| THE VOICE OF A WOMAN IN ISLAM |
| Many Muslims have adopted the Judeo-Christian ethic
which views women as the source of human tragedy because of her alleged
biblical role as the temptress who seduced Adam into disobedience to his
Lord. By tempting her husband to eat the forbidden fruit, she not
only defied Allah, but caused humankind's expulsion from Paradise, thus
instigating all temporal human suffering. Those misogynists who support
this Biblical myth, dredge from the archives of psuedo-Islamic
literature such as false and weak hadiths. This Old Testament myth is a widely circulated belief in the Islamic
community despite the fact that Allah in the Qur'an stresses that it was
Adam who was solely responsible for his mistake. In 20:115 it is stated:
"We had already, beforehand, taken the convenant of Adam, but he forgot;
and we found on his part no firm resolve." Verse 20:121-122 continues:
"In result, they both ate of the tree...thus did Adam disobey His Lord,
and fell into error. But his Lord chose for him (From His Grace):
He turned to him, and gave him guidance." Therefore,
there is nothing in Islamic doctrine or in the Qur'an which holds women
responsible for Adam's expulsion from paradise or the consequent misery
of humankind. However, misogyny abounds in the pronouncements
of many
The result of such misinterpretation of hadiths and spreading negativity
is that entire societies have mistreated their female members despite the
fact that Islam has honored and empowered the woman in all spheres of life.
The woman in Islamic law is equal to her male counterpart. She is
as
The promotion of such negativity against women has led many "scholars"
and "imams" to make the unsubstantiated ruling about female speech.
They claim that women should lower their voice to whispers or even silence
except when she speaks to her husband, her guardian or other females.
The female act of communication has become to some a source of temptation
and allurement to the male. The Qur'an, however, specifically mentions
that those seeking information from the Prophet's wives were to address
them from behind a screen (33:53). Since questions require an answer, the
Mothers of the Believers offered fatwas to those who asked and narrated
hadiths to whomever wished to transmit them. Furthermore, women were
accustomed to question the Prophet (SAW) while men were present.
Neither were they embarassed to have their voices heard nor did the Prophet
prevent their inquires. Even in the case of Omar when he was challenged
by a woman during his khutba on the minbar, he did not deny her.
Rather, he admitted that she was right and he
Another Qur'anic example of a woman speaking publicly is that the daughter
of the Shaykh mentioned in the Qur'an in 28:23. Furthermore, the Qur'an
narrates the coversation between
Thus, the only prohibition is the female talking softly and flirting in a manner meant to excite and tempt the male. This is expressed in the Qur'an as complacent speech which Allah mentions in 33:32: "O consorts of the Prophet! Ye are not like any of the other women: If ye do fear Allah, be not too complaisance of speech, lest one in whose heart is a disease should be moved with desire: but speak ye a speech that is just." What is prohibited then is alluring speech which entices those whose
diseased hearts may be moved with desire and that is not to say that all
conversation with women is prohibited for Allah completes the verse: "...but
speak ye a speech that is just." (33:32)
And Allah says: "And We test you by evil and by good way of trial." (21:35). To support this argument Allah says in the Qur'an that two of the most appreciated blessings of life, wealth and children, are trials. Allah says: "And know ye that your posessions and your progeny are but a trial." (Anfal 28) A woman, despite the blessings she bestows on her relations, can also be a trial for she may distract a man from his duty toward Allah. Thus, Allah creates awareness how blessings can be misguided so that they become curses. Men can use their spouses as an excuse for not performing jihad or for eschewing sacrafice for the compiling of wealth. Allah in the Qur'an warns: "Truly among your wives and children are enemies for you." (64:14) The warning is the same as for the blessings of abundant welath and
offspring (63:9). In addition, the sahih hadith says: "By Allah I don't
fear for you poverty, but I fear that the world would be abundant for you
as it has been for those before you so you compete for it as they have
competed for it, so it destroys you as it has destroyed them." (Agreed
upon) This hadith does not mean that the Prophet (SAW) encouraged poverty.
Dr. Yusuf al-Qaradawi
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