Question: How can a householder do spiritual practises and enhance his/her love for God?

Swamiji answering the question narrated a meaningful incidence:

Incidence: "There was a devotee named Gyana Chanda. He used to be immersed in devotion for God always. He had a routine of practising meditation, singing devotional songs and worshipping God every morning. There after he used to go to his shop to work. He used to close his shop at lunch time in the afternoon and did not open the shop after that. He used to devote rest of the time in feeding the saints, serving the poor, listening discourses of saints and in donating whatever he could for good of others. He used to be satisfied with whatever he earned from his business and used to devote his life for love of God. Such behaviour of his used to surprise others and they thought of him as a lunatic. People used to say:

'He is foolish. He spends all his earned money in donations. He opens his shop just for a few hours. He wastes the precious morning time meant for earning money in doing worship. He is mad.'

Once the rishest businessman of the village called him over to his house. He had made a red colored hat. The rich man gave that hat to Gyana Chanda and said:

'This hat is for fools. I have not seen a person more foolish than you so I'm giving this hat to you for wearing. If you find anybody more stupid than you, then you may give this hat to that person.'

Peacefully, Gyana Chanda took that hat and came back home. Once that rich man became very sick. Gyana Chanda went to meet him and asked about his health. The rich man said:

'Brother! I'm making preparations to go now.'

Gyana Chanda asked: 'Where are you planning to go? Did you send somebody there to make preparations for your arrival or not? Are you taking your wife, son, money, car, bungalow etc or not?'

'Brother! Who can accompany me there? No body can go with me. I will have to go alone. I'll have to leave my family-relatives, money-bank balances, bunalows-vehicles here. Nothing can stay together other than Soul & God (Atman-Parmatman).'

After listening to the rich person's words Gyana chanda giving the hat (which had been given to him by the rich man) to the rich man said:

'You only wear this hat.'

The rich person: 'Why?'

Gyana Chanda: 'You are more foolish than me. When you knew that every thing -bungalows, bank balances, family etc will stay here, none of your friends will accompany you, there is no true hope other than God, then why did you waste whole of your life in acquiring all these things?

When one is rich and powerful then everybody flocks around for selfish reasons. But nobody comes to help at times of trouble. Even after knowing all this you developed attachment for things which will not stay forever, stayed away from God and did not collect anything for your future. Therefore in these circumstances who is more foolish than you?

Now you cannot do anything. You yourself are observing that none of your loved ones is coming for help.'

Are they not the king of all fools who know the truth and still remain entangled in the material world and stay away from God? While keeping attachment towards worldly objects and relations, if time would have been devoted towards remembering God, repeating the name of God, meditation, staying in the company of the great saints and donating for good, then there would have been no reason for repenting and feeling sad."