The workings of a strong and flawless dream "meditation" will allow you to live a dream through with a person just as you wish it to happen. Done correctly, they will have the same dream as you did - and get the message you are trying to give them. But you must know exactly what you are doing. I will take you through this, step by step.
Decide who your goal is, and be able to visualize then very well: This will be important later on.
Decide what you need to express, and how you will do it:
Now it's time to put these together and begin the meditation. That aside, you are probably eager to know where to begin! It's a good idea to sleep before the hour when you will perform the meditation. Sleep for 4 or 5 hours and set an alarm to waken you at whatever time you chose as ideally, being when the target is asleep. When you are awaken by the alarm at that time, get up and stretch, walk around your room a bit and get a drink if you need to. You shouldn't be unable to get back to sleep, but you should be aware enough that your mind is working. Get comfortable again in bed and lay in your normal sleeping position. From the dream meditation, you should fall asleep. In fact, you should fall asleep during it, believe it or not! Now you must get a perfect, clear visualization of hte person. Use all those characteristics mentioned before to create the person in your mind - posture, looks, clothes, etc.. Now focus on contacting that person. Think of their name over and over again, keeping their image in your mind. Be 'looking' into the eyes of the person in your mind. You will feel it when the contact is picked up - if they are asleep. You will feel a slight surge of energy and a strange sensation, at this point, your minds are hooked up. It's easier to make this connection than it is to maintain it. Here is where you should begin controlling the dream. Focus on creating the scene and begin "playing it out" as you had imagined earlier. Make sure you are clear about your message. Listen to what the other person says. Don't let your mind wander away!! You will fall asleep quite naturally from this point onward. Surprisingly - the dream will not end here. Chances are however, you will both "go your seperate ways" as your psyches drop connections. Once you are in the REM (rapid eye movement) state of sleep, you will be so out of it that uless you dream lucidly, you will not have control over anything following that point. The same willbe happening on the other persons side.
Afterward: Did it work??
The message is within their subconscious. You'll notice immediately that the next time you see this person or are in contact with them, they will indeed act different towards you. Depending on what you made them dream about you, their attitude will definately take on a different light based on their reaction to the dream. And the more of it thye consciously recall, the stronger their reaction to seeing you will be. Make eye contact and this will help it to surface. If you need to clarify the message or strengthen it, I encourage you to perform a new meditation or ritual regularly on the person. You can change the way you present your message (scenery, objects, emotions, colors....). The more you perform it, the more likely it is that you will get through to them. They'll begin to remember more and more of the dream.
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