Fellowship of
Carol
Stiles brings our attention to another issue for the LGBT community.
The Reverend Manish Mishra, Minister of the Unitarian
Universalist Church of Saint Petersburg, Florida shares a sermon on YouTube
about transgender discrimination. Rev. Mishra led efforts to publicize the
discrimination against Susan Stanton, a transwoman who was fired from a post
as city administrator for
Pride
and Prejudice in Paradise Part One
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3T7n28PN4uI
and
Pride and Prejudice in Paradise
Part Two http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QOtmepgoW0I
The
UU Fellowship of Gainesville will host Rev. Mishra for the annual Stan
Erickson lecture series. Contact Carol Stiles if you would like more
information.
Our
date for meal deliveries with the Break Bread Together program is the 2nd
Monday of each month. If you can
deliver meals on this day beginning about 11:00 AM, please contact Frank
Asbury.
Accepting
Difference Project
The Accepting Difference Project has funded
a grant proposal from Matthew Richards, VSU professor, on behalf of the
“Causes” film festival. The
Board concurred in this proposal. Dr.
Richards recently spoke at our church about this community effort by his
students. The initial grant will
be $500.00 with the possibility for similar contributions from our
Restoration Fund for two additional years.
Community members of the Accepting Difference Project have been challenged to match our UU contribution to the Pavo Hindu Ashram. Members of this group also were invited to participate in the Accepting Difference Project cosponsored Marc Adams event.
UU
April
Meeting News: Attendance:
Mya Storey, Doug Tanner, Chuck Giese, Rosie Asbury, Sue Bailey and Lars
Leader.
Old Business:The Board approved the minutes
of the March meeting. Board
approved the expenditure of $400 for the Advertising bench.
Status of roof repair is unknown.
New Business:
Treasurer Report received. This does not include the expenses for the
Marc Adams presentation. Program report – Looking for a speaker for the
first Sunday in May with topic being the Beltane Festival. It appears that
Fred Howard is available this summer. George will be here through June.
Board discussed speakers for next year. RE report – Sue will structure the
RE sessions to make them more appealing to adults who want to volunteer to
help. Both Mya and Sue encourage others to help out on Sundays so that they
can occasionally attend services. We
will have a table at the Earth Day celebration in
Nominating
Committee:
Dee
Tait, Chair, Sue Bailey, and
Following
are the Committee’s nominations for 2008-2009:
Doug
Tanner, President
Vice
President/Programs, Bill and Valerie Webster (We can narrow this to one
person if the board members think that is better)
Treasurer,
Rosie Asbury
Secretary,
Kari Wells
Director
of Membership, Lars Leader
Director
of Religious Education: Susan Bailey
Director
of Building and Grounds,
Thank
you to those who have agreed to serve and to those who have served on our
Board this year. The
congregation will elect the new officers, who will begin their service July
1, 2008, at the May 18 Annual meeting.
Newsletter Editor:
Betty Derrick Website:
Carol Stiles Local
Publicity: Dee Tait May
15:
Deadline
for the June newsletter. |
Treasurer's
Report
Rosie
Asbury
March
2008
Receipts
March
July -present
Plate
$ 44.00
$ 853.83
Pledge
1330.00
8370.00
Rent
240.00
2160.00
Memorial donation 0.00
10000.00
Total
Receipts $1614.00
$21383.83
Disbursements
Mortgage
$ 500.00
$ 4500.00
Speakers’ Fees 750.00
6010.00
Repairs & Maint.
0.00
1260.84
Newsletter
0.00
420.68
Termite Control
290.00
568.00
Postage
0.00
39.17
Supplies
23.79
78.27
Utilities
264.00
2165.16
UU Dues
0.00
1500.00
Others 34.00 262.65
Total
Disbursements
$ 1827.79
$16804.77
Net
Receipt $
- 213.79
$ 4579.06
Contributions
of Record: Our church bylaws
require that members, in order to maintain their rights of membership,
must make at least one contribution of record by a certain date each year.
A contribution of record is one that can be identified as coming from
an individual—a personal check or a cash contribution in an envelope
bearing a name will accomplish this requirement.
While we appreciate all of your contributions, only those so
identified can be credited toward your pledge and toward confirmation of
your continuing membership with voting rights and UU World subscription.
Our congregation as a member of the Unitarian Universalist
Association and the UUA Florida District also pays annual dues based on our
membership. Our Board is in the
process of confirming our active members.
If you are not sure of your status, you may contact our Treasurer for
further information.
Pledges: It’s time as in
Rev.
UU
Activities and Announcements
Further
information is posted on the bulletin board in the R.E. wing at the church.
Also check your Sunday Order of Service for announcements.
May 1
Northeast Cluster West Melbourne, FL
May 28 West
Central Cluster, UU Revival Service,
June 24-25
UUUniversity,
Dr.
Nick Carter,
President of Andover Newton Theological School, will be the keynote program
as congregational leaders work on what Dr. Carter calls “interfaith border
crossing skills — the ability to communicate with, work with, and care for
people who think differently and pray differently.”
June
25–29 47th UUA GENERAL
ASSEMBLY,
GA Program & Registrations available on-line March
1st at www.uua.org
UUA
TRUSTEE TIDBITS
Joan Lund
Recently
I acquired a little book which explains how and why we Unitarian
Universalists function as we do: The
Cambridge Platform, edited by Peter Hughes. Even though we are different
in theology from other churches we share a common tradition of polity that
originated with The Cambridge Platform. The 1648 signers of this document
established how churches defined membership, chose leaders, came to
decisions, handled dissent, and acted together despite disagreements. The
Platform set forth a non-hierarchical congregational polity which meant
churches would be independent both of outside authority and of each other.
