Women Have no Difficulty
Finding Wrestling Partners
by Shiva Mon Jan 26 10:35:08 1998 revised 22 Feb 1998
In your introduction to Wrestling Fun you wrote
"...but regretfully I eventually discovered that although many men seek women who will wrestle them there are very few women who get enjoyment from this activity."
"I have yet to discover an academic reason why evolution has produced this asymmetrical result."
Evolution has not produced an asymmetrical result. What you have discovered is not that there are a lot more men who enjoy wrestling women than women who enjoy wrestling men; you have discovered that women have no difficulty finding partners and thus have no need to respond to ads aimed at finding them.
My net name is Shiva and by bloodline I am a "War Priest" of the Woodlands Nations of North America. Due to socially influenced evolution almost all women near akin to me enjoy wrestling EITHER men or women and the drive is sexual in content. I will avoid going into a long diatribe about that as it would serve no purpose here.
Any time you attempt to find women who like to wrestle men you are running up against several obstacles, one of which even makes it hard to "find" men who like to wrestle women. (Due to my own background and sexual preferences and due to the fact my religious obligations required me to study "abnormal" psychology with some intensity while in college, I had opportunity to focus on my own sexual drives and their apparent disparity with the majority of Caucasian women.)
1. The drive to wrestle, among adults and even among adolescents, is a very closeted thing. Men who want to wrestle women (especially those who want to lose) consider themselves, by and large, abnormal. They expect others (indeed they are correct) to think there is something perverted or "weird" about them so they hide this desire. It is easier to get a gay man to come out of the closet than it is to get a man to calmly announce to his buddies at the corner pub that what he REALLY wants to do with that beautiful blond shooting billiards is wrestle.
2. Women who want to wrestle men, except for those who are NOT sexually driven to it but want to do it for practice because they are into ser he social level, women simply have an advantage in the "hunt." They are, after all, seeking while driven to aggression. Men whoseek a woman to wrestle with them dare not be aggressive about it. A woman can go out to the appropriate type of club for the hunt, let a man think he is picking her up and if all else goes well get a little "aggressive" and very quickly discover if he is amenable to her behaviour. If he isn't she can get picked up by somebody else the next night. ;)
In case you are wondering which of the categories (a, b or c) I fall into: all three.