response1

"Seems like most societys are oppressive towards women. I don't know what the answer is because everyone is different and everyones experience is different. Life is not a fairy tale and peoples sexual responses are different. This is what creates the friction between people. My own experience is sex is better with someone you love - sex is an emotional expression for a man and a woman. Once you have had this kind of sex , casual sex is not so attractive. This is often why people get married, because they know they dont need anyone else to feel fullfilled. But some people never experience sex with love and they become immoral subconciously dragging society and everyone down to their level. But its ok to have sex with someone you just fancy too, although you have to be careful and trust the person you are with..... not so easy, huh. Maybe it's not worth the risk of catching hepatitis or some other STD. I don't think it is neccessarily a good thing for a bride to be a virgin on her wedding night, she would be wise to find out if her fiancee is a good lover first before commiting herself to him for the rest of her life. It will take a long time to change things as change like this often happens slowly. I always think its best to be discreet about sex , then if no one knows, you cant get hurt !"