Signs of a Non-Abusive Male
Shows respect for people.
Thinks in terms of "grey" instead of "black and
white".
Won't tolerate racist, sexist, or homophobic jokes or
statements.
Listens and talks with me, not to me.
Respects my right to my feelings.
Doesn't need to clarify what a woman says.
Respects a child's personal space.
Was
not abused and did not witness abuse as a youth.
Has
good self-esteem
Has own personal goals and attempts to attain them.
Supports and encourages partner's outside interests.
Has
anti-violent views.
Shows compassion.
Is
not chemically dependent.
Enjoys life
Is
willing to admit own mistakes.
Does not condone violence against women.
Is
willing to give up male privilege .
