Name: Nicci
Online Name: enter here
Country: USA
State: Texas
Age: 24
Your Birthday: June 8, 1975
Special Talents: I do a great imitation of Jewel (hehe)
Hobbies: Home decorating, chatting, web design, etc.
Where do you work? SAHM
Were you working when you became pregnant? If yes, doing what? Glamour Shots
Are you in school? no
If you've graduated, what is your degree? HS degree...college--less than 1 semester.
How old were you when you had your first child? 20
Did you keep? abort? give up for adoption?: Happily *kept*
Was it the first time you had sex? nooo no no no
Were you and the father a couple? yes
Are you still together? yes
If you're not together, is the father involved? How is he involved? enter here
Were you using protection against pregnancy? If yes, what kind? none
If not, was it because you were trying to get pregnant? Please explain: Yes, we were trying.
Did you know how you would support the baby? Support yourself? Fiance` had/has a good, steady job.
Were you using protection against STDs? No, I was in a safe, monogamous relationship.
How many children do you have? 1
What are their names, ages, birthdays? Kelci Taylor Nichole--age4--Jan. 20, 1996
Was the pregnancy emotionally difficult? Fotrunately, no
Was the pregnancy physically difficult? i.e. were there any medical problems? Thanks to the Lord above, no.
What was/is the most difficult experience as a young mother? As far as being a young SAHM, it's often hard to deal with the loneliness, isolation, and every-day frustrations of staying home with your child.
Was your family helpful/supportive? Tremendously
Did you stay at home with your parents? Yes
Did your family help support you? The baby? Emotionally, financially, or both? Yes, until Kelci was almost a year old.
Do they support you now? Emotionally, financially, or both? Emotionally
Did/do you need public assistance? How did/does that make you feel? No
Was the father's family involved with the pregnancy? Emotionally, financially, or both? Both
Did the father's family help support you? Emotionally, financially, or both? Emotionally
Does the child have a relationship with the paternal Grandparents? Yes
Do you feel accepted by people your age? Yes
Do you feel like you have it harder than people your own age without children? At times
Are you happy with the decisions you have made? (Be honest. . .it's ok to feel bad, we all do sometimes) I can honestly say I am happy with my decisions.
What are your personal goals? (goals for yourself as an individual not as a mother) To make a positive impression wherever, whatever I do. I want to be creative. Happy. Have peace of mind. Win the next lotto! J/K!
Have your goals changed since you became a parent? Most definitely!
Do you feel that reaching your goals will be more difficult now that your a teen parent? n/a
What would you tell a (school age) 12-18 year old girl that wanted to get pregnant? I would tell her to enjoy her own childhood/teenage years because they only comes around ONCE!
How do you think being a Young Mother has changed you? Made me more responsible and caring.
How do you think society looks upon teen pregnancy? I think people just "expect" it these days.
Why do you think there are so many teen parents? Hmmm...low self-esteem? irresponsible? I really don't know, exactly why.
List 5 Pro's to being a teen Mother?
List 5 Con's to being a teen Mother?:
What do you expect to get out of being a member of Young Mothers?: Fellowship, unity, friendship, etc.
Today's Date: March 1st, 2000