Teenager Advice from a Teen

For people who feel comfortable on getting help from a teen or someone around his/her age

What I Will Provide and What I know

Here’s information about what I know about the topics on Advice I will give. Note that this information is mainly for teenagers, but I think it could be useful for preteen and possibly adults.

Boyfriend/Girlfriend Topics

Breaking Up/Issues

Personally, I do not currently have a girlfriend. But, I have read and know many people with issues with breaking up or other things with boyfriends/girlfriends. I have gave little advice that I myself plan to use when I’ve broke up with my future girlfriend. I am afraid that you will need to tell me about the break up and the past times with your boyfriend/girlfriend but I promise that the email will not be shared with anyone and also I will provide advice on dealing with your issues.

Is my boyfriend/girlfriend good?

Personally, I do not currently have a girlfriend. But I know what makes a good boyfriend/girlfriend. They must have the right potential and skills. I know what makes a good boyfriend and I have the potential and skills of being a good friend which will soon lead myself in finding a new girlfriend. When emailing for advice on this subject, you will have to tell me about your boyfriend/girlfriend. I am able to provide advice on if your boyfriend/girlfriend is right for you.

How can I be a good boyfriend/girlfriend?

Personally, I do not currently have a girlfriend. I know what potential and skills you need to have in order to have your boyfriend/girlfriend to trust you and depend on you for the future. It’s a big responsibility, which requires more than just going on dates and holding hands. I am able to provide advice on having the right potential or being a good boyfriend/girlfriend.

How to find one?

Personally, I do not currently have a girlfriend. But you have to be patient and make friends with your classmates. You will have to be kind and talk to them often with advice or stories. Hopefully you’ll have friends of the opposite sex. And then when the time is right, I think you’ll have a new boyfriend/girlfriend. I am able to provide advice on searching for a boyfriend/girlfriend.

Friendship Topics

Making friends

Personally, in middle school; I was an extremely shy and unpopular person and my preteen life didn’t go out so well. It still remains as a horrible past time memory, but now I understand why I didn’t have many friends because I had very bad communication with others. I am able to provide advice on making friends.

Being a good friend

Even though I have only a few friends, I do know what it takes to be a good friend. I currently am a good friend because not only do I have good communication with my friends or hang out with them, but I do provide help and advice for him/her, and I try my hardest to help him/her out. I am able to provide advice on what makes and how to be a good friend.

Is my friend good?

From experience, I have learned which one of classmates can possibly be my good friend or who can possibly be a bad friend who could possibly mess up my life. You will have to tell me about your certain friend and your communication with each other. As a good friend myself, I am able to provide advice on if your friend is good or not.

Family

Divorce

Personally, my parents had a very, very unusual, interesting, and nasty divorce. I am willing to share experiences and what I know. At this time, I have even harder time communicating with my father, his new wife, and my two annoying step-sisters. I am afraid that you will need to tell me what you know about your parents’ divorce and possibly question your parents to tell me/you the story. I am able to provide advice on dealing with your divorced parents, and possibly new family.

Adoption

Personally, I am not adopted but I know a good friend I recently discovered was adopted and she has trouble thinking about the fact about her true story about her family and bad communication with her new foster parents. Having a new foster parent is very frustrating and you will feel extremely sad and possibly angry, but remember that your new parent didn’t adopt you just to not be alone. I will possibly need your story about the adoption. I am able to provide advice on dealing with your foster parent and telling you why your parent adopted you.

Trouble with parents

Personally, I sometimes am angry and have trouble communicating with my divorced parents and I know many teens with bad communication with parents. But I know that they truly love me, but I had to learn how to deal with the bad thoughts about them. I am able to provide advice on communicating with your parents and how to deal with problems.

Being a good future parent

This topic is just sort of for fun… you’ll have to email to receive advice from what I think makes a good parent.