| Name: |
Malinda |
| Country: |
U.S.A. |
| State: |
Texas |
| Age: |
17 |
| Special Talents: |
being a mother to 2 |
| Hobbies: |
making menus |
| Where do you work? |
at home taking care of my children |
| Were you working when you became pregnant?
If yes, doing what? |
no |
| Are you in school? |
I am getting my diploma at home |
| If you've graduated, what is your degree? |
enter here |
| How old were you when you had your first
child? |
14 |
| Did you keep? abort? give up for adoption?: |
keep them both |
| Was it the first time you had sex? |
no |
| Were you and the father a couple? |
yes and still are |
| Are you still together? |
yes |
| If you're not together, is the father involved?
How is he involved? |
enter here |
| Were you using protection against pregnancy?
If yes, what kind? |
yes condoms |
| If not, was it because you were trying
to get pregnant? Please explain: |
enter here |
| Did you know how you would support the
baby? Support yourself? |
yes |
| Were you using protection against STDs? |
yes, but not for that purpose |
| How many children do you have? |
2 boys |
| What are their names, ages, birthdays? |
Austin 3 11-1-96 August 1 8-13-98 |
| Was the pregnancy emotionally difficult? |
no |
| Was the pregnancy physically difficult?
i.e. were there any medical problems? |
premature labor with Austin and August
was a premie |
| What was/is the most difficult experience
as a young mother? |
being judged |
| Was your family helpful/supportive? |
yes some of them |
| Did you stay at home with your parents? |
for 2 months |
| Did your family help support you? The baby?
Emotionally, financially, or both? |
emotionally yes finacially for 2 months |
| Do they support you now? Emotionally, financially,
or both? |
emotionally |
| Did/do you need public assistance? How
did/does that make you feel? |
did didn't like it at all |
| Was the father's family involved with the
pregnancy? Emotionally, financially, or both? |
yes both |
| Did the father's family help support you?
Emotionally, financially, or both? |
emotionally |
| Does the child have a relationship with
the paternal Grandparents? |
yes |
| Do you feel accepted by people your age? |
yes they were great |
| Do you feel like you have it harder than
people your own age without children? |
no not really |
| Are you happy with the decisions you have
made? (Be honest. . .it's ok to feel bad, we all do sometimes) |
yes very much so |
| What are your personal goals? (goals for
yourself as an individual not as a mother) |
to either own my own business or be a therapist |
| Have your goals changed since you became
a parent? |
no |
| Do you feel that reaching your goals will
be more difficult now that your a teen parent? |
no |
| What would you tell a (school age) 12-18
year old girl that wanted to get pregnant? |
I would tell them what it is like and explain
what they would be missing |
| How do you think being a Young Mother has
changed you? |
made me a better person |
| How do you think society looks upon teen
pregnancy? |
usually very poorly |
| Why do you think there are so many teen
parents? |
I can't really say |
| List 5 Pro's to being a teen Mother? |
growing with my children,still young and
energetic, |
| List 5 Con's to being a teen Mother?: |
being judged |
| What do you expect to get out of being
a member of Young Mothers?: |
to meet other teen parents |
| Today's Date: |
11-15-99 |
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