I really don't
think the to many people are aware that in the Middle East, they prefer
the larger women,
over the more
petite. Yes I do admit, the slimmer ladies are a lot better "Eye Candy"
for the men.
But........
hehehehehehe ...... We big girls have
a secret......
Please
read the information below these pics.
This
is "Oberon"...............
This is "Shoshana".......
This is me.........I
go by "Sandi"
In
apprecation of ladies...
As my instructor
Yasamina say's:
"Ladies.. if you
have the hips,(((( SHAKE'M!!!)))
and for you ladies
who don't have the hips.....
Don't worry girls,
we'll pad you up!....."
What is Belly Dancing?
In explaining what Belly dancing is, it's origins and background, I have found that the most effective way is to explode some of the more 'popular' myths which surround it.
Myth
No. 1 - It's title
The
word "belly dance" was never invented in the Arabic world. The correct
title for this form of dance is Raksharki, which also refers to a particular
type of music, i.e. the music danced to. How did the name come about then?
During the 19th century an Egyptian dancer was engaged to perform at a
trade exhibition in Parish. She was billed as Little Egypt! When
asked what her style of dance was called, "Little Egypt" replied "Baladi"
(pronounced Bal-i-dee). The name was mistranslated as belly dance and has
been used ever since.
Myth
No. 2 - Belly dance is simply sexual titillation devised to entertainment.
Belly
dance was developed by women for women, and even today there are many Muslim
women who will never perform in front of men. Why do they do it
then? Dance is a celebration of life to music and rhythm. When women come
together to belly dance they are celebrating the life in themselves and
all about them. If all you see is wiggles, wobbles and the dancer's bust
being stuck under your nose provocatively, then you are definitely not
seeing good belly dance. Belly dance is erotic.
It is
sensual. It is above all extremely graceful and when done well is the most
beautiful form of dance to watch. It is very hypnotic and should remind
you of a snake, whose movement the dancer is imitating. The symbol of the
snake is central to belly dance. In the eastern world it represents power
and wisdom.
Myth
No. 3 Belly dancers are always petite and busty.
Belly
dancers vary in size and shape from country to country and age to age,
as do all women. I myself am a larger framed female, and Turkey has
a very large number of slim dancers, as well as large dancers. In
Saudi Arabia, they prefer the larger ladies over the more petite ladies.
They beleive they are a representation of the "healthy, voluptious, and
fertile woman" and is simply that it is fashionable to be that way. In
some countries big is beautiful. I know of many large Egyptian and
American dancers who are incredibly light on their feet and have the beautiful
arm and head movements. Their size does not detract from their performance.
The beauty of Belly dance is that women of any size and shape can learn
it. Belly dance has the distinction of being one of the safest forms of
exercise available, particularly for women with back problems. To succeed
with Belly dance a woman must be comfortable in her own body regardless
of it's size or shape. She must, above all, be comfortable with her femininity,
for belly dance is in essence a feminine art.
Myth
No. 4 - Belly dancers are always scantily clad.
The
dress code varies from country to country. In Egypt, a dancer performing
Baladi will be fully covered, wearing a Baladi dress which is usually ankle
length. When dancing classical, however, she will be bare in the middle
and will use a veil, the type of costume worn being determined by the music.
It can also be misunderstood by those who are purely sexist. "Belly dancers"
practice an art from. If a Belly Dancer exhibits sexual enticements in
a public performance, they are not considered a "true" Belly dancer. But
what you do in the privacy of your own environment, is completely up to
you. Instructors will tell you, that if you are heard of performing "disrobement"
in public while belly dancing, they will not allow you to return to their
classes, and will deny having you as a student.
Last, but not least, is the fun element. Belly dance is great fun. It is glamorous and exciting and best of all, extremely rewarding.