Adoption
Having loving and devoted parents are a reality for many children.
However, there are “500,000 children in America foster care system who do
not have that advantage” (Adoption Law Reform, 1997). Many children are
disadvantaged because their parents couldn’t cope with life’s misfortunes.
Other children are disadvantaged because their parents died. Then, there are
the many children who are disadvantaged because their parents were abusive
or neglective ( Adoption Law Reform, 1997).
For years, among the child welfare professionals, has been the idea of
“family preservation” in which strong efforts should be made to repair broken
families before a child is put up for adoption. Unfortunately, some families
cannot be repaired. Therefore, emphasis on family preservation can mean
sending kids back home to more abuse and even death. Emphasis on family
preservation can also delay the children to be placed in safe and permanent
homes. Because the early childhood years are precious and significant to the
the development of a child, delay can be destructive (Adoption Law Reform,
1997).
In 1997, President Clinton signed a “bipartism bill reforming the nation’s
adoption laws” (Adoption Law Reform, 1997). This bill makes it easier for
foster children to find permanent homes. The new bill keeps in mind the
concept of family preservation, but it is emphasized in favor of the children.
Clinton said, “The new legislation makes it clear that children’s health and
safety are the paramount concerns of our public child welfare system”
(Adoption Law Reform, 1997). Instead of the current 18 months, the law
hopes to increase adoption through requiring the states to have hearings
within 12 months of removal of the child from the family (Adoption Law
Reform, 1997).
In cases where kids were tortured, abandoned, or repeatedly abused,
“reasonable efforts” to return a child to the birth parents will no longer apply.
The bill also pushes a concept called “concurrent planning” (Adoption Law
Reform, 1997). Often, child welfare agencies will wait to see if efforts to
reunite the family is successful before searching for an adoptive family. Now
the agencies will do both during the same time. Therefore, if family
preservation is not successful a new family may be waiting to accept the
child.
The bill passed by Clinton certainly has it’s advantages. It puts the
children first, taking them out of disastorus situations as soon as possible.
Requiring the states to have hearings within 12 months rather than 18 months
can certainly speed up the process of placing a child in a permanent home.
However, in looking at the flip side of this, one might discover that applying
little emphasis on family preservation can also have enduring affects on the
child. Taking a child away from the birth parents, , the only family they may
have ever known may lead the child into more depression and isolation. This
detachment may have serious cognitive affects on the child.
From my own experience, I can say that growing up in a dysfunctional
family of alcoholism and neglect has been one hell of an obstacle. I am aware
that my parents did the best they could with what they knew. That enables
me to forgive easily. Growing up in that type of situation has affected me
mentally and emotionally. I have endured the pain of being neglected of the
simple things in life such as affection, compassion, and deep understanding
from my parents. However, I am one of the more fortunate ones because I
have broken the cycle of dysfunction in my family. I have been in counseling
for years, I also attend support groups weekly for addictions. My 12 year old
son goes to counseling as well. My whole life has changed because I learned
a new way. As a child I knew no other way than what my parents taught me.
I have become a stronger person because of the misfortunes I have endured.
However, it was a painful and lonely journey. Therefore, I am for the
children. If these disadvantaged families can seek the necessary therapy to
rebuild a new way of life, I say let the child stay with the birth parents. On
the other hand, if the efforts to rebuild the family are not successful and
progressive, I say put the child in a permanent home where they can become
stable and get their needs sufficiently met physically, mentally, emotionally,
and spiritually. Adjusting to a new family can be tough on a child but in the
long run the rewads are well worth it!
In closing, many children in American foster care do not have the
advantages of a loving, nurturing family. The bipartism bill passed by Clinton
makes it easier for a child to find a permanent home. The bill keeps in mind
family preservation but favors the child. The concept of concurrent planning
enables the agencies to make efforts to reunite the family while searching for
an adoptive family. Therefore, if efforts to reunite the family fail there will be
a new family waiting to take in the child.
The Washington Post. (1997) Adoption Law Reform . Retrieved December
1, 1997 from the World Wide Web:
http://search.washingtonpost.com/wp-src/WPlate/1997-11/20/0061
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