Name: |
Janett |
Online Name: |
AngelzFall |
Country: |
United States |
State: |
South Carolina |
Age: |
19 |
Your Birthday: |
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Special Talents: |
some web design,I'm a fast reader and I
can cook!! |
Hobbies: |
reading, watching Stephen King movies,
talking, writing, playing with my baby!, driving, |
Where do you work? |
home |
Were you working when you became pregnant?
If yes, doing what? |
no |
Are you in school? |
I'm taking correspondance courses from
PA |
If you've graduated, what is your degree? |
Nothing yet |
How old were you when you had your first
child? |
19 |
Did you keep? abort? give up for adoption?: |
Kept him |
Was it the first time you had sex? |
No |
Were you and the father a couple? |
We were married |
Are you still together? |
we're married |
If you're not together, is the father involved?
How is he involved? |
N/A |
Were you using protection against pregnancy?
If yes, what kind? |
Nope |
If not, was it because you were trying
to get pregnant? Please explain: |
No, It didn't really matter. We were not
trying to have a baby and we were not trying to not have a baby.
We both wanted one but I think we were to scared to admit it. |
Did you know how you would support the
baby? Support yourself? |
Yes |
Were you using protection against STDs? |
No |
How many children do you have? |
Just one |
What are their names, ages, birthdays? |
Jordan William he's 7 months and his birthday
is Nov 12 |
Was the pregnancy emotionally difficult? |
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Was the pregnancy physically difficult?
i.e. were there any medical problems? |
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What was/is the most difficult experience
as a young mother? |
yes |
Was your family helpful/supportive? |
I don't have any local family. His was
sometimes. |
Did you stay at home with your parents? |
I had my own place |
Did your family help support you? The baby?
Emotionally, financially, or both? |
No |
Do they support you now? Emotionally, financially,
or both? |
no |
Did/do you need public assistance? How
did/does that make you feel? |
No |
Was the father's family involved with the
pregnancy? Emotionally, financially, or both? |
Only for him |
Did the father's family help support you?
Emotionally, financially, or both? |
No, emotionally they just made it worse |
Does the child have a relationship with
the paternal Grandparents? |
Not all of them |
Do you feel accepted by people your age? |
The only people I talk to my age are the
people I talk to online. |
Do you feel like you have it harder than
people your own age without children? |
yes, who wouldn't? |
Are you happy with the decisions you have
made? (Be honest. . .it's ok to feel bad, we all do sometimes) |
I wish we would have waited about a year
longer but I'm happy with. |
What are your personal goals? (goals for
yourself as an individual not as a mother) |
Get finished with school, go to college
and make something of myself for my baby, my husband and myself. |
Have your goals changed since you became
a parent? |
Only added a baby and a husband in there.
well a baby. We were married in Feb of 99 |
Do you feel that reaching your goals will
be more difficult now that your a teen parent? |
Yes |
What would you tell a (school age) 12-18
year old girl that wanted to get pregnant? |
I'll switch places with you for a day,
if that dosen't change her mind, nothing will |
How do you think being a Young Mother has
changed you? |
Other people that are my age and have no
baby, seem childish. Other than that, I don't think I've changed
much. |
How do you think society looks upon teen
pregnancy? |
Like you should be condimmed for life |
Why do you think there are so many teen
parents? |
I'm not real sure. |
List 5 Pro's to being a teen Mother? |
You have something that nobody else has.
2) It's wonderful seeing them grow up. 3)??? |
List 5 Con's to being a teen Mother?: |
Everybody has different reasons for being
against if afterwards but most people are stupid like they can't
go out parying all night or something like that. |
What do you expect to get out of being
a member of Young Mothers?: |
Friends, people who have been where I am
at and can give advice. |
Today's Date: |
June 16, 2000 |