subject object in love in education in religion in Tao in everything

The subject, does; the object done upon.

different names, different descriptions:

master, servant, to serve and not to be served, the least, the smallest, the biggest, the first, the last, etc... If you want to be the biggest, be the smallest

your loved one was once your subject, your queen but after you conquered her, became your object- a sex slave, a maid, no more respect. Man's love of the subject makes him want to, since he can't be subject himself, possess what he thought was the subject, thinking he can be a part of the subject. In reality, he destroys the only thing he has, an illusion. To forever live in that matrimony bliss, pay the due respect ever after

In teaching, the students who are at the top control everything, run everything, does things, design things, pick rubbish for the polluted beach, hold meetings for the mock UN; those at the bottom, are run, stuffed and spoonfed. Their teachers have treated them as objects instead of living subjects. Their teachers have also treated the language they are teaching as dead objects to be fed to dead objects. Never as living things for lively purpose. Students who are thus maltreated hate it and are bored by it. But if you want to change them, they will hate you. For they are at a loss of what to do and cannot comprehend what you are doing.

Then how come students in the fifties and sixties did so well? That's because they were objects trying to rise up and become subjects. They make dead things alive. Now, the objects no longer want to rise up. They want not, they have everything, their parents have given them.