Dialogue with a Clinton hater.

The following is a dialogue which illustrates how the passions surrounding this issue can polarize people who might be expected to agree. This is from a moderated men's issues mailing list. There are 4 separate posts represented here, beginning with my worthy opposition's response to a very inflammatory post of mine exhorting men to get off their passive butts and, instead of continuing to complain about how the tide of social policy and practice is turning against them, demand more of a voice in the decisions of our government representatives than they now have. Below this first message are my response, plus two more exchanges, indicated both by typestyle and indentation. My critic's comments are all in italics.

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"John Galt repeats himself any number of times:

"PUT IT ON THE BALLOT! "

I don't know where John comes from, but his request from a practical consideration does not make any sense for any number of reasons.

1. There is no legal way to put it on a ballot without any kind of legislation.

2. The vote would be equivalent to another presidental election. Here, the consitution is *very* clear that it be held every fourth year, etc.

3. Such a vote would profoundly change our system into a parlimentary system.

4. There already exists under the consitution a method to address the situation.

5. ...

What I would like to see is the discussion relating to the impact of what is going on to men's issues. After all, Clinton was/is the male feminist supreme. And now, literally, he has been caught with his pants down.

If perjury is acceptable under civil court action, it condones something that many male posters have complained about -- their to-be-ex lying in court. My opinion says that if Clinton gets away with it, there will be no recourse to men in trial courts.

Stated another way, what will, if any the consequences of Clinton's actions have on the feminist movement? I think what is going on is relevant to this ng."

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Yes, I do repeat myself. It is a time honored rhetorical method of providing emphasis to a statement. In this electronic Boston commons, it takes some creativity to keep the textual verbage from going flat. However, I'll switch styles from attempts to rouse passions with rhetoric to trying to persuade with common sense.

I am frankly a bit surprised at real resistance to a suggestion that current methods and technology of communication be used to resolve this crisis in a manner similar to their role in creating it. I am even more surprised that in a forum which regularly discusses the intrusive incursion of the government into men's lives as a result of the actions of special interest groups that I would find resistance to a suggestion that could restore to men some of the power which has been stripped of them in order to provide entitlements to others.

I would have expected my proposal to be as attractive to opponents of the current president as to his supporters, because it could give them the means to remove him from office far sooner than will be possible in a lengthy impeachment process. My personal opinion is that congress may actually have more support for his removal on the grounds of fitness for duty than on the perjury accusation. Clearly he has destroyed his own credibility and the confidence of the public, and that is certainly central to a determination whether he is ABLE to discharge the duties of his office. The impeachment process is risky. The only other time it has been invoked, it failed and seriously disrupted the country. I don't think it is in the interests of anyone to spend the next year with congress and the president fighting each other and ignoring more pressing concerns, only to have it turn out that he serves out what little is left of his term anyway.

I certainly consider these as relevant issues for men, particularly in light of the fact that the incursions on men's lives have occurred over several administrations of both parties and are not likely to go away when Clinton does. In light of the fact that the momentum of government is so contrary to the interests of a lot of men, perhaps it could use a bit of change. In particular, it could use a bit of opening up to guys who are struggling to make a living and provide for their families, or keep up CS payments, and have neither the time to become sqeaky wheels, nor the money to fund special interest lobbies. I tend to believe that a popular recall mechanism would serve men's interests quite well in cases such as VAWA and they could demand public confirmation that the public regarded it as being in their interest.

I'm not sure of what method you mean in item 4 above, but it seems to sound like "going through channels." While I have no objection to that under normal circumstances, what we are discussing is far from normal. Protocol is cumbersome enough that channels which were established in the pre-electronic age would delay any action until the election is passed, thus missing the window of opportunity. It is the very fact that the election is already scheduled, structured, and has verification mechanisms which make it such a perfect vehicle to replace the "public opinion" polls which have neither validity or significance.

Regarding the implications of this case for men in general, I think the most horrible possible outcome for men would be to allow Lewinsky's testimony and credibility not to be aggressively challenged. Putting the word of a woman barely out of her teens, described by many as immature, who grew up going to weekly sessions with her psychiatrist like many kids go to music lessons, and who now takes anti-depressive medication; on equal footing with a man who is a Rhodes Scholar, attorney, and who has shown the political savvy to be elected governor twice and president twice; cannot possibly serve men. Somewhere this great leveling must cease and statements by a woman not continue to have instant and unassailable credibility.

The Jones case should have been dismissed long ago on lack of merit, as it finally was. A horrible implication for men of the way this case has played is that it establishes the precedent for keeping a Sexual Harassment case alive indefinitely as long as the prosecution can keep proving that the accused has had sex with SOME woman. It may be possible to get some of the "rape shield" laws struck down, but, unless and until they are, full disclosure of a man's sexual history as relevant while suppressing any of the woman's sexual history makes men sitting ducks and defenseless to charges. >

This case is a great victory for feminism, meaning the capricious ends justify the means kind of feminism. Of the two principles in the activity involved, the man is getting nailed, while the woman is able to remain free of any consequences of her own actions and choices.

JG