God can lead you to the mate that you are going to be friends with. He SHOULD lead you to the person, who you will marry. This may take time to seek the Lord for his revelation. Through earnestly seeking God, he can reveal the truth to you. He has promised us through his word that the Holy Spirit will lead us into all truth.
It is not recommended to have sex before marriage but spent time doing things as friends would do. It can give you another side of this person before you make a serious decision of MARRIAGE or dating. You are able to do many things together [other than sin], without the complications of "being involved.” You need to get to know your mate without the complications of sex and intimacy. Take your time to get to know them first, through friendship. Plus the penalty of sin may fall into the marriage and cause the relationship to get into a state of despair.
* Through friendship you can know their complete history. This may include hereditary diseases that may affect them mentally, physically or spiritually.
You should know assuredly that the person whom you are about to marry is a good friend and loves you deeply.
If both of you have argued with each other, more than eight times, please reconsider getting engage, date or marry this person. A relationship is about happiness, togetherness, cooperation, and commitment. So, if the two of you are not “agreeing,” this is a big indicator, that something is wrong. Anger is a “red flag” to warn the couple that this relationship may need more, or not for you, or “this one need too much work to get it into a healthy state,” [too far gone]. People come with their own problems, be wise and be friends before you get caught up into something that is not for you. Why play fix it, there are many wonderful people who you two can get along peacefully without all the extra “drama.”
"Every purpose is established by counsel and with good advice make war." Proverbs 20:18
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