A SOFFA is defined as a Significant Other, Friend, Family, or Ally of a
transsexual, transgender, intersex or other gender-variant person.
| E-Mail Support Groups | |
| Transmen | A support list for transmen/FTMs and the SO's that love them. |
| NyteCafe | A support list for straight (heterosexual) identified wives/lovers/girlfriends of FTMs |
| FTMSO List | A support list for the SO's of FTMs (open to all orientations) |
| Wives/SO List | A women only list for the wives and SOs of crossdressers |
| TGSO1 | This list is for female partners of MtF transgendered folk (including, but not limited to, crossdressers, pre-op transsexuals, post-op transsexuals, non-op transsexuals and transvestites) |
| TGpartners | This list is a loving place for genetic women to discuss the issues and joys of being with a partner who is (FTM or MTF) transgendered |
