| Name: | Dorothy |
| Online Name: | dorothysbaby |
| Country: | Canada |
| Age: | 19 |
| Your Birthday: | Feb. 7th, 1980 |
| Special Talents: | enter here |
| Hobbies: | enter here |
| Where do you work? | grocery store as a cashier |
| Were you working when you became pregnant? If yes, doing what? | yes, at Burger King |
| Are you in school? | No. Graduated HS in '98 |
| If you've graduated, what is your degree? | No degree. I will be going to college next fall. |
| How old were you when you had your first child? | 19 |
| Did you keep? abort? give up for adoption?: | I kept him. |
| Was it the first time you had sex? | at 16 |
| Were you and the father a couple? | yup! |
| Are you still together? | Nope! |
| If you're not together, is the father involved? How is he involved? | He sees Nicolas evry second weekend. That's it. |
| Were you using protection against pregnancy? If yes, what kind? | just condoms |
| If not, was it because you were trying to get pregnant? Please explain: | enter here |
| Did you know how you would support the baby? Support yourself? | no. That's what worried me the most. But things are great. |
| Were you using protection against STDs? | condoms |
| How many children do you have? | one son. |
| What are their names, ages, birthdays? | Nicolas Martin, born April 15th. He is 6 months old. |
| Was the pregnancy emotionally difficult? | No. |
| Was the pregnancy physically difficult? i.e. were there any medical problems? | I had gall stones in my 8th month. I had severe attacks and 6 weeks after Nicolas was born, I had my gall bladder removed. |
| What was/is the most difficult experience as a young mother? | No sleep. |
| Was your family helpful/supportive? | Very. My mother loves Nicolas soooo much! |
| Did you stay at home with your parents? | Yes. I'm staying here until I finish college. |
| Did your family help support you? The baby? Emotionally, financially, or both? | My parents supported me emotionally.I support Nicolas. |
| Do they support you now? Emotionally, financially, or both? | Yes, they support me both way, but I support Nicolas financially. |
| Did/do you need public assistance? How did/does that make you feel? | No. My ex and I make enough to support Nicolas. |
| Was the father's family involved with the pregnancy? Emotionally, financially, or both? | Yes, very. His mother is a doll. |
| Did the father's family help support you? Emotionally, financially, or both? | Just emotionally. |
| Does the child have a relationship with the paternal Grandparents? | Yes, very much. |
| Do you feel accepted by people your age? | Yes. |
| Do you feel like you have it harder than people your own age without children? | Sometimes. Then I consider myself lucky that I have Nicolas. |
| Are you happy with the decisions you have made? (Be honest. . .it's ok to feel bad, we all do sometimes) | Yes, but sometimes I wish I would have been more careful. |
| What are your personal goals? (goals for yourself as an individual not as a mother) | Finish college, get a great job and move out with Nicolas. |
| Have your goals changed since you became a parent? | Somewhat. College was put on hold for 2 years, but that's ok. |
| Do you feel that reaching your goals will be more difficult now that your a teen parent? | No, not really. |
| What would you tell a (school age) 12-18 year old girl that wanted to get pregnant? | WAIT! |
| How do you think being a Young Mother has changed you? | I'm more mature now. |
| How do you think society looks upon teen pregnancy? | enter here |
| Why do you think there are so many teen parents? | enter here |
| List 5 Pro's to being a teen Mother? | |
| List 5 Con's to being a teen Mother?: | enter here |
| What do you expect to get out of being a member of Young Mothers?: | Talking to other teens about there experiences. |
| Today's Date: | Oct. 19th |