| Name: | Adrienne |
| Country: | United States |
| State: | Tennessee |
| Age: | 19 |
| Your Birthday: | April 2, 1981 |
| Special Talents: | none really |
| Hobbies: | reading, messing around with the computer and playing with Kyle |
| Where do you work? | I am a SAHM at the moment |
| Were you working when you became pregnant? If yes, doing what? | Manager at McDonald's |
| Are you in school? | no |
| If you've graduated, what is your degree? | high school diploma |
| How old were you when you had your first child? | 18 |
| Did you keep? abort? give up for adoption?: | I kept him |
| Was it the first time you had sex? | no |
| Were you and the father a couple? | yes |
| Are you still together? | not right now, but I'm working on it |
| If you're not together, is the father involved? How is he involved? | kind of, he doesn't see much of Kyle because he works so much |
| Were you using protection against pregnancy? If yes, what kind? | no :( |
| If not, was it because you were trying to get pregnant? Please explain: | no, I was waiting till I turned 18 to get myself on birth control because I didn't want my mom to have to come with me. I got pregnant right before I had the chance to start taking them. |
| Did you know how you would support the baby? Support yourself? | we were both working and were going to do the best we could |
| Were you using protection against STDs? | no, but we both lost our virginity to each other so ther was no chance other either of us having one |
| How many children do you have? | one |
| What are their names, ages, birthdays? | Kyle Alexander Fisher born December 1, 1999(almost 7 months old) |
| Was the pregnancy emotionally difficult? | VERY because his father broke up with me when I was 5 months pregnant |
| Was the pregnancy physically difficult? i.e. were there any medical problems? | I was very sick for the first 3 months and then had constant dizziness throughout the pregnancy. I ended up with toxemia at the end. |
| What was/is the most difficult experience as a young mother? | Being alone and not having anyone to talk to. |
| Was your family helpful/supportive? | yes |
| Did you stay at home with your parents? | I lived with my boyfriend for the first 5 months and then after we broke up I moved back in with my mom. |
| Did your family help support you? The baby? Emotionally, financially, or both? | my mom supported me both ways. |
| Do they support you now? Emotionally, financially, or both? | both |
| Did/do you need public assistance? How did/does that make you feel? | yes I do need it, but I don't want it. I hate needing someone elses help. |
| Was the father's family involved with the pregnancy? Emotionally, financially, or both? | no, I didn't want them to be |
| Did the father's family help support you? Emotionally, financially, or both? | no |
| Does the child have a relationship with the paternal Grandparents? | a very close relationship with my mom and he sees his other grandma every now and then |
| Do you feel accepted by people your age? | yes, but I feel a little different because I can't really talk to them about what I'm gioing through. |
| Do you feel like you have it harder than people your own age without children? | definitely! I NEVER go out at all. |
| Are you happy with the decisions you have made? (Be honest. . .it's ok to feel bad, we all do sometimes) | I love my son with all my heart and it is totally amazing to feel this way. If I had it all to do over again though, I would have gotten on birth control sooner because I was not ready to have a child yet. I also feel that I would still be with his father too. |
| What are your personal goals? (goals for yourself as an individual not as a mother) | To eventually attend collrge. To be what, I don't know. I would love to go into photography though. |
| Have your goals changed since you became a parent? | not really |
| Do you feel that reaching your goals will be more difficult now that your a teen parent? | yes |
| What would you tell a (school age) 12-18 year old girl that wanted to get pregnant? | I tell them all the time to wait till you've lived a little. |
| How do you think being a Young Mother has changed you? | Truthfully, I have become a more emotional person which is not always good, but then I have also closed myself off to the world a lot too. |
| How do you think society looks upon teen pregnancy? | I think they are growing more accustom to it. They don't really approve of it, but are dealing with it. |
| Why do you think there are so many teen parents? | Because they are not careful and some think that it is not a big deal. |
| List 5 Pro's to being a teen Mother? | you will still be young when you're children have children(maybe) |
| List 5 Con's to being a teen Mother?: | you don't get to go out anymore, you loose friend's because they don't understand, you might get frowned upon by society |
| What do you expect to get out of being a member of Young Mothers?: | To be supported by other's who are in the same situation. |
| Today's Date: | June 26, 2000 |