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| Minister's Muusings - from Rev. Jane Page | ||
| Sat | Nov. 3 | 7:00 PM | Potluck and “Big Read” Book Discussion at Betty Derrick’s home | 
| Sun | Nov. 4 | Early
              AM 10:45 AM | Daylight
              Savings Time Ends
              –Set clocks back one hour and “make it to the church on
              time!” Religious Education for children Service – "The God Delusion or the Dawkins Delusion." Dr. Jim Hill Meet & Greet Coffee | 
| Wed | Nov. 7 | 6:00 PM | Board meeting at the church | 
| Sat | Nov. 10 | 10:00 AM | Fall clean-up at the church until around noon | 
| Sun | Nov. 11 | 10:45 AM | Religious Education for children Service - " Dorothy Day: Pilgrimage to Hospitality, Community and Peace,” Dr.
              Michael Stoltzfus  Meet & Greet Coffee after the service | 
| Mon | Nov. 12 | 11:00 AM | Break Bread delivery | 
| Sat. | Nov. 17 | 7:00 PM | Games Night at the Church - bring snacks and games for a fun evening | 
| Sun | Nov. 18 | 10:45 AM | Religious Education for children Service
              – “The Theology of Hospitality,” 
              Rev.  We
              will be Welcoming New Members as a part of this service. 
              If you have joined our group recently, please plan to be a
              part of this service. Meet & Greet Coffee after the service | 
| Th | Nov. 22 | All
              Day! | 
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| Sun | Nov. 25 | 10:45 AM | Religious Education for children Service – “Under Siege,” Rev. George Bennett Meet & Greet Coffee after the service | 
| M | Nov. 26 |  | Newsletter
              Deadline (See editors note elsewhere about this one time only late
              deadline.) | 
| Sun | Dec. 2 | 10:45 AM | Religious Education for children Service – “UUSC: Guest at Your Table,” Dr. Betty Derrick Meet & Greet Coffee after the service | 
November… Join
      in the many opportunities, worship, social service, and just plain fun,
      our beloved community provides.
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Sunday, November 4 -  Dr. Jim
    Hill, "The God Delusion or the Dawkins Delusion"
Dr. James
    Hill, Professor Emeritus and former Head of the Philosophy Department at 
Sunday, November 11 - Dr. Michael Stoltzfus, “Dorothy Day: Pilgrimage
    to Hospitality, Community and Peace”
Dorothy Day
    was a writer, an activist, and the co-founder of the Catholic Worker
    movement that continues to follow the precepts of voluntary poverty,
    pacifism, hospitality, and intentional community.  Her pilgrimage was
    rooted in the mystical union of the spiritual with the physical, the love of
    God with the development of human dignity.  In the midst of human
    suffering and misery, Dorothy responded not only with a personal form of
    hospitality but with a political form of resisting the institutional forces
    leading to poverty and war.  We will trace the contributions of Dorothy
    Day to the broader American peace movement and to the development of a
    society where it easier to embody love, reconciliation, and basic human
    decency.    For several
    years now Mike, who is a faculty member in the religion in the VSU
    Philosophy Department, has been a regular monthly speaker at our services.
Sunday, November 18 - Rev. 
This Sunday
    before Thanksgiving begins the season for hospitality.  We welcome
    friends and family into our homes and our church for holiday celebrations. 
    But is this true hospitality as envisioned by prophets of old?  In her
    sermon Rev. 
 During
    this service Rev. Jane A. Page also will assist in a service recognizing new
    members to our congregation. If you have considered joining our community,
    please let one of the officers know and plan to participate in this special
    part of the service on November 18.
Sunday, November
    25 - Rev. George Bennett, “Under Siege”
    
