| 6.21.2001 (Thur) Sunny and hot Bubble Friendship 24 hours a day is obviously not enough for me. I sometimes ask myself how many hours should be in 1 day? hmm..amm..ah... 36? maybe 50 hours.. yes 50 hours a day. Save sleeping, working, eating, bathing, houseworking, entertaining, I don't really have much time to KIT with my friends. KIT = Keep In Touch. 2 years ago, before I moved to Canada, I started to learn to use internet, I started to make friends on the internet. It feels pretty weird. 30 some years ago, people made friends through letters, and we called them "Pen Friends". Then 10 some years ago, people made friends through telephone, and I think that's called "Lines Friends".. Remember that 173-173-173 hot lines? Now, we have Icq, Yahoo Messenger, MSN, Emails..etc. The more technology I have, the less contacts I make with friends, my real friends. Time runs fast, things change even faster. Yes, internet has brough me a lot of friends, but they are just bubble friends, not longlasting. Good or bad, nice or mad, asking for a chat or asking for sex. I've met some very cool people (@ least I think they are Kool) which I think I will never meet in real life. I once had a friend who works as a prostitute. I always nag him to quit his job, and then finally, he didn't get online anymore..I think I am just too mommy.. And then I met a bi-guy. Seriously, I like to talk to him, he didn't (even try) to cyber me. (do I need to sob? j/k) We just had clean chat, and he told me the diff. between a bi and a gay. And I told him what I though about gay, les, and bi. It's true that I've met some strange people, but most of them are nice people. If I didn't learn to use internet, If I didn't chat on the net, if I didn't move to canada, and if I still worked in the hotel, I wouldn't have had so many friends all over the world. Anyway, I must be sleepy now.. I started to run away from my topic. I can honestly tell you that in my contact list, girls: boys = 1: 9 that means if there are 10 people in my list. 9 of them would be boys and only 1 of them is girl. I don't mind to talk to girls, but girls mind to talk to me. Karen, a close friend I met through the net, is an exception. I like Karen too. She is the only lady who I've been talking with for more than 2 years. How many Karens in the world? That's strange..really strange...Karen, Chris and Joe are my very good friends. They will always be on my list coz I know I will not delete their names. How long is the longest friendship you've ever had through the net? 2 years...mine is 2 years. Karen, Chris, and Joe. Sham used to always be on my list, but I delete his name a few months ago coz he didn't talk to me for so long. Yes, be careful, if you don't talk to me for more than 2 months, I'll kick you out of my friendship ring. Don't wanna see a person gets on and off and doesn't talk to me....I feel jealous when I thought of you're actually talking to someone else.... :) ..j/k. who cares? Anyway, even I deleted his name, I'll never forget him, and also the good time we had. QUESTION: Can you tell me what is the longest distance you know? in the world? Is it from Canada to India? from north pole to south pole ? from the sun to Pluto? NO.. The longest distance in the world is I am standing in front of you, and you don't know I love you. The longest distance in the world is I am talking to you loudly, but you don't hear me. The longest distance in the world is I am sitting next to you, and I seems like invisible to you. We both online, but we never say hi. got it? Posted by Helen Kwong @2:33 BACK |