Name: |
Adrienne |
Country: |
United States |
State: |
Tennessee |
Age: |
19 |
Your Birthday: |
April 2, 1981 |
Special Talents: |
none really |
Hobbies: |
reading, messing around with the computer
and playing with Kyle |
Where do you work? |
I am a SAHM at the moment |
Were you working when you became pregnant?
If yes, doing what? |
Manager at McDonald's |
Are you in school? |
no |
If you've graduated, what is your degree? |
high school diploma |
How old were you when you had your first
child? |
18 |
Did you keep? abort? give up for adoption?: |
I kept him |
Was it the first time you had sex? |
no |
Were you and the father a couple? |
yes |
Are you still together? |
not right now, but I'm working on it |
If you're not together, is the father involved?
How is he involved? |
kind of, he doesn't see much of Kyle because
he works so much |
Were you using protection against pregnancy?
If yes, what kind? |
no :( |
If not, was it because you were trying
to get pregnant? Please explain: |
no, I was waiting till I turned 18 to get
myself on birth control because I didn't want my mom to have
to come with me. I got pregnant right before I had the chance
to start taking them. |
Did you know how you would support the
baby? Support yourself? |
we were both working and were going to
do the best we could |
Were you using protection against STDs? |
no, but we both lost our virginity to each
other so ther was no chance other either of us having one |
How many children do you have? |
one |
What are their names, ages, birthdays? |
Kyle Alexander Fisher born December 1,
1999(almost 7 months old) |
Was the pregnancy emotionally difficult? |
VERY because his father broke up with me
when I was 5 months pregnant |
Was the pregnancy physically difficult?
i.e. were there any medical problems? |
I was very sick for the first 3 months
and then had constant dizziness throughout the pregnancy. I ended
up with toxemia at the end. |
What was/is the most difficult experience
as a young mother? |
Being alone and not having anyone to talk
to. |
Was your family helpful/supportive? |
yes |
Did you stay at home with your parents? |
I lived with my boyfriend for the first
5 months and then after we broke up I moved back in with my mom. |
Did your family help support you? The baby?
Emotionally, financially, or both? |
my mom supported me both ways. |
Do they support you now? Emotionally, financially,
or both? |
both |
Did/do you need public assistance? How
did/does that make you feel? |
yes I do need it, but I don't want it.
I hate needing someone elses help. |
Was the father's family involved with the
pregnancy? Emotionally, financially, or both? |
no, I didn't want them to be |
Did the father's family help support you?
Emotionally, financially, or both? |
no |
Does the child have a relationship with
the paternal Grandparents? |
a very close relationship with my mom and
he sees his other grandma every now and then |
Do you feel accepted by people your age? |
yes, but I feel a little different because
I can't really talk to them about what I'm gioing through. |
Do you feel like you have it harder than
people your own age without children? |
definitely! I NEVER go out at all. |
Are you happy with the decisions you have
made? (Be honest. . .it's ok to feel bad, we all do sometimes) |
I love my son with all my heart and it
is totally amazing to feel this way. If I had it all to do over
again though, I would have gotten on birth control sooner because
I was not ready to have a child yet. I also feel that I would
still be with his father too. |
What are your personal goals? (goals for
yourself as an individual not as a mother) |
To eventually attend collrge. To be what,
I don't know. I would love to go into photography though. |
Have your goals changed since you became
a parent? |
not really |
Do you feel that reaching your goals will
be more difficult now that your a teen parent? |
yes |
What would you tell a (school age) 12-18
year old girl that wanted to get pregnant? |
I tell them all the time to wait till you've
lived a little. |
How do you think being a Young Mother has
changed you? |
Truthfully, I have become a more emotional
person which is not always good, but then I have also closed
myself off to the world a lot too. |
How do you think society looks upon teen
pregnancy? |
I think they are growing more accustom
to it. They don't really approve of it, but are dealing with
it. |
Why do you think there are so many teen
parents? |
Because they are not careful and some think
that it is not a big deal. |
List 5 Pro's to being a teen Mother? |
you will still be young when you're children
have children(maybe) |
List 5 Con's to being a teen Mother?: |
you don't get to go out anymore, you loose
friend's because they don't understand, you might get frowned
upon by society |
What do you expect to get out of being
a member of Young Mothers?: |
To be supported by other's who are in the
same situation. |
Today's Date: |
June 26, 2000 |