    Rev. Bennett says that he  has
    come to believe that America's revolutionary heritage, and America's
    revolutionary spirit, "life, liberty and the pursuit of justice,
    through government of, by, and for the people" is under siege. If we do
    not take the lead in our rescue and revival, we can lose our democracy. 
    For several years now George has been a regular monthly speaker in
    our services.  He is retired from
    service as the minister of 
Sunday, December 2 - Dr. Betty Derrick, “UUSC: Guest at Your Table” 
Guest at Your Table is a special tradition of the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee(UUSC), typically initiated at most UU churches during the Thanksgiving holiday and continued for several weeks into the holiday season. As UUSC explains “this program is intended to help us make lasting connections to UU principles, build awareness about UUSC, and strengthen UUSC’s human rights work.” UUSC is a UU membership organization which “advances human rights and social justice around the world, partnering with those who confront unjust power structures and mobilizing to challenge oppressive policies.” Many of our members are members; Betty is our UUSC Local Representative. She will conduct this service of UU faith in action. Dr. Derrick is a VSU Professor Emeritus. She serves on the governing bodies of two professional organizations: as Councilor for the Southwest Georgia Section of the American Chemical Society and member of the ACS Council Policy Committee and as a Councilor from the southeast for the American Association of University Professors(AAUP). She is a long-time member of our congregation.
| INVITATION
          TO MEMBERSHIP If you are interested in
          becoming a member of our fellowship, we encourage you to talk with our
          President, Mya Storey, or Membership Director, Lars Leader. 
          We welcome your questions, and we extend an open invitation to
          all who want to join our liberal community of faith. 
                  Rev.  SPECIAL MEMBERSHIP SERVICE The congregation will recognize
          and honor recent new members during the service on November 18. 
          If you have been considering joining our community, we hope you will
          speak with someone so that we can honor you this month.  Although it has been a while
          since such a service has been planned, the church normally schedules
          new member recognitions twice a year, in the Fall and the Spring.  | 
Religious
    Education for Children
The RE program for children meets at 10:45 AM concurrent with the Sunday morning service. The current curriculum comes from We Believe: Learning and Living Our UU Principles. The children are exploring the seven principles in depth using stories, songs, crafts, and games and activities. The book is designed for single, all-ages religious education classrooms. The curriculum is being supplemented with stories by Dr. Seuss. Volunteers to help in the classroom are needed. More detailed information about the RE program is available on the table in the back of the sanctuary. Contacts: Mya Storey and Susan Bailey
Mark
    Your Social Calendars
The
    revival of Games Night was quite a success last month: 15 or so adults and
    6-8 children ate and played games and visited a Saturday night in October. 
    This month we are reviving another social event from the past. 
    Join in the Book Discussion for more fun and fellowship. 
    
  “The
    Big Read” Book Discussion
Saturday, November 3, 7:00 PM
Betty Derrick’s Home
Book:
    Zora Neale
    Hurston’s “Their Eyes Were Watching God”
Potluck:
    Betty will have soup for everyone, tea, and coffee. 
    Bring salad, sandwiches, and desserts to complete the meal. 
    You are welcome to bring beer and wine too.
               
    Our UU book discussion is part of the Valdosta National Endowment for
    the Arts Big Read event this fall. 
    Betty will be inviting the Accepting Difference Project participants
    to join in our discussion. It is possible that we will have other
    participants from the larger community.   Be
    there to welcome these visitors and enjoy each others company.
               
    During the discussion we will be considering whether we might
    continue the book discussion group over coming months with an emphasis on
    books, which deal with different cultures, religions, and life styles. 
    E-mail Betty if you have suggestions of books that should be on such
    a list.
               
    Plan to read the book and come to Betty’s home for a discussion. 
    (If you haven’t read the book yet, do come anyway and enjoy the
    fellowship.)  Books
    are available at area bookstores and the library. 
Games
    Night 
Saturday,
    November 17 at 7:00 PM
At
    the church
The next games night is set. We’ll not have a potluck this time but do bring snacks to munch and share. Sweet tea and coffee will be provided; however you are welcome to bring beer or wine or other beverages. Bring your favorite game. This is an intergenerational event. All ages, including children, come have fun.
| Rev. Jane A. Page, Minister,
          Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Statesboro, serves our
          congregation in  | 
 Ministerial Muusings 
    Rev.
     Ministerial Muusings 
    Rev. 
Doing
    something!
Helen Keller
    once said:
I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do
    everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do
    everything, I will not refuse to do something that I can do. 
               
