School Battlegrounds
Saturday March 24th
2001 By
Paul E. K. Mullan
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EDITORIAL
-- I don’t understand what is going on with the children today. I
know a lot of it has to do with (in an extreme comment) worthless
parents, there has to be more than just that though. I am admitting
now that I am not that “old.” Yet I find there is more violence in
schools today than when I was in High School. All those years I
think I remember one, maybe two shootings…now it has, unfortunately,
become almost a weekly event. Such a shame.
Looking
back at the history of these shootings it is a rare occasion that
you hear “A student is killed in the parking lot of Lincoln County
H.S. by the ex-boyfriend of a girl he was dating.” (May
19th 1998; Fayetteville, Tenn.) Out of all the records
most of the reasoning is an “unknown” or the “outcast student
theory.” These can be tough situations. The fact remains that I can
understand more so a fight that was going on, it isn’t right don’t
get me wrong. But most of these situations seem to exist for the
pure reason of…who knows???
I
would have to say that Charles H. Ramsey (D.C. police chief) has a
terrific point in the Washington Post, “I think the violence is the
result of kids not knowing how to resolve conflict and feeling
violence is the only solution to dealing with problems, and it is
just as important in my opinion as reading, writing and arithmetic.”
Most students in H.S. would probably sit around and say how stupid
that whole idea is, but if there is “sex ed” why wouldn’t a type of
anger management lesson help, heck it can’t hurt. Teach people not
to pick on others. You can use the “golden rule” but also break it
down to just saying you could ruin your life too. Because kids today
are too selfish to go solely off of the good old fashion idea of “do
to others as you wish to have done to you.”
Then
it would help to have the people that kids look up to join the
battle a little. Not doing stupid P.S.A.’s but involving themselves
sincerely. While I was reading an article I came across a great
quote. A student Christopher L. is a student member on the
Montgomery Country Board of Education. This is a great idea…have
students (the ones that are actually IN the school and are impacted
by the decisions) have a say. How about we put “average” students on
the board though. Have some of the “out casts.” Not only
valedictorian type students like Chris that talk like Dawson (the
wonderful character that talks like he is 30-40 years older than he
actually is) for God’s sake. “… my belief is that the same
intolerance of other people’s differences that has plagued American
society all of its existence is still here … The community at large
can start dealing with violence at school by dealing with the
intolerant and prejudiced mentality of students.” This guy is either
not the average student or has a Press Secretary.


The
most sound thing I read comes from Westley Moore who is a senior at
the Johns Hopkins University, as well as being a Rhodes Scholar. He
as well founded a mentoring program entitled "Students Taking a New
Direction." I will break it down for you, the guy is smart. He says,
“The first thing I would do is put more emphasis on mental health in
public schools. So many times the mental health of a child is
ignored. We see a child acting out and instead of digging deeper to
find out why, we just label them. ‘He or she doesn’t work hard at
school.’ He or she doesn’t listen to teachers.’” That is what it
comes down to, the students that are doing the acts. Look at them
and their lives. Yes the parents and home might have something to do
with it but at the same time don’t place all the blame on the “bad
parents” or other scapegoats (such as guns).
“I
doubt if any single item is going to be the solution here. We’re
going to work on this as a culture and a society to engender a sense
of responsibility,” General Ashcroft told the Kansas City Star. Wow,
someone is starting to make sense, much unlike Josh Horowitz states
in the same article. “They want to blame everything else. I’m not
saying these aren’t complicated matters, but guns are the
instruments these kids are using. If you take that instrument out of
their hands, the story is different. People aren’t dying.” True, but
they most likely will injury people in another form. What about the
good old days of meeting behind the school after school for a
fist-fight. That is not a good answer to everything, but a few
bloody noses is far better than the headline of “15 killed and 23
wounded at Columbine H.S.”
The
best solution is to get involved with the students before this
happens, HELP the students before they feel terrorism is their only
answer. A.G. Ashcroft made a very good point that trigger locks may
prevent some younger children from getting to the guns. Let’s think
about this for a minute though. We are all trying to kid ourselves
by thinking trigger locks are going to help that much. You are
expecting that your teenager child won’t be able to rid the gun of a
lock … but this is the same child you have to get to set the VCR up
and change the clocks. They are smarter than the average adult so
why does the country think that you can out think them?
I
have rid your mind of that misconception so on the last and the
conclusion of my educated rant. We have these thoughts that the
downtown schools are the ones with the violence. I would say from
what I have seen there is more “fighting” in downtown schools in the
“poor” (I hate that term but I can’t think of another way to say it)
areas. These shootings are happening in suburban and rural areas
though. Plus, who does the shootings at these schools? The “out
casted.” Nope, not in all cases. To finish, in an article by the
A.P. it is stated that three 16 year-olds were arrested in Eden, NY.
They were planning an attack on their rural school. All guns in the
homes were turned over from the homes, but most important listen to
the description given by police. “The boys … [were] at the top of
their class, popular, and involved in student clubs and athletics,
were charged with second-degree criminal solicitation.”
I
have learned that it isn’t going to be the people you expect, those
are too well watched. Those who are forgotten or given a pass just
because they are the school “jock” can be the ones that end up
surprising us in the worst of ways. It isn’t just guns, they don’t
help, but it is psychology and society in whole that will be the
ultimate solution.
But
society in whole here is lucky. We are able to flee to the outside
to seek refuge (such as the students on the right), other countries
aren’t so lucky (on the left violence is at every bend in Israel).
So there are a lot of negative things, but our society isn’t as bad
as many (including myself) would make it out to be.
My
prayers go out to all of those whose lives have been affected by
school shootings.
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