Dear TT:
Dressing twins alike is considered "cute", however I don't want my children to be considered objects and I dislike the confusion that comes from dressing them alike. On the other hand, it's extra work to shop for two different styles of clothes all of the time. What do you suggest?
- D.P. Otomawa, IA

The desire to dress identical twins alike is almost irresistible, and you're right, it does save time shopping as well. It's hard to find clothing in the style, size and price that you want, and why double your trouble? Consider purchasing clothing that is similar in style, but not identical. Most clothing patterns will come in different varieties (blue stripes versus red stripes, etc.). Purchase these combinations. Your twins will be dressed similarly, but not exactly alike. You should also remember to go to resales offered by your local twins or multiple births organizations. You will probably be able to make substantial savings compared to buying the clothes new.

Dear TT:
My twins are entering first grade. Should I have them separated into different classes?
- M.A. Cleveland, OH

Different schools will have different policies regarding keeping twins together in class. You should first check with your school to see if they
have established such a policy. If not, the answer to your question depends on your children. In some cases, a child will flourish without having his or her twin nearby. In other cases, this absence of support and familiarity that a twin brings, can be very hard. You should talk to your children and find out how they feel about the issue. The bottom line is that a happy and comfortable environment is the best enviroment for your twins to learn in.

Dear TT:
I'm looking to purchase a stroller. Do you have any suggestions about the type of stroller I should buy?
- W.W. Savannah, GA

You're in luck. This month's issue of Twin Life, contains an informative article on different types of twin strollers. Check it out.