    There are so many needs today in our world, this community, and in my
    family.  As I read about
    difficulties in 
               
    Recently I had a request from a young man to be at a forum on
    homosexuality and religion at Georgia Southern University. 
    I shared with him that I already had another meeting that evening but
    that I would pass the word on to my congregation and I felt that some of
    them would be there.  Then the
    organizer of the event asked if I could serve on the panel. 
    Again, I shared that I had another event on my calendar already. 
    Then my recent sermon came back to haunt me. 
    In that sermon on marriage equality, I voiced a strong commitment to
    continue the work to bring the privilege and rights of civil marriage to all
    loving couples.  And here I was,
    turning down an opportunity for which I was best suited. 
    I certainly had the knowledge on homosexuality and religion at my
    fingertips.  I was probably also
    the only panelist invited, other than the young gay student on the panel,
    who would stand up for the rights of the GLBT community. 
    My other meeting could easily be led by someone else. 
    So I cancelled out on my previous commitment and went to the forum. 
    I was so glad that I did.  Like
    Helen Keller, I’ve found that I cannot do everything, but I should not
    refuse to do the something that I can do. 
    
               
    We have lots of opportunities for service in this congregation. 
    Sometimes a few folks are overwhelmed trying to do too much, while
    others feel that they have much more to offer. 
    Certainly, we can work together to discern how we all can bring our
    best talents and energies to this wonderful church. 
    What is the “something” that you can do? 
    Please share that with your board president, Mya Storey or one of the
    board members.  We can’t do
    everything, but together, we can make a difference.
    
For
      delivering Break Bread meals:
      Frank Asbury and Diane Holliman
For layleading services: 
      
For speaking at Sunday service:
      
For helping with Sunday Service
      music: Dee Tait, 
For flowers for Sunday
      services: Betty
      Derrick, Dee Tait
For greeting visitors: Betty
      Derrick, Dee Tait, Kimberly Tanner, 
For serving as Meet and Greet
      Hosts:  Sue
      Bailey, Betty Derrick, Julie Halter
For assisting with Children’s
      RE: Mya Storey, Susan
      Bailey
For cleaning the church: Frank
      Asbury, Susan Bailey, Lars Leader 
For keeping our grounds: 
For volunteering to take charge
      of and improve our community-wide publicity: Dee
      Tait
For reviving Games Night: Sue
      Bailey and everyone who had a wonderful time in October!
For all you do that we may not have thanked you for in person. 
      Let your editor know your contributions so that others can
      know!  It takes all of us and
      we appreciate you.
Our
    date for meal deliveries with the Break Bread Together program is the 2nd
    Monday of each month.  If you can
    deliver meals on this day beginning about 11:00 AM, please contact Frank
    Asbury.
Accepting Difference Project: Members of the group will be invited to the November Book Discussion with the possibility that for the next several months there will be continued contact with our congregation and members of this group through book discussions which deal with cultural, religious, and lifestyle differences.
ABOUT
    OUR MEMBERS AND FRIENDS
Keep in your thoughts …
Our
    members and friends who have recently lost family members, or whose family
    members are experiencing serious health concerns.
More
    about some of our folks…
v  
    Bill Webster, who spoke at one of our October
    services, and his wife Valerie have been attending our services regularly in
    recent months. Bill has an M.A. in English from 
v  
    Josette and 
v  
    Virginia Branan was honored by the American Association of
    University Women when the South Georgia Political Forum held October 1 was
    dedicated to her memory.  
 An update on and
    good luck to...
v  
    René Kerr, Jerry Jones, and Madison who sent a
    long, newsy letter, posted on the bulletin board in the RE building. 
    René was our treasurer for a number of years.
v  
    
UU
    
October
    3, 2007
Attendance:
    Mya Storey, Chuck Giese, Sue Bailey, Lars Leader, 
Old Business:
    The Board approved the minutes of the September meeting. 
    
