Mela, issa, ghal darba, t-tifel iz-zghir sa jaghmilha tal-kbir u jtarrfilkom dak li ghalih huma affarijiet indispensabli ghal hajja mizzewga ta' success.

	Nibda billi nsaqsikom, kif ghaddejtuhom dawn l-4 snin? Anqas tafu kif ghaddew? mohhkom hemm u titilfux il-fera valuri. Ippruvaw teqghux f’hajja ta’ rutina minghir sens hlief dak tal-ghixien! Araw li dejjem issibu cans ghalikom infuskom u ghal xulxin. Hafna psikologi u ohrajn (fosthom jien) iqisu li huwa bzonn naturali li wiehed isib ftit hin ghal mumenti ta’ kwiet (An unevaluated life is not worth living). Fi zmienkom ma tantx nahseb li kienu jaghtu kasha wisq. Nistedinkom sabiex tippruvaw (u jekk tridu tistghu) taghmlu ftit mumenti fis-skiet u ma tahsbu fuq xejn partikolari.

	Il-komunikazzjoni hija l-iktar haga bazika ghal kull tip ta’ relazzjoni. 

	Iddjalogaw u ilhqu kompromessi, m’hux tghaddi ta’ persuna wahda biss (fejn hu possibbli). 

	Kunu miftuhin ma xulxin u jekk xi haga iddejjaqkom sibu mezz kif tghiduha lill-persuna l-ohra. Jekk tibqghu tahznu kollox go fikom ghad jasal mument fejn fl-ahhar jisplodi kollox f’daqqa. Generalment l-ikbar biza` tkun li ma tinftiehemx. Itlob u hu l-hin li hemm bzonn biex tispjega lilek innifsek car u bil-mod. 
	Be responsible for your actions. Din hija indispensabli jekk tridu li tghixu flimkien. Ghandu jkollkom il-kuragg li tammettu l-izbalji taghkom. Kulhadd jizbalja. F’kunflitt huwa rari li persuna wahda biss ikollha t-tort kollu.

	Fuq kollox kunu hbieb tal-qalb bejnietkom. Toqghodux tistennew Milied…biex turu l-apprezzament taghkom ghall-hbiberija ta’ bejnietkom. Ftakru, li l-isbah rigali m’humiex dawk li jiswew hafna, izda dawk li gejjin mill-qalb.

	Kull persuna jinbidel kuljum ma kull esperjenza li jghaddi minnha. B’hekk ma tistghu qatt taslu biex tghidu li tafu lil xulxin ghal kollox. Hafna mill-bidliet huma zghar izda qieghdin hemm.

	Fl-ahhar nett, happiness is an inside job. Don’t let yourself be influenced too much by the actions of another person. While looking at the mirror (at least every morning), remember these words “You are looking at the person who is responsible for your happiness today”

Upps!! I was going to forget the most important part of it all! Forget yourself in loving – “It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye”

Cheers and enjoy another year in one another’s company…
Walter

Happy 4th Anniversary

P.S.	Jekk tahsbu li issa tard wisq biex jintlahqu l-‘ideali’ kollha nghidilkom:
		Taqghux fin-nasba tal-hin. Ahjar tard milli qatt, ghalkemm, jekk tahsbu sew, ghadkom kemm tibdew.

P.P.S.	Jekk ghalikom dan kien biss kliem fierah ta’ meta tkun ghadek zghir skuzawni (ghax kienet daqsxejn twila), biss nistqarr li kieku jiddispjecini ftit ghax f’ghajnejja tkunu qed tghalqu l-bieb tal-hajja f’wicckom

	Walter

Main message:
- Be oneself
- Be open
- Be responsible for your own actions
- Forget yourself in loving