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Remembering your dreams is the starting place for learning to have lucid
dreams. If you don't recall your dreams, even if you do have a lucid
dream, you won't remember it! And, in order to be able to recognize your
dreams as dreams while they are happening, you have to be familiar with
the way your own dreams work. Before it will be worth your time to work
on lucid dream induction methods, you should be able to recall at least
one dream every night.
Getting plenty of sleep is the first step to good dream recall. If you
are rested it will be easier to focus on your goal of recalling dreams,
and you won't mind so much taking the time during the night to record
your dreams. Another benefit of getting plenty of sleep is that dream
periods get longer and closer together as the night proceeds. The first
dream of the night is the shortest, perhaps 10 minutes in length, while
after 8 hours of sleep, dream periods can be 45 minutes to an hour long.
We all dream every night, about one dream period every 90 minutes.
People who say they never dream simply never remember their dreams. You
may have more than one dream during a REM (dream) period, separated by
short arousals that are most often forgotten. It is generally accepted
among sleep researchers that dreams are not recalled unless the sleeper awakens directly from the dream, rather than after going on to other
stages of sleep.
It can be useful while you are developing your dream recall to keep a
complete dream journal. Keep the journal handy by your bed and record
every dream you remember, no matter how fragmentary. Start by writing
down all your dreams, not just the complete, coherent, or interesting
ones--even if all you remember is a face or a room, write it down.
When you awaken in the night and recall what you were dreaming, record
the dream right away. If you don't, in the morning you may find you
remember nothing about the dream, and you will certainly have forgotten
many interesting details. We seem to have built-in dream erasers in our
minds, which make dream experiences more difficult to recall than waking
ones. So, whenever you remember a dream, write it down. If you don't
feel like writing out a long dream story at 3 AM, note down key points
of the plot. Also write down the precise content of any dialogue from
the dream, because words will almost inevitably be forgotten in a very
short time.
Possibly, all you will need to do to increase your dream recall is to
remind yourself as you are falling asleep that you wish to awaken fully
from your dreams and remember them. This works in a similar manner to
remembering to awaken at a certain time in the morning. Additionally, it
may help to tell yourself you will have interesting, meaningful dreams.
A major cause of dream forgetting is interference from other thoughts competing for your attention. Therefore, let your first thought upon
awakening be, "What was I just dreaming?" Before attempting to write
down the dream, go over the dream in your mind, re-telling the dream
story to yourself. DO NOT MOVE from the position in which you awaken,
and do not think of the day's concerns. Cling to any clues of what you
might have been experiencing--moods, feelings, fragments of images, and try to rebuild a story from them. When you recall a scene, try to recall
what happened before that, and before that, reliving the dream in
reverse. If after a few minutes, all you remember is a mood, describe it
in a journal. If you can recall nothing, try imagining a dream you might
have had--note your present feelings, list your current concerns to yourself, and ask yourself, "Did I dream about that?" Even if you can't
recall anything in bed, events or scenes of the day may remind you of
something you dreamed the night before. Be ready to notice this when it
happens, and record whatever you remember.
If you find that you sleep too deeply to awaken from your dreams, try
setting an alarm clock to wake you at a time when you are likely to be
dreaming. Since our REM periods occur at approximately 90 minute
intervals, good times will be multiples of 90 minutes after you go to
sleep. Aim for the later REM periods by setting the alarm to go off at
4.5, 6, or 7.5 hours after you go to sleep. Once again, when you wake
up, don't move and think first of what you were just dreaming before
writing.
To remind yourself of your intentions and get yourself into the spirit
of your dreams, read through your dream journal at bedtime. Learning to
remember your dreams may seem difficult at first, but if you persist,
you will almost certainly succeed--and may find yourself remembering
four or more dreams per night. Of course, once you reach this level, you
probably won't want to write them all down--just the significant or
compelling ones. And, the more familiar you become with the style of
your own dreams, the easier it will be to remember you are dreaming
while you are dreaming--and explore the world of your dreams while still
on the scene.
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