Fall Clean-up
    scheduled for November 10 from 10:00 am to noon. General cleanup of the RE
    building and grounds.
Branan
    Memorial Fund
We
    now have $400.00 in the fund in memory of Virginia and John Branan. 
    One idea for a memorial is to erect two benches in the breezeway
    between the sanctuary and the RE building. 
    Another possibility is to place two more benches on the “Meditation
    Trail” and name it the “Branan Meditation Trail.” 
    The one bench currently on the trail is a memorial to Penny Branan
    which John and Virginia placed there several years ago in memory of their
    daughter.  Julie
    Halter says that her son, Jason, who constructed the trail, would be happy
    to see the trail named for the Branans since 
               
    If you have comments on this project, call or e-mail Frank Asbury. 
    Financial contributions to the fund can be mailed to Rosie Asbury,
    Treasurer of the Valdosta UU Church, 
Treasurer's
    Report
Rosie
    Asbury
FUND BALANCES at September 30, 2007
           
    
General
    Fund                                                   
    $20,130.57             
    
Restoration
    Fund                                            
    $11,715.64             
    
Total
    (Cash in Bank Accounts)                    
    $31,846.21                             
    
OUTSTANDING DEBT                                     
    
Mortgage                                                        
    $15,102.03             
    
OPERATING RECEIPTS AND DISBURSEMENTS:
                                                       
    September            
    YTD/3 Mo
Receipts:                                                                               
    
 
    Plate                                                 
    14.83                   
    339.83 
 
    Pledge                                         
    1,150.00                
    2,950.00 
 
    Rent                                                
    240.00                 
      720.00 
TOTAL
    RECEIPTS                     
    1,404.83                
    4,009.83 
Disbursements:                                     
       
 
    Mortgage                                       
    500.00                
    1,500.00 
 
    Speaker's Fees & Expenses        
    550.00                 
    1,510.00 
 
    Repairs and Maintenance               
    0.00                
         70.00
    
 
    Utilities                                          
    218.57                    
    692.06 
 
    Other                                                
    16.00                     
    81.00 
TOTAL
    DISBURSETS                
    1,284.57                
    3,853.06 
NET RECEIPT
    (DISBURSEMENT)                  
    
                                               
    $120.26                  
     $156.77
     
      
    
     
    
    
| Newsletter Editor: 
          Betty Derrick  Website: 
            November
          26:
          Note unusual late deadline
          for the December newsletter; however, please be  
          prepared to adhere
          strictly to the usual December 15 deadline for the January newsletter
          as your editor has little flexibility for that newsletter. 
          Thanks for marking your calendar and helping out.  | 
UU
    Activities and Announcements
Further information is posted on the
    bulletin board in the R.E. wing at the church. 
    Also check your Sunday Order of Service for announcements. 
    
November
    3- Best Practices Workshop, presented by the West
Central
    Cluster, 
This
    will be a day-long West Central Cluster event that will be led by UUA
    Marketing Outreach Director Valerie  Holton. There will be a $15 per person charge to
    cover lunch and other expenses.
November
    4 -Installation of Reverend Carole Yorke, Stuart, FL
    November 10 Diversifying
    Our Diversity – Growth Workshop,
    with keynote speaker Rev. Kenneth Hurto, Southwest Cluster, Sarasota, FL
November
    11-Ordination of Reverend Pallas Stanford, 
November
    17-District Board Meeting, 
     
      
    
     
    
At the Church-in-the-Woods
New Hope Christian Fellowship
    - Sunday
    evenings: Choir practice at 5:00 PM. Service at 6:00 PM.
    
