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Dear Vince:
Wed, 8 Jan 2003
Thank you, this reply really answered a lot of the questions that have
created my insecurities.
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Dear Vince:
Mon, 6 Jan 2003
Thank you for responding. Although I had almost given up ever hearing from you!!! But glad to see your comments in my inbox. Its 3.30 am in the morning here, and still haven’t be able to sleep, so I just came downstairs to make my aniseed milk with honey. Usually does the trick.
The advice you gave is true to the mark. I did not know them properly first. Too naïve and believing, probably based on wanting and needing love so much.
I have since made a vow to God concerning intimacy. And I will look further into where I slipped up. In response to your questions: I am 45 years old, my daughter just turned 10, and my son just turned 9. A week after sending the email to you in October, my divorce became final.
The children have thankfully handling the divorce well, praise be to Him, however my son really misses not having a male around the house, to look up to. They go to a Christian school, and almost all their classmates come from 2-parent homes, so he feels very-much the odd-one-out concerning that. I pray that he will receive peace in his soul for that.
Thanks for your advice,
God be with you,
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Dear Vince:
Mon, 23 Dec 2002
Thanks for your reply, your advice helps a lot and thank you for being honest, sorry it took me so long to write back. But havent been on line much, I am not allowed on here unless my husband is close by, and i totally agree, Because i did have a bad problem, I was mad at first, but he seen the changes i was going through because of this and he made it so hard i couldent go on line, But now i know it is for the best, and Maybe God led him to help me in the way he did, I really need all the prayers I can get, Thank you and God Bless. OH By the way “MERRY CHRISTMAS"
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Dear Vince:
Tue, 03 Dec 2002
I want to thank the Lord for using you in this format. I woke up
this morning with a great idea which I wish to share with my pastor about giving dating advice. So I desided to search the net and was glad to come in contact with this site. Look what the Lord as done!
Having recently undergone a painful divorce in which I was left homeless and
with a beautiful girl. I did not wish to see the same experience
I went through in anyone else. God has placed a desire in my heart to be a seed for fruitful relationship in the body of Christ. I have learnt a lot through my tribulations, and I've come to accept the most important person in my life God Almighty. He is the center of my life and for His purpose I now live my life. And I believe that He will perfect everything that concerns me in His own time. All the advice you gave were very valid. I made the mistake in the past of doing all the things you recommend not to do and I've seen the repercution of it. This site is indeed a right counsel. Thank you for saying yes to Jesus.
Regards
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Dear Vince:
Tue, 5 Nov 2002
Thank you Vince for your speedy reply. I will pray that your service will be a help to others as it was to me. May God continue to bless you with the inspiration to give future spiritual advice.
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Dear Vince:
Wed, 09 Apr 2002
Thank you for the advice. Now that the little argument has blown over, I can see a clearer picture of my actions on that day. I can really see that the
advice you gave was biblical and spiritual. Sometimes when we are angry, we want someone to pat us on the back, and say that we were right and that the
other person was wrong. I guess that is what I was really looking for when I
wrote to you. I do love my husband. I believe with all of my heart that I
have found the one that God intended for me to be with. We have so many
similarities, let alone the fact that we went to kindergarten together, only
to be reunited again at the ages of 18, at a church very far away from the
home town that we grew up in.
I also know that I need serious help. I am at a
"calm" time now, but we go through these phases in our marriage constantly. I
am a time bomb. I don't even know myself when I will explode next. And yet
sometimes I seem completely better... you would never guess that underneath
there were serious things wrong with me. That is scary, and a way that God
did not intend for me to live. I do need the help, and I am serious about
getting it. Right now though, the funds to move forward are not obtainable.
For the moment, I am going to try reading some books from Dr.'s John Townsend
and Henry Cloud- Boundaries in Marriage, and Every Man's Desire. Thanks again for your help. I believe that you are doing a good work. I am sure that you will be rewarded for it.
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Dear Vince:
Mon, 6 Jan 2002
Thank you. I do agree that this is area I might seek further guidance. That said, I will entrust everything to the Lord. I will trust without doubting! Another strong spirited believer has recently given me the same advice you have. I will take that as further confirmation.
Thanks again. It really helped!!!
May God continue to richly bless your ministry.....
John
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Dear Vince:
Fri, 27 Jun 2001
think that was excellent advice:) I think that I do know in my heart that he is not the right one for me, and it's like that is why I am seriously looking for a f/t job right now. I continue to pray EVERY SINGLE DAY AND NIGHT, that God's perfect will be done in my life, and I do not think that God is going to let me down. I also realize that I must do my part also which is why I have for the past 2 months sustained from all sexual activity from him, continue to go to church, fast and pray, stay in the word, and surround myself with Christian friends. Infact, my immediate family (my mom, and sisters) are saved, sanctified and filled. (My mom is filled and my sisters are seeking to be filled). I know I am definitely on my way, and sooner than later, I know that I will be saved as well. When I had that dream, God led me to the scripture Jeremiah 8:20, he led someone else to the scripture Galations 5:1 to give to me, I forgot to mention that part in my forum letter. But your words were very encouraging, and I would love to keep in touch with you if it is o.k. with you.
Thank-you Sincerely,
Des10ey
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Dear Vince:
Fri, 27 Jun 2001
I am writing again to thank you for your words of inspriation. I have forgiven my ex and she is now my present. We are taking things one day at a time and attempting to make all decisions that are pleasing the GOD's eyes. I am happy that we can work things out and come to a mutual understanding. I am extremely happy that we could come together for our child. I love my child's mother, I love my family, and I love my child. I love my family enough to do whatever it takes to make things right. Again, I would like to say thank you for your help.
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Dear Vince:
Mon, 23 Jun 2001
Thank Jesus for you i have gone through this advice and the supply website to visit. It is a great and pleasure to say i leant more and got more to know on this issues.
Well my life is in the hands of God all this places even include other relevant site i have visited said the same thing and God on my side i believe he is still leading till today.
I will heed to your advice and pray more that is just what i need to do now for i have already know what is the meaning and what it meant to say a person is the will of God for once life.
Thanks and God bless you.
Yours
Kemmy
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Dear Vince:
Thu, 19 Jun 2001
I read everything before I started typing & it was great so interesting & very helpful to me. Thank-you & keep up the great work with your website. God bless you in all you do.
Debra
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Dear Vince:
Fri, 7 Mar 2001
I think the advice is good, and I took it. Some of the things you mentioned such as the pastor praying with us and being around Chrisitans that are supportive, and lots of prayer sessions have been taking place. I cannot even to begin to tell you all the answers to prayer, that there have been. There has been some hurt, but also joy, but all in God's will.
Thank you. Marianne
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