It explained and justified how congregational churches work. Both Unitarians
and Universalists evolved from early
The framers of the Cambridge
Platform continuously referenced the authority of the Bible which makes
it a foundational document for our UU polity, and other faiths molded by
Puritanism. The Puritans had tried to reform the Church of England in the
direction of a more personally experienced spiritual life. Their experience
of being persecuted and punished persuaded them something had gone awry and
led them to look in the Old and New Testaments where very different patterns
of authority were to be found. The New England Puritans believed all
religious authority to be in the members of each congregation. The Platform,
based on the biblical second commandment, declared that the substance of the
free church is the spirit of neighborly love.
The authors of the Platform did not see themselves as
“separatists” and insisted the autonomy of free churches did not imply
isolation from other free churches. Churches were to be concerned about
other’s welfare. In the 1600s churches founded by the Puritans engaged in
pulpit exchanges. Lay members sometimes attended services in their own
churches and then, if visiting friends, went to another in the afternoon.
These early Puritan churches sent letters of recommendation to a
congregation in a town to which one of their members was moving; sometimes
they helped with money and/or officers if need arose; and they assisted in
starting new churches.
Even though the framers held Scripture in great reverence they
believed not all that is necessary in the free church is indicated by the
bible. In addition there is a very strong statement on the importance of
covenant made by each member of a church to walk together with other
members, in love. There were some drawbacks in that the framers assumed a
tiered level or privilege and authority in churches was a natural thing.
There is so much more to be learned about our history in the Cambridge
Platform.
Perhaps I have tweaked an interest in learning more about the
Greetings Florida District Friends and Leaders
Friends, Look
for the next Now Is the Time campaign ads, this week in Time magazine.
We’re pleased to announce the continuation of the UUA’s well
received national marketing campaign. The
second phase of the campaign will include 2 more ads in TIME Magazine, the
most widely read news magazine in the
The May 12 issue of TIME (available on newsstands May 2) – the
highly popular “TIME 100” issue — will carry the UUA ad with the
headline, "My God is Better Than Your God," (a version of this ad
ran in the Time December 31st Person of the Year issue).
This full page ad will also include the free DVD offer. The TIME 100
issue features 100 people whose power, talent or moral example help to
transform our world. It is one
of the most heavily read issues of the year; it’s a perfect issue for our
ad.
The UUA's national advertising campaign is supported through the
generosity of Unitarian Universalist congregations who contributed to
Association Sunday, held last fall. Funds earmarked for marketing are being
used for the TIME print ad campaign, as well as an internet campaign that
includes Google Adwords program. A
test Google Adwords campaign in Fall 2007 attracted thousands of new
visitors to UUA.org and the “Find a Congregation” page.
The UUA’s national marketing campaign has energized congregations
and individual UUs. Please
direct congregations to the UUA website – Leaders – Leaders Library –
National Marketing Campaign for further details.
All updated information, sample graphics, generic ads for
congregational use, and hospitality and welcoming tools for congregations
are available there. For assistance with these resources please contact
Susanna Whitman at swhitman@uua.org.
It is hoped that seekers who yearn for a religious home will discover
welcoming UU congregations committed to supporting their spiritual journeys.
What a great
day!
Tracey
Robinson-Harris, Director, Congregational Services
Valerie
Holton, Marketing Outreach Director, UUA
The
Laying a Foundation for Change
Human systems
function best when there are certain things we can depend on and certain
things that are open to evolution and change. Systems can be too orderly,
which leads to an oppressive atmosphere. Systems can be too disorderly,
unable to function at a high level, unable to fulfill their full potential.
As
the world turns, so do you. When you change for the good, you change the
world too.
Wings of Change
Stability and
innovation are a polarity that must coexist and be in balance for change to
be possible. If the stability is not there, if there is no solid foundation
for us to stand upon and then build upon, no amount of creative thinking or
actions can bring about real change.
What are the
foundations we must lay before we can begin to build the truly beloved
community?
Who are we?
What are our values?
How will we be together?
What is our vision?
Who and what do we serve?
Creativity
and openness to new ideas and a deep understanding of our fears will help us
to answer these questions.
Do members
feel safe, honored, in the know, well informed and part of the vision? Or
does leadership act as gatekeepers barring the way of new leadership and new
ideas? Is fear far too often driving the bus? Are we too concerned with
keeping things clubby and just the way we like it to serve any higher
purpose? This often happens out of a sense of defending the holy ground.
Understand me – much of what we do that is unproductive, unhealthy and
detrimental, is done for the noblest of reasons and with the best of
intentions. However, these good intentions may keep our congregations from
being all that they could and should be.
Is new
information sought out, considered for its usefulness with care but
fearlessly? How is it put to use? Are changes accepted and well thought out?
I am not talking about change for change’s sake. That is unhealthy too. I
am talking about the congregation being open to and capable of processing
innovative ideas and using them to make needed changes for the good.
Death
is rigid; life is fluid.
At
the Church-in-the-Woods
New
Hope Christian Fellowship
- Sunday
evenings: Choir practice at 5:00 PM. Service at 6:00 PM.
Taoist
Tai Chi – Monday
and Thursday: Continuing Class, 6:00-7:30 PM.
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