Taoist Tai Chi – Monday and Thursday: Continuing Class: 5:30-7:00 PM; Beginner’s Class: 7:00-8:00 PM
           
    Contact
    
UUA TRUSTEE
    TIDBITS                   
    Joan Lund
November
    already… I sincerely hope your congregation year is going well and you are
    energized by cooler weather. By the time you find this in your newsletter I
    will have returned from the October Board of Trustees (BOT) meeting and
    written a report for the District Packet and web page. This month the
    information will be about The Board of Review (formerly known as the
    Ministerial Fellowship Board of Review). This Board hears appeals from
    ministers and credentialed religious educators who have had their fellowship
    or status as credentialed religious educator terminated by the Ministerial
    Fellowship Committee (MFC) or the Religious Education Credentialing
    Committee (RECC). No appeal is permitted after the Board of Review’s
    Decision.
               
    Due to a bylaw change passed by the delegates to the 2007 General
    Assembly (GA) the BOT approves the rules of the Board of Review, which
    parallels the BOT’s authority for the Ministerial Fellowship Committee and
    the Religious Education Credentialing Committee Rules. The Board of Review
    consists of eight members which includes three members who are ministers in
    final ministerial fellowship with the Unitarian Universalist Association for
    at least seven continuous years; a credentialed religious educator-masters
    level; and four members who are not ministers or credentialed religious
    educators who have been members of a congregation for at least three years
    as an officer or member of the governing body of that congregation. Board of
    Review members are elected by the delegates at GA and serve for eight years.
    No member of the Board of Review is permitted to be a member of the MFC, the
    RECC, or hold any salaried position in the Association. 
               
    A minister in final ministerial fellowship whose fellowship has been
    terminated may appeal the determination of the MFC to the Board of Review,
    who has exclusive jurisdiction to hear and decide on the appeal. A
    credentialed religious educator whose status has been terminated may appeal
    the determination of the RECC to the Board of Review who has exclusive
    jurisdiction to hear and decide on the appeal. An appeal to the Board of
    Review is heard by a panel of that Board selected by its rules. The panel
    hearing an appeal does not “try” the case but only reviews the record
    made before the MFC or RECC. The panel must uphold the decision of the MFC
    or RECC if it can be sustained by a reasonable view of the record, and in
    the absence of newly ascertained information. The panel may set aside the
    decision of the MFC or RECC only when it’s necessary to correct or prevent
    manifest injustice. 
The rules of the Board of Review can be found on the UUA web site. You can contact me at jlund@uua.org. I always enjoy, and profit from hearing from you. May you experience a blessed Thanksgiving and be of good health.
Greetings Florida District Friends and Leaders
Rev. Kenn Hurto
District Executive for the 
"Everywhere
    you look in society, every family, every school, every congregation, every
    business, it is the least mature, most recalcitrant who call all the
    shots."
               
    Rabbi Dr. Edwin H. Friedman
               
    Ed's generalization sure seems apt
    far too often in congregational life. Over and over, my phone line is heavy
    with tales of how naysayers and the "doesn't play well with
    others" types control Boards and whole congregations or make a
    minister's life hellish. Countless hours are wasted and goodwill squandered
    by an ineffectual "nice people" culture that too often sacrifices
    progress for pseudo-peace and growth for placating the immature and selfish.
               
    How does this happen? Well, we
    confuse tolerance of diverse theological expression with toleration of
    emotionally abusive speech or bullying behavior. We equate freedom of belief
    with a "no one can tell me what to do" license [e-mail is where it
    shows up the worst]. And in our desire to respect individuals, we deny the
    common good and "rights" of the beloved community. 
               
    "A congregation exists,"
    said Rev. A. Powell Davies to "grow souls." It takes a lifetime,
    often with lots of bumpy places and misdirection. To create a cradle of
    safety and solace, congregations need to nurture growth and not indulge
    immaturity. Given the diverse life experiences people bring to our
    congregations, leaders especially need to name values and rules for the
    congregational road we seek to travel. 
               
    Perhaps there was a time American
    society was so homogeneous it was clear how to behave in groups. People
    policed themselves, or at least accepted the discipline of a community.
    Today, a "have it your way" narcissism makes you sound like a dolt
    or tyrant if you dare ask, "Doesn't the group's overall well-being
    matter? Must it be only 'my way or no way' and never 'our' way?"
               
