| Name: | Micehlle |
| Online Name:s | happy2bewithgon |
| Country: | USA |
| State: | Cali,Babie! |
| Age: | 20 |
| Your Birthday: | 12/27/79 |
| Special Talents: | learning html codes,trying to train my puppy, and makin homemade Bread |
| Hobbies: | Makin homemade bread, spending time on the net |
| Where do you work? | DON'T!!! YEAH!!! |
| Were you working when you became pregnant? If yes, doing what? | Yes, was a repo agent for Union Bank of cali |
| Are you in school? | I wish! |
| If you've graduated, what is your degree? | high school in '98 for general ed |
| How old were you when you had your first child? | 18 |
| Did you keep? abort? give up for adoption?: | kept her |
| Was it the first time you had sex? | NO!!! LOL!! |
| Were you and the father a couple? | for a short time |
| Are you still together? | LOL!!! NO!!! |
| If you're not together, is the father involved? How is he involved? | LOL!!! NO!!! His wishes! |
| Were you using protection against pregnancy? If yes, what kind? | Nope |
| If not, was it because you were trying to get pregnant? Please explain: | Didn't because we wanted a baby but didn't expect it to happen that fast! |
| Did you know how you would support the baby? Support yourself? | Yep!! Myself |
| Were you using protection against STDs? | Nope |
| How many children do you have? | 2 |
| What are their names, ages, birthdays? | Anya Nicole-Marie..9/8/98...almost 2....Schyular...5/26/00...two months old! |
| Was the pregnancy emotionally difficult? | Nopers! I Loved Being Preggos |
| Was the pregnancy physically difficult? i.e. were there any medical problems? | Nopers |
| What was/is the most difficult experience as a young mother? | Tryin to find "me" time! |
| Was your family helpful/supportive? | yes, my mommy wouldn't let me move out |
| Did you stay at home with your parents? | yes! |
| Did your family help support you? The baby? Emotionally, financially, or both? | Emotionally |
| Do they support you now? Emotionally, financially, or both? | Emotionally |
| Did/do you need public assistance? How did/does that make you feel? | yes, not too bad since I was only on it for a couple months! |
| Was the father's family involved with the pregnancy? Emotionally, financially, or both? | nope |
| Did the father's family help support you? Emotionally, financially, or both? | nope |
| Does the child have a relationship with the paternal Grandparents? | sorta |
| Do you feel accepted by people your age? | sorta |
| Do you feel like you have it harder than people your own age without children? | oh yeah!! |
| Are you happy with the decisions you have made? (Be honest. . .it's ok to feel bad, we all do sometimes) | YES!!! |
| What are your personal goals? (goals for yourself as an individual not as a mother) | To go back to college |
| Have your goals changed since you became a parent? | nope |
| Do you feel that reaching your goals will be more difficult now that your a teen parent? | nope |
| What would you tell a (school age) 12-18 year old girl that wanted to get pregnant? | To seriously consider what having a baby meant. then let her spend time with my kids! |
| How do you think being a Young Mother has changed you? | Made me stronger |
| How do you think society looks upon teen pregnancy? | its a spilt decision, some think that its okay and becoming excepted while others think that its taboo to be having sex at such a young age! |
| Why do you think there are so many teen parents? | Because us as teens think that we know everything! =( |
| List 5 Pro's to being a teen Mother? | 1)Being young enough to enjoy your child's youth.2)getting your body back into shape easier. 3)knowing that you can take care of yourself and someone else. |
| List 5 Con's to being a teen Mother?: | 1)not being able to finish school.2)having people look down upon you.3)losing your so called friends.4)having limited me time. |
| What do you expect to get out of being a member of Young Mothers?: | to better myself by knowing that I can take care of someone else! |
| Today's Date: | 7/28/00 |