| Name: | Ozma |
| Online Name: | Ozma |
| Country: | USA |
| State: | OH |
| Age: | 24 |
| Your Birthday: | 11 May |
| Special Talents: | enter here |
| Hobbies: | Anything fun! Reading, skiing, swiming, walking, dancing, karaoke, games, writing, etc |
| Where do you work? | I'm a stay home mom. |
| Were you working when you became pregnant? If yes, doing what? | Nope! |
| Are you in school? | Not currently |
| If you've graduated, what is your degree? | enter here |
| How old were you when you had your first child? | 21 |
| Did you keep? abort? give up for adoption?: | Kept him, and he is the highlight of my life!! |
| Was it the first time you had sex? | no |
| Were you and the father a couple? | yes |
| Are you still together? | yes |
| If you're not together, is the father involved? How is he involved? | enter here |
| Were you using protection against pregnancy? If yes, what kind? | no |
| If not, was it because you were trying to get pregnant? Please explain: | Yes, we wanted a child. |
| Did you know how you would support the baby? Support yourself? | enter here |
| Were you using protection against STDs? | enter here |
| How many children do you have? | Two |
| What are their names, ages, birthdays? | Caramon is three: 20 October 1996 Joram is 1: 27 September 1998 |
| Was the pregnancy emotionally difficult? | enter here |
| Was the pregnancy physically difficult? i.e. were there any medical problems? | Yes, you name it I have had it just about!!! Let's see, preterm labour, bedrest, extremely sick, and toxemia on the first... the second pregancy made the first look like a cakewalk. |
| What was/is the most difficult experience as a young mother? | Being accepted as a mother. Sometimes I get treated like I don't know what I am doing. |
| Was your family helpful/supportive? | Yes. |
| Did you stay at home with your parents? | No |
| Did your family help support you? The baby? Emotionally, financially, or both? | My family was very supportive in any way they could! |
| Do they support you now? Emotionally, financially, or both? | They still support me in any way they can. |
| Did/do you need public assistance? How did/does that make you feel? | We used to get WIC (Women Infants and Children) but we don't qualify anymore. It is nice to think we are "well enough off" not to qualify, but I really miss it!! I liked being on it because it was a really big help. We were doing all we could and we still qualified for it, so we took it! |
| Was the father's family involved with the pregnancy? Emotionally, financially, or both? | Yes, anyway that they could be. |
| Did the father's family help support you? Emotionally, financially, or both? | Yes, anyway that they could! |
| Does the child have a relationship with the paternal Grandparents? | Yes |
| Do you feel accepted by people your age? | I suppose so. Mainly it is my "old" crowd though. I find that I am tending to find people older than myself to hang out with now. |
| Do you feel like you have it harder than people your own age without children? | Sometimes. Though I think our struggles now are often the struggles that everyone faces at some point in there lives! |
| Are you happy with the decisions you have made? (Be honest. . .it's ok to feel bad, we all do sometimes) | enter here |
| What are your personal goals? (goals for yourself as an individual not as a mother) | I am a year and a half from my Bachelor's degree, I would love to get that. I would also like to pay off our bills!! |
| Have your goals changed since you became a parent? | Not really, but some seem to be taking longer to achieve! |
| Do you feel that reaching your goals will be more difficult now that your a teen parent? | enter here |
| What would you tell a (school age) 12-18 year old girl that wanted to get pregnant? | enter here |
| How do you think being a Young Mother has changed you? | I enjoy my life, much more than ever before. I suppose that in a way, I have found my place in the world and it has brought me much joy and happiness! |
| How do you think society looks upon teen pregnancy? | I think that varies on where you are. In my High School it was just a part of life. Plenty of girls were pregnant. But there are still places that think it is awful. I think that a majority of society feels sorry for the pregnant teens though... knowing what a rough road they have chosen to follow. |
| Why do you think there are so many teen parents? | enter here |
| List 5 Pro's to being a teen Mother? | enter here |
| List 5 Con's to being a teen Mother?: | enter here |
| What do you expect to get out of being a member of Young Mothers?: | enter here |
| Today's Date: | 1 December 1999 |