    In this time of societal
    regression, congregational leaders are challenged to articulate a commonly
    held mission and set of values to define our ministries. They are likewise
    challenged to say that joining a congregation is not about "you,"
    it's about "us." If we are not to be ever lost arguing whether
    leaders can lead and not to be bullied by the stubborn and willful, each
    congregation needs to undertake a disciplined review of its behavioral
    expectations associated with membership. 
               
    To that end, many Unitarian
    Universalist congregations across the UUA have gone through a period of
    self-study to create what is called a "Covenant of Right
    Relations." It is a straightforward listing of how we ideally
    ought to treat one another in our congregation, and what to do when we fail
    to honor our principles. It legitimates the sense that the commonweal
    matters. It calls people back to mature engagement rather than letting some
    act out with verbal rock throwing or intimidation.
               
    If your congregation does not have
    such, I commend to you Gil Rendle's Behavioral Covenants in
    Congregations: A Handbook for Honoring Differences [ISBN#
    1-56699-209-5, available for $15 from the Alban Institute or on loan from
    the FLD library]. Or you might want to network with the leadership in our 
               
    May we get to the day where Ed's
    lament is no longer credible.
Exercise
    Today, Walk With God
“Me
    and My Shadow”
I
    am Roger Branan, a fellow traveler in this journey called life. 
    Monday, today, I do my 2-mile walk to keep heart and life pumping. 
    I also free flow in my mind and Spirit and share anew my thoughts of
    travel.  My country is 
P.S.#1
    This is a sample of a 3-minute devotional. I presented these for over 20
    years as the program chair for the media in the Jacksonville Ministerial
    Association(FL).  I recorded 2
    weeks (14) at a time.  It was one
    of my favorite experiences.  People,
    early risers, received an inspiration from these as they went off to work or
    started their daily schedules.
P.S.#2 
    For those of you who do not know, Roger Branan is John Branan’s
    brother.  He and his wife live in
    
2008
    General Assembly in 
I
    encourage Cluster groups and Sunday Services Committees to contact me to
    arrange a visit starting in November and going through into June. 
    Contact: David Fisher, 
Unitarian Universalist Service Committee 
Witness for
    Peace  On
    October 10 a delegation of clergy from the Unitarian Universalist
    Association of Congregations (UUA) and the United Church of Christ (UCC)
    delivered a combined total of more than 73,000 signed petitions for peace to
    Congressional leaders. Rev. John Thomas, General Minister and President of
    the 
| Recipe
          for muffins served at a recent Meet and Greet Betty’s Oatmeal Apple
          Raisin Muffins 1 egg                                     
          ¾ cup milk 1 cup raisins                         
          1 chopped apple ½ cup oil                               
          1 cup all-purpose flour 1 cup quick oats                  
          1/3 cup sugar 3 tsp baking powder           
          1 tsp salt 1 tsp nutmeg                        
          2 tsp cinnamon ½ to 1 cup nuts Beat egg; stir in remaining
          ingredients, mixing just to moisten.  Pour into 12 greased muffin
          cups until ¾ full.  Bake at 400 F for 15-20 min.  Serve
          cool or warm. (I had  baked them in a
          small size muffin pan.  For the smaller size muffin you have to
          adjust the baking time a bit.  I also think I may have used 
          self-rising flour and omitted the salt and baking powder.) | 
UUA’s
    New National Marketing Campaign to Grow Our Faith: 
    Starting with the Oct 15
    edition of Time Magazine, the UUA launched its first national media campaign in
    50 years.  Ads will also appear
    in the Nov.5, Dec. 3, and Dec. 31 editions. 
    The “advertorial” is a unique concept which includes a two-page
    spread- a 1/3 page ad on the far left and a 2/3 page ad on the right. 
    Between the ads is a magazine story. 
    The ad is about religion in 
    
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