School Battlegrounds
Saturday March 24th
2001
By
Paul E. K. Mullan
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EDITORIAL -- I don’t understand what is
going on with the children today. I know a lot of it has to do with (in
an extreme comment) worthless parents, there has to be more than just
that though. I am admitting now that I am not that “old.” Yet I find
there is more violence in schools today than when I was in High School.
All those years I think I remember one, maybe two shootings…now it
has, unfortunately, become almost a weekly event. Such a shame.
Looking back at the history of these shootings it is a
rare occasion that you hear “A student is killed in the parking lot of
Lincoln County H.S. by the ex-boyfriend of a girl he was dating.”
(May 19th 1998; Fayetteville, Tenn.) Out of all the records
most of the reasoning is an “unknown” or the “outcast student
theory.” These can be tough situations. The fact remains that I can
understand more so a fight that was going on, it isn’t right don’t
get me wrong. But most of these situations seem to exist for the pure
reason of…who knows???
I would have to say that Charles H. Ramsey (D.C. police
chief) has a terrific point in the Washington Post, “I think the
violence is the result of kids not knowing how to resolve conflict and
feeling violence is the only solution to dealing with problems, and it
is just as important in my opinion as reading, writing and
arithmetic.” Most students in H.S. would probably sit around and say
how stupid that whole idea is, but if there is “sex ed” why
wouldn’t a type of anger management lesson help, heck it can’t hurt.
Teach people not to pick on others. You can use the “golden rule”
but also break it down to just saying you could ruin your life too.
Because kids today are too selfish to go solely off of the good old
fashion idea of “do to others as you wish to have done to you.”
Then it would help to have the people that kids look up
to join the battle a little. Not doing stupid P.S.A.’s but involving
themselves sincerely. While I was reading an article I came across a
great quote. A student Christopher L. is a student member on the
Montgomery Country Board of Education. This is a great idea…have
students (the ones that are actually IN the school and are impacted by
the decisions) have a say. How about we put “average” students on
the board though. Have some of the “out casts.” Not only
valedictorian type students like Chris that talk like Dawson (the
wonderful character that talks like he is 30-40 years older than he
actually is) for God’s sake. “… my belief is that the same
intolerance of other people’s differences that has plagued American
society all of its existence is still here … The community at large
can start dealing with violence at school by dealing with the intolerant
and prejudiced mentality of students.” This guy is either not the
average student or has a Press Secretary.


The most sound thing I read comes from Westley Moore
who is a senior at the Johns Hopkins University, as well as being a
Rhodes Scholar. He as well founded a mentoring program entitled
"Students Taking a New Direction." I will break it down for
you, the guy is smart. He says, “The first thing I would do is put
more emphasis on mental health in public schools. So many times the
mental health of a child is ignored. We see a child acting out and
instead of digging deeper to find out why, we just label them. ‘He or
she doesn’t work hard at school.’ He or she doesn’t listen to
teachers.’” That is what it comes down to, the students that are
doing the acts. Look at them and their lives. Yes the parents and home
might have something to do with it but at the same time don’t place
all the blame on the “bad parents” or other scapegoats (such as
guns).
“I doubt if any single item is going to be the
solution here. We’re going to work on this as a culture and a society
to engender a sense of responsibility,” General Ashcroft told the
Kansas City Star. Wow, someone is starting to make sense, much unlike
Josh Horowitz states in the same article. “They want to blame
everything else. I’m not saying these aren’t complicated matters,
but guns are the instruments these kids are using. If you take that
instrument out of their hands, the story is different. People aren’t
dying.” True, but they most likely will injury people in another form.
What about the good old days of meeting behind the school after school
for a fist-fight. That is not a good answer to everything, but a few
bloody noses is far better than the headline of “15 killed and 23
wounded at Columbine H.S.”
The best solution is to get involved with the students
before this happens, HELP the students before they feel terrorism is
their only answer. A.G. Ashcroft made a very good point that trigger
locks may prevent some younger children from getting to the guns.
Let’s think about this for a minute though. We are all trying to kid
ourselves by thinking trigger locks are going to help that much. You are
expecting that your teenager child won’t be able to rid the gun of a
lock … but this is the same child you have to get to set the VCR up
and change the clocks. They are smarter than the average adult so why
does the country think that you can out think them?
I have rid your mind of that misconception so on the last and
the conclusion of my educated rant. We have these thoughts that the
downtown schools are the ones with the violence. I would say from what I
have seen there is more “fighting” in downtown schools in the
“poor” (I hate that term but I can’t think of another way to say
it) areas. These shootings are happening in suburban and rural areas
though. Plus, who does the shootings at these schools? The “out casted.”
Nope, not in all cases. To finish, in an article by the A.P. it is
stated that three 16 year-olds were arrested in Eden, NY. They were
planning an attack on their rural school. All guns in the homes were
turned over from the homes, but most important listen to the description
given by police. “The boys … [were] at the top of their class,
popular, and involved in student clubs and athletics, were charged with
second-degree criminal solicitation.”
I have learned that it isn’t going to be the people you
expect, those are too well watched. Those who are forgotten or given a
pass just because they are the school “jock” can be the ones that
end up surprising us in the worst of ways. It isn’t just guns, they
don’t help, but it is psychology and society in whole that will be the
ultimate solution.
But society in whole here is lucky. We are able to flee to
the outside to seek refuge (such as the students on the right), other countries aren’t so
lucky (on the left violence is at every bend in Israel). So there are a lot of negative things, but our society isn’t as bad as many
(including myself) would make it out to be.
My prayers go out to all of those whose lives have been
affected by school
shootings.
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