I'M A GENIUS

Have you ever heard your friends talking about you? And how you can't listen to them and they will stop hanging out with you? If you have been in this situation or know someone that went through this it hurts in a really bad way. Now is time to change and make people want to be your friends. It will feel good to change Right! You could make your life easier with your friends but you should first learn the steps to get there. Listening to our friends is one thing that few of us know how to do, you will also be able to be with your pals without doing everything they want you to do. It's hard to hang out with friends that want you to do everything they want you to do, but there are ways to hang out with them, doing what you want to do. The third step is knowing who your friends are and who you trust with what. It's hard but there is a formula for that like there is a formula for everything in life, just follow the steps and you will show your friends that you could be great.

To be a friend you need to learn some skills. People take friendships for granted, but they are no supposed to do that. To be a great friend you need to learn how to be a great listener, so your pals can talk to you about their problems and thoughts that sometimes they keep it to themselves, If you want to be listened to, you should be able to listen to them first. You may be asking yourself, "How you do that?" sometimes what others say doesn't interest us but at the end they are friends and no matter what listening to them is important.Look at them when they're talking to you, don't interrupt them when they're talking and try not to be interrupted by other things that are going on around you. Give your opinion when you think they need it, give them your support and they'll find a shouldeer to cry on with you.

The second step of being a great friend is to know how to be a great friend with out doing everything they want you to do? This may be hard but you can do it, I had to go throught some experiences of my own. "My friend wanted me cut school and go to her boyfriends house with her I didn't want to do this because I didn't what to deal with my parents if they found out. They will be mad at me for a long time so I had to chose between having fun for a day or listening to my parents screaming at me and remembering it for the rest of my life and also my parents screaming at me for it everytime I do something wrong or when they remember it. So I thought about the problem I will have with my family and decided not do it, We had a fight about it and we ended up mad at each other. She left with her boyfriend, When I got home she call me and said that she was sorry about what had happen and she understood why I did that she said she respected my decision and we were cool about it." I haven't explain how you do this but here it is. To hang around with your friends you would do anything right well you shouldn't. Friends are great but we don't have to do everything they say there are things we have to think about it before you do certain things.I understood why she acted like she did and our friendship was great, To have your friends with you with out doing everything they say you, should do small things for them try to do somethings they ask you to do but not all, think about your self first, when you don't want to do something they tell you to give them a reason for your decision doing some of the things they ask you to do will show them that you like spending time with them and that you are a friend.

You have learn two steps of being a great friend, your up to the third, this step is How to know who your real friends are? some times is easy to see who your real friends are but some times is not. Friends give us certain signs that show us what kind of a friend we are to them, Like in my story before my friend show me that she respected me and that cared about our fiendship. Respect is a great part of friendship, I have friends that have other friends that treat them like trash. We are humans we should respect each other and we are all equal there is no reason of the planet earth we should treat people like trash. We are smart enought to know that people that treat us like trash aren't friends, there are friends that want us as friends because we what you have(cash), I bet you know people like that, you should never use people because of what they got. friends that say"Get me that or I'm not your friend" people that say this to you are not your friends they want what you have. this are people that are not our friends, Our friends are people who respect us, are there when you need a shoulder to cry on.

By now you think about yourself as a great friend. I bet you really learn from my experiences and from the steps I have told you about, go out there scream to the world that your great,feel good about yourself, your a great listener, you have learn how to be with your friends without doing everything they want you to do, and how to know who your real friends are. People would notice the difference in you and those who were getting out hand will came back, So have fun and I wish you have time for all the friends that are coming your way.