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RISK-TAKERS AREN'T NECESSARILY WEIRD, THEIR BRAINS ARE JUST WIRED DIFFERENTLY
by Cathryn Creno/The Arizona Republic

Psychologists traditionally have assumed there is something wrong with thrill seekers.

Sigmund Freud and the followers of his psychoanalytic theory believed healthy human beings strive to reduce tension in their lives, concluding that people who go out of their way to find excitement do so to mask insecurities.

But more recent psychological research suggests the brains of people who love to scale cliffs, parachute out of airplanes and scuba dive with sharks are not unhealthy. They are simply wired differently from those of people who prefer calmer entertainment.

Psychologist Michael J. Apter, author of "The Dangerous Edge: The Psychology of Excitement" (Free Press; 1992), believes thrill-seekers may be the descendants of adventurous hunter-gatherers.

Such people would have been invaluable in primitive societies, which needed adventurers to hunt and kill big game, test new watering holes, cross dangerous rivers and taste strange plants.

Other psychologists say that while everyone needs a thrill now and then to stay mentally alert and creative, some personality types require more thrills than average.

University of Delaware psychologist Marvin Zuckerman has identified a type of person he call the "high-sensation seeker." These people tend to like heavy-metal music, horror movies, gambling high-risk sports, cocaine and relationships with other adventurers.

Zuckerman found that the brains of most of the high-sensation seekers he has studied have low levels of an enzyme called monoamine oxidase (MAO), which regulates feelings of arousal and pleasure. So they may need more excitement and stimulation just to feel normal.

Meanwhile, Frank Farley, a University of Wisconsin psychologist and past president of the American Psychological Association, has been studying people he terms Type T's - thrill-seekers.

Type T's fall into four categories: T-mental and T-physical, to distinguish between those who take mental risks and those who take physical risks and T-positive and T-negative, to distinguish between those who take smart risks and those who take dumb ones.

Pioneers and social activists - such as America's founding fathers and the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr.-could probably be categorized as T-mentals and T-positives.

Farley says it is important for 'I'ype T's to recognize they need more excitement than the average person and select jobs accordingly. Type T's excel in police work, jobs in emergency rooms and in other careers in which they won't know from one day to the next what they will be doing.

University of California-Davis psychologist Salvadore Maddi thinks many thrill-seekers simply lack the capacity to enjoy everyday life, so they get involved with drugs, crime and gangs, quitting boring but lucrative jobs to have more time for hang gliding.

Apter and Farley are more optimistic about the potential of Type T's.

Both say it is possible to divert adventurousness into socially acceptable activities. And it helps if parents guide their thrill-seeking kids into challenging sports and hobbies.

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Speaking Of: Human Behavior

NICE GUYS MAY FINISH FIRST AFTER ALL
Knight-Ridder Newspapers

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New studies are finding that teamwork and empathy may aid
survival more than selfishness -- in animals and humans.
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Scientists are beginning to question the idea that nice guys are doomed to finish last.

For many years, biologists and anthropologists have regarded human beings as basically selfish creatures, driven by their genes to compete aggressively for property, sex and power.

In the last century, Charles Darwin described life as a tooth-and-claw struggle for "the survival of the fittest. Even now, anthropologist Colin Trumbull dismisses morality as "a luxury that we find convenient and agreeable and that has become conventional when we can afford it."

But recent studies of chimpanzees and other higher animals show that unselfish, cooperative behavior goes way back in evolutionary history. Mother Nature apparently taught "family values" long before men and apes went their separate ways 6 million years ago.

This school of researchers contends that sharing, earing and peacemaking can contribute to the survival of a species, because creatures that get along with each other are more likely to reproduce. Frans de Waal, a zoologist who has studied chimpanzee behavior at the Yerkes Primate Research Center in Atlanta for 10 years, disputes the traditional notion that people and other animals are hopelessly self-centered.

Instead, humans and highex mammals are biologically "endowed with a capacity for genuine love, sympathy and care," he writes in his new book, "Good Natured: the Origins of Right and Wrong in Humans and Other Animals," published by Harvard University Press.

For example, de Waal notes, whales and dolphins come to the rescue of injured companions. Elephants mourn their dead. Horses form protective ring against attacking wolves.

"Aiding others at a cost or risk to oneself is widespread in the animal world," says de Waal. "No doubt these capacities evolved because they served a purpose in the lives of our ancestors."

Carter, de Waal and others trace the origin of unselfish conduct to the maternal instinct that developed in mammals since they appeared on Earth 65 million years ago.

Unlike female turtles, for example, which lay their eggs and waddle away, mammalian mothers stick around to nurse their offspring until they are old enough to face life on their own.

"Mother-infant attachment bonds provide the foundation for all subsequent social relationships," says Jaak Panksepp, a psychol- ogist at Bowling Green State University in Ohio.

Starting with a mother's care for her babies, the pattern of unselfish behavior spread out in widening circles to enfold other close relatives, then the clan, tribe or nation, and eventually the entire species, these scientists say.

Both sexes nave a social sense, but get there by different routes. Carol Gilligan, a feminist psychologist, claims that females morality is rooted in "attachment, intimacy and responsibility for others," while males are genetically oriented to "rights, rules and authority."

Panksepp of Bowling Green says recent research on animal brains has revealed biochemical systems that underlie human bonding and friendships. When these systems malfunction, the result may be an autistic child, a deeply depressed widow or "the despair of everyday loneliness," he says.

"It should not surprise us to find animal parallels," de Waal says. "The human brain is a product of evolution. Altruism is not limited to our species."

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Found in the Colorado Springs Gazette Telegraph

NOW MEN HAVE AN EXCUSE FOR ALL THE STUPID THINGS THEY DO
by Dave Barry

I am feeling great, and I will tell you why. It's because of this article I read recently that said ... um ... it said ... OK, wait just a minute while I get out this article ...

OK, here it is: According to this article, researchers at the University of Pennsylvania did a study showing that, as males - but NOT females - get older, their brains shrink. Was I ever relieved to read that! I thought it was just me!

Here's something I regularly do: I'm walking through an airport, and I see a newsstand, and I think: "Huh! A newsstand! I can get a newspaper there, and perhaps some magazines! I can read them on the airplane, and use the information in them to write informed columns!"

So I carefully select some newspapers and magazines; then I put them on the counter; then I get out my wallet and pay for them; then I carefully put the receipt into my wallet so that I can deduct this purchase for tax purposes; then I go get on the airplane.

OK, here's a pop quiz: What will I discover when I get on the airplane? You older, shrinking-brain males probably have no idea. You're saying to yourselves: "WHAT airplane?"

But you female readers, and you younger males, know the answer: I will discover that I left my magazines and newspapers back on the newsstand counter. I cannot tell you how many times I have done this. (Note to Internal Revenue Service: The reason I still deduct these purchases on my tax return is that I am writing about them here.) I could save time if, when striding through the airport, I simply flung money in the general direction of the newsstand.

Here's another thing I do: I routinely go to the cleaners for the specific purpose of picking up my shirts, pay for shirts, then attempt to walk out without my shirts, as though I were just visiting them.

Also: Many times I am looking ALL OVER for my reading glasses - looking, looking, looking, looking - and then walk past a mirror and notice that they are perched on my head. "Ha ha!" they gaily shout to me, their lenses twinklong "You cretin!"

Also: I have always been terrible remembering people's names, but now forget names lNSTANTANEOUSLY, before they have gotten all the way through my ear canal. If somebody introduces himself to me at a social event, it sounds as though he's saying: Hi, I'm Blah."

"I'm sorry," I'll say. "What was your name again?"

"Blah," he'll say."

"Ah!" I'll say, smiling brightly while hoping that a meteor will crash into the building before I have to introduce him to someone else.

Here's another symptom: I currently own four - that is correct: four - identical, unused tubes of toothpaste, because every time I'm in a drugstore and walk past the toothpaste section, my brain, which by now must be about the size of a Raisinet, racks its tiny shriveled self in an effort to remember whether I have any toothpaste, and it can never come up with a definitive answer, so it always decides: Better safe than sorry!

Anyway, t was very relieved to find out that this was not just my personal problern, but a problem afflicting the brains of males in general, although, as a frequent flier, I hope it doesn't extend to male airplane pilots ("Ladies and gentlemen, we are approaching either Pittsburgh or Honolulu.")

The University of Pennsylvania study (Note to older males: I am referring here to a study showing that, as males get older, their brains shrink) also showed that we older males tend to lose our sense of humor. This is definitely true in my case. I was just talking to my oldest friend, whose name is ... Excuse me while I look up his name ... OK, here it is: I was talking to my oldest friend, Joe DiGiacinto, and we were remarking on the fact that when we were teen-age males roaming uncontrolled around Armonk, N.Y., we thought that the most hilarious imaginable human activity was the wanton destruction of mailboxes; whereas we now both firmly believe that this should be a federal crime punishable by death.

So my overall point is that the brain-shrinkage study makes me feel a lot better, because now I know that I'm not getting stupid alone; that billions of guys are getting stupid with me, as evidenced by:

* Golf
* Comb-overs
* The U.S. Senate
* Marlon Brando

Here's what I think: I think Older Male Brain Shrinkage (OMBS) should be recognized as a disability by the federal government. At the very least, we should have a law requiring everybody to wear a name tag ("HELLO! MY NAME IS BLAH"). Older males would be exempt from this requirement, because they wouldn't be able to find their tags. I have many other strong views on this subject, but I can't remember what they are.

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Dave Barry is a humor columnist for the Miami Herald.

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From BusinessWeek

WEDLOCK'S EARLY HEALTH BONUS
Men's risks of dying fall right away

While it has long been known that married people live longer than single people, a recent Rand Corp. study by Lee A. Lillard and Linda J. Waite finds that the health gains differ over time for men and women.

Right after a wedding, the risk of dying drops substantially for men but not for women. But over a long marriage, the gain for wives (relative to single women) is larger, so that they benefit about as much as their husbands. The authors think that men's health improves immediately because marriage tempers risky behavior such as poor eating habits and overdrinking and enhances their social network. Significantly, the risk of dying falls sharply even for newly married low-income men.

Among married women, by contrast, the risk of dying over the long run does not decline unless marriage is accompanied by rising incomes. The authors conclude that while marriage promotes longevity for both men and women via improved financial resources that provide greater access to health care, better nutrition, and other benefits, the income effect is especially important for women.

What happens after a divorce or the death of a spouse? As the chart shows, the subsequent mortality rates of divorced men and women revert to the higher levels of those who stayed single. Unlike widowed men who have trouble surviving alone, however, widowed women fare almost as well as their still-married counterparts - perhaps in part because they usually wind up with the full assets accumulated during their marriages.

How marriage helps longevity

Chance of dying at age 65:
Divorced or never married* > Men 5% > Women 2.2%
Widowed* >>>>>>>>>>>>> Men 4% > Women 1.2%
Married >>>>>>>>>>>>>> Men 1.5% > Women 0.8%

* Assumes divorce or death of spouse 12 years earlier

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Found in the Colorado Springs Gazette Telegraph

MORE WOMEN PACKING HEAT COULD REDUCE CRIME
Focus: Women and Guns
Mike Royko

One of the livelier debates on guns has recently been touched off by Laura Ingraham, a Washington lawyer and conservative essayist.

Writing in The Wall Street Journal, Ingraham expressed happi- ness that women are the fastest growing segment of the gun-buying public. She sneered at feminist groups that hold workshops about how rape is really about dominance, not sex, and suggested that bullets are far more effective than workshops. [ You betchum!]

"If feminists are serious about ending what they see as the subjugation of women," she wrote, they will shelve their political agendas long enough to recognize that women who choose to become responsible gun owners are, in their own way, feminist trailblazers."

This brought immediate ridicule from anti-gun advocates. One woman hooted: "Yahoo! I am a woman, I am free! Free to shoot just like the boys. What empowerment, what exultation, oh joy, oh rapture. By God, is this a great country or what?"

A man wrote: Rather than saying something serious about crirne prevention, this sounds like the Freemen's version of a Victoria's Secret catalog. Ms. Ingraham ignores the fact that a lot more men are starting to pack heat, too, and many of them are the kind she'd never want to meet in a dark alley behind NRA headquarters - even after she's armed herself to the teeth, and thighs."

Another woman wrote: "Women interested in fighting violent crime against women have to arm themselves, all right. Not with bullets, with self-esteem.... This is domestic crime. In the home. By someone you know or love."

At one time, my left knee might have jerked and I would have agreed with the dissenters. That was when I thought that reasonable gun control laws would reduce violent crime. But I've since noticed something that should be fairly obvious. With all the gun laws we have, the bad guys still have guns and use them to shoot the good guys. [ABSOLUTELY!!]

Does that mean that the solution is for the good guys to all start packing guns? Probably not, because most people have no need to carry a gun, and don't want to. If everyone carried a gun, I'm sure crime would be reduced. We'd also have a huge increase in people shooting off their own toes.

But women and guns? I agree with Ingraham. If every woman in every high-crime community in America had a gun in her purse or strapped to her thigh, we would have a safer more courteous society.

Let us look at the obvious. Women are physically weaker. They are less violent, less boastful, less inclined toward proving they have a large whatsis by beating up on someone smaller.

If you go into a tavern, who is sitting there scowling and looking to pick a fight? What kind of people jump out of cars and beat each other with tire irons over a traffic insult? Who gets in brawls in the bleachers of ballparks? Who riots over a sports trophy? Who finds recreational pleasure in shooting Bambi?

Women? Of course not. While we men have our good qualities, we're responsible for most of the violence and boorish behavior in our society.

So if we're going to trust anyone to pack heaters, it should be women, who have proven themselves less likely to do something goofy, and who have a greater need to defend themselves.

Yes, they do have this need for defense. Imagine, if you will, that men were society's prime rape targets. Imagine a society in which a small and mild-mannered man could not get off a bus at night and walk down a dark city street toward his home without fearing that he would encounter a large hulk with a knife who would demand the privilege of engaging in what used to be called buggery.

Well, I'll tell you what the result would be. Men would not ask for workshops and self-esteem counseling or wear rape-whistles around their necks. They would demand the right to protect themselves, politicians would promptly respond, and it would soon be legal to pack a mini-cannon in our belts.

Consider the silliness of one of the women who criticized Ingraham's views:

"Only a small percentage of violent crimes against women are committed by strangers."

Maybe. But more than half the people in our society - about 140 million - are females. So what is a small percentage? One percent? That's still 1.4 million. Percentages are piffle.

To a woman who awakens to see a stranger crawling through her window and heading toward her bed, he is not a small percentage. He is a 100 percent fiend.

But if she had a pistol under her pillow and knew how to use it, she could make him a 100 percent corpse.

And the world would be a far better place.

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(Royko is a columnist for the Chicago Tribune.)


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