I will tell you some magic secrets
There is a saint in the greek orthodox church, called
"saint Phanourios". Now the root of the name is the same as in
"epiphane", so folk wisdom has it that he is the saint to supplicate
when you have lost or misplaced something. When you find it, you have to make a
"phanouropitta", a pie for saint Phanourios, and distribute it in the
church to the poor. I substitute for that giving something for good works.
The way I was taught this magic is the following: You visualize what you are
looking for and "pin it", i.e. you take a pin, or a needle and stick
it in wood and demand to find the missing item. I have been lately told that
what you do with this gesture is "pinning the devil", reminiscent of
the recent tragedies in stoning the devil's stones in the ME. I usually find
what I am looking for, within five minutes.
I will give you an example. My son and daughter in law recently moved with
their two children and 388 boxes of stuff. My daughter in law has an expensive
watch, whose batteries ran out. My son said: let us put it somewhere safe until
we can find a shop that sells batteries in the area, and both say he put it
somewhere in the kitchen cupboards. When I went to visit they had already been
there for a month, and were still looking for the watch. In addition it had
become an easy complaint to land on, when something went wrong in the whole
mess "and you lost my watch". I got fed up with that, and one day
when I was alone in the house and the baby asleep, I also started looking in
all the kitchen cupboards for the watch, with no success. Then I remembered
saint Phanourious. I found a needle in my traveling kit, and stuck it between
two kitchen cupboards with some difficulty, as they were plastic and not wood.
In two minutes I had found the watch. As I stuck the needle, I had an impulse (
actually a tactile "visualization") that I should put my fingers down
and sweep around bowls. It was in a small cup way back on the third level.
Now I will give you a scientific method of finding things, taken from the book
an acquaintance of mine has written; he has forty years in tutoring
mathematical problem solving . The book is very interesting and has been
translated into english and will be published by a scientific publisher. It is
mainly for maths, but there is a general method that does for any circular loop
our thoughts get into, which is what happens when we are looking for something
and cannot find it.
I will describe it by the example:
I visited my sister as she was looking all over a walk-in cupboard for a thingy
that she could attach on her vacuum cleaner and do a special job. She had given
up and so I offered to help her and we went to the closet together. The method
requires to write down a list of what you are looking for. In this case she
said she was looking for an orange tube that attached to the vacuum.
So I wrote down:
Tube
Orange
short
What one then does is "negate" this statement, and allow in the
search the negated terms, putting the emphasis on them.9 The rational is that
you are missing finding the item because one of the terms you are scanning for
is not manifesting that way).
Tube ------- not tube
orange------not orange
short ------not short
I found it the minute I entered the cupboard. It was a medium black tube with
an orange button.
It always works when I remember to use it. For another example, I was looking
for my address book.
orthogonal--------not orthogonal
brown-------------not brown
felt---------------not felt.
It was lying down half open under books.
Sometimes the list is quite long.
So both methods, st Phanourios and the scientific one, unlock our unconscious
and allow it to envisage